While I've known my dude for a li'l over 4 months, we hooked up a month ago. Been talking a lot and spending every moment with each other. Sometimes I think it's a li'l too much time with each other. What's funny is we started off as a no strings relationship, which never took off....cos he decided on no sex rt at the begining. Says wud like to see if there's something here btwn us long term. There was all the kisses and hugs and cuddles. And he wud do everything for me from cooking to taking me places and running errands for me.
And he said that he loves me on the second week itself and every week after that. Which scares me cos we really don't know where this is headed. Times he says we might not be together but he'll always love me. And is not thinking of moving in, which is good cos I can't deal with a live in rt now. Not even a relationship, I guess. But I slowly find myself falling in love with him. He's been persistently breaking down all my walls. Hadn't planned on falling...now that I am, I really wud like to see a future with him. Dunno how to approach him with it. While he's living with me and our mutual friends know...he still doesn't want anything out in the open. Him sleeping with me when the friend was in the living room....dunno how much more open it casn get...but he's still wary of people knowing...dunno what to make of this. Do I wait and watch for him to make up his mind? I did ask him what's going on and he got very quiet and uncomfortable. Don't want to scare him off with more persistent qs. Being a Virgo, I get paranoid easily. Don't want a broken heart. Wud like to get answers before am headed the path leading to a broken heart. Any insight anyone?
Oohh..thank you, Robyn808! U're right, he makes me feel good and know that the feeling's only mutual. Will put my paranoia to rest and go with the flow. 🙂
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And he said that he loves me on the second week itself and every week after that. Which scares me cos we really don't know where this is headed. Times he says we might not be together but he'll always love me. And is not thinking of moving in, which is good cos I can't deal with a live in rt now. Not even a relationship, I guess. But I slowly find myself falling in love with him. He's been persistently breaking down all my walls. Hadn't planned on falling...now that I am, I really wud like to see a future with him. Dunno how to approach him with it. While he's living with me and our mutual friends know...he still doesn't want anything out in the open. Him sleeping with me when the friend was in the living room....dunno how much more open it casn get...but he's still wary of people knowing...dunno what to make of this. Do I wait and watch for him to make up his mind? I did ask him what's going on and he got very quiet and uncomfortable. Don't want to scare him off with more persistent qs. Being a Virgo, I get paranoid easily. Don't want a broken heart. Wud like to get answers before am headed the path leading to a broken heart. Any insight anyone?