Is it real?

Hi all!

I'm new here but i've been reading this forum for quite sometimes and decided to joined in...

I need some insights and opinions about this Taurus guy that i've met. He is a nice guy but he's just broke up with his ex about 3 month ago. I've only meet him since a month ago and seems like there's something between us... I don't know.. but there is...(i'm a cancer 21st july) I get suspicious of his intention of getting to know me but he seems to be comfortable whenever we hang out. He said that he likes me and all but he also said that he needs time to heal and recover completely.

I can understand that since we've kinda having the same problem with the exes. I want to give him all the TIME that he wants. What I'm worried about is the way he acts when we were together. He likes to hold my hand, even kiss it.
What was that about? It is the real feeling he has for me @ he just on some kind of rebound?

Thnx all!

lostsoul - He may like you. The Taurus guy I know started being touchy feely the first time I saw him, not in a sexual way but in a caring and kind way (He gave me a big bear hug). We did not actually kiss until the 4th time we saw each other.

They like to touch and see skin and I know being a cancer you get guarded about his true intentions. Take it day by day and just be his friend, and if something else deeper than friendship develops on both parts then so be it. Remember he is freshly off a breakup from a relationship so take it slow and good luck!

I second that!

He's not going to lead you on, so you don't have to worry about his intentions. He'll SHOW you how he feels about you and when they express their emotions they are very real and direct. Allow things to go at his speed and you follow, that way he won't feel rushed and will be completly comfortable with you which is very important to the bull.

Hey....thanks a lot Hotgal78 and CL.

All I can say is that I really like this guy eventhough he's younger than me... owhh the way he brings himself with me...he seems matured than his age.

He seems to know what he wants. I want to take this slow and easy... I don't want to rush into anything right now..having out from the scene for almost 3 yrs..been hurt so bad before.
And you are absolutely right Hotgal78 - he likes to touched skin and he's very gentle and caring. And CL - i can say from my intuition that he shows his feeling through action. Being a taurus, seems action speaks louder than word isn't it?
And why i'm being cautious is that he's being frank about the other girls that he'd known.
Being cancer myself, I'm quite reserved of telling other people with whom i've been with.

Yes Taurus feels that actions speak louder than words. He's probably telling you about his past so you can get comfortable with him and he can get you to open up to him and be more comfortable. Don't hold back, when he's talking listen to him and you do some talking as well. I know it might feel uncomfortable but thats the point you want to get comfortable with one another.

LOL Mercinaries!
I do too...whenever i stop listening to my instinct all went wrong! But somehow seems like i've lost touched with my own feelings.

He's being frank about the girls he's been dating right now.. and i mean a lot! Like u know it Merc...Taurus guy attracting lots of gurl out there.

I guess that's why i always keep on hiding my own feelings just in case to be sure that he will not gonna hurt me.

Updates: He confessed to me that he likes me. And thank me for not being pushy and all..being open and reliable. Is cancer being pushy? I keep on wondering because I think i did it once in previous relationship but I know myself that I don't like to be push either.

I don't know why i like this guy.
I have a guy friend which is Taurus also and I can be who i am whenever i'm with him. We kinda share lots of things and problems. He seems to understand me better than anyone else i've ever met! But he's only a friend...and nothing more. But this Taurus..it's like he kinda lead me on but in a very subtle way. It's like he's playing some sort of a game. I don't like people played with my heart especially when it's involve my emotion.

I do wonder why he asked me if i just want to be his friends or expect more than that. And in the same time he also told me that he do like another girl and he's kinda confused but he knows who has a special place in his heart. I was surprised to hear that and I don't think I like people mess with my feelings. I don't want to be the other person because I've always been in this situation with most guys. I want to give this guy some time and when the times up.. when I had enough.. I just have to leave. Is this another cancer behaviour?

'i always wondered what made one guy a friend and the other a lover?'

Lol Merc, the first guy is actually my ex-schoolmate and we've been friend for quite some time...and really there's no sparks between us..
While the other one, is someone that i really like..