@UncertainWeasel
5 Years
is this Taurus guy lowkey pursuing me or am I going insane?
Is a Taurus Man Pursuing You or Just Being Friendly
A Taurus man showing interest may send personal pictures, offer help, or share songs. His actions suggest genuine care or interest, especially if consistent over months. However, Taurus men can also be friendly without romantic intent. Consider his overall behavior and your feelings to determine if he's pursuing you or just being kind.
Taurus Men and women pursue what they want. Period. He cares about you but that doesn't necessarily means he wants to be with you. Why don't you just relax and allow things to unfold naturally?? He hasn't pressured you from what you've shared and he's not openly pursuing you either which Taurus Signs in general naturally do with something they want for themselves. Relax..
I think he's a plant by your ex to keep tabs.
If he was interested in pursuing you romantically why would he buy a plane ticket for you to fly to your ex and reconcile?
In fact he might actually BE your ex catfishing and sending you some other dudes photos to 'prove' he's someone else. Get you attached emotionally so you can't move on and date someone else.
If you haven't spoken face to face I'd say it's highly likely this dude is your ex man catfishing.
I think he's a plant by your ex to keep tabs.
If he was interested in pursuing you romantically why would he buy a plane ticket for you to fly to your ex and reconcile?
In fact he might actually BE your ex catfishing and sending you some other dudes photos to 'prove' he's someone else. Get you attached emotionally so you can't move on and date someone else.
If you haven't spoken face to face I'd say it's highly likely this dude is your ex man catfishing.
you sound like a crazy cat lady
I'd be shocked if you're the only one he's stringing along for kicks. He strikes me as thirsty for validation from no matter the source.
I think he's a plant by your ex to keep tabs.
If he was interested in pursuing you romantically why would he buy a plane ticket for you to fly to your ex and reconcile?
In fact he might actually BE your ex catfishing and sending you some other dudes photos to 'prove' he's someone else. Get you attached emotionally so you can't move on and date someone else.
If you haven't spoken face to face I'd say it's highly likely this dude is your ex man catfishing.
you sound like a crazy cat lady
click to expandMore like a retarded sexually frustrated feminist. And in her case, we know all that to be true.
I think he's a plant by your ex to keep tabs.
If he was interested in pursuing you romantically why would he buy a plane ticket for you to fly to your ex and reconcile?
In fact he might actually BE your ex catfishing and sending you some other dudes photos to 'prove' he's someone else. Get you attached emotionally so you can't move on and date someone else.
If you haven't spoken face to face I'd say it's highly likely this dude is your ex man catfishing.
you sound like a crazy cat lady
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I’m a dog person, thank you.
True, all Taurus men are philanthropists... they gift plane tickets to anyone - just for the kicks (just trying to be nice). 😇
From my experience when they want you they go full steam ahead just like a bull. If he's not then he may be considering you a good friend.
I think he's a plant by your ex to keep tabs.
If he was interested in pursuing you romantically why would he buy a plane ticket for you to fly to your ex and reconcile?
In fact he might actually BE your ex catfishing and sending you some other dudes photos to 'prove' he's someone else. Get you attached emotionally so you can't move on and date someone else.
If you haven't spoken face to face I'd say it's highly likely this dude is your ex man catfishing.
you sound like a crazy cat lady
I’m a dog person, thank you.
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That's nice. you still sound like a crazy cat lady.
I don't think I would personally send money to a love interest to fly that person to see an ex for reconcile, but I would want to make sure that chapter is closed before making any kind of emotional investment, for sure. maybe i'm just naive, but I think it would take a pretty sadistic person to do something like that. or a pretty desperate loser.
HI there
I'm new, so please be kind.
I'm a Cancer woman. Of course I bloody am. Moon in pisces, ascendant Libra.
And for the past few months I have been talking to this Taurus man. Of course.
We have common friends. We talk at times. For the past 9 months we've been occasionally talking. I gues you'd say we are internet friends? He was there for me when I broke up with my boyfriend. And ever since then... it seems liek he's been trying to get closer to me, at teh speed of the stoned snail.
Started with sending me pictures of himself- very handsome man. This kind of confused me because what man sends pics of hismelf to a woman he'd never met? Not liek dick pics, pics of himself in various locales.
And if I comment on the pic? No answer.
Aside from being friendly and helpful he never gave me any sign he'd be interested in me.
And today he decided to send me a song. I'm confuised.
.
He is a vague aquaintance of my ex. When we broke up he gifted me plane tickets to go see my ex and try to work it out but... corona.
He's sent me a book and lent me a bit of money to make up the deposit I needed for a house I'm buying ( had an em.emmergency and had to dig into the funds I had set aside for it and ran short. I asked him and he sent it to me- in cash via DHL). I will pay him back asap.
I don't know if he's being friendly or interested.
I mean seriously, a Taurus willing to lend money? That's weird, right?
I don't know what to do with this. Any advice?
Weird situation regardless. i would approach with common sense and caution.
I think he's a plant by your ex to keep tabs.
If he was interested in pursuing you romantically why would he buy a plane ticket for you to fly to your ex and reconcile?
In fact he might actually BE your ex catfishing and sending you some other dudes photos to 'prove' he's someone else. Get you attached emotionally so you can't move on and date someone else.
If you haven't spoken face to face I'd say it's highly likely this dude is your ex man catfishing.
you sound like a crazy cat lady
I’m a dog person, thank you.
That's nice. you still sound like a crazy cat lady.
I don't think I would personally send money to a love interest to fly that person to see an ex for reconcile, but I would want to make sure that chapter is closed before making any kind of emotional investment, for sure. maybe i'm just naive, but I think it would take a pretty sadistic person to do something like that. or a pretty desperate loser.
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I have a suspicious mind + I’ve watched a lot of catfish.
Online friend ✔️
Never met in person just chatting online and sometimes calls✔️
Has Online friends in common with the ex ✔️
Was a listening ear when she broke up with the ex ✔️
Got her plane ticket to reconcile with the ex ✔️
Sends her money for a house payment ✔️
What relative stranger does that? I wouldn’t loan money to someone I’ve only known online for 9 months. Most rational people wouldn’t. Which is why my intuition is screaming that this ‘Taurus’ is someone close to her...possibly the ex.
Taurus sign are like back and white. It's either they like you or they don't. I dated a Taurus sign lady for about a month. She was direct and serious. After a month of dating I presume she found me wishy washy.
If he wasn't interested you he probably would have said that to you in a month. I also have this Taurus venus lady chasing me. She always wants to be around me. When I sense that she is trying to get my attention, I just play along. Sometimes I just express myself openly about how I feel. Mirroring how she feels as I do. To my surprise she plays along quite well.
However, sometimes she just comes off strange to me. Because the next minute she will tell me I have a boyfriend. I get confused as well. She also tells me that I should not be afraid to talk about my girl friend.
Sometimes she would come off intense towards me. Pinning me down, she can follow me to my house take me out, make sure that I don't move anywhere. Just sits with me for like 8 hours.
He's not pursuing you. That's how taurus men play the field. They friendzone themselves so they're around when you break up with your boyfriend. Then you start pursuing them especially since you're a cardinal cancer. You dont see it coming. He probably does this with over half the girls he comes across because it's a numbers game. When a taurus knows what he wants, he's direct af and hovers.
lends considerable sums of money to half the girls he comes across?
Hard to say. If he has aries moon then yes, definitely. Any other moon then it's still possible. He probably just called his bank after and said he didnt make that payment so the bank gave him his money back. ~thinking like a Taurus~
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HI there
I'm new, so please be kind.
I'm a Cancer woman. Of course I bloody am. Moon in pisces, ascendant Libra.
And for the past few months I have been talking to this Taurus man. Of course.
We have common friends. We talk at times. For the past 9 months we've been occasionally talking. I gues you'd say we are internet friends? He was there for me when I broke up with my boyfriend. And ever since then... it seems liek he's been trying to get closer to me, at teh speed of the stoned snail.
Started with sending me pictures of himself- very handsome man. This kind of confused me because what man sends pics of hismelf to a woman he'd never met? Not liek dick pics, pics of himself in various locales.
And if I comment on the pic? No answer.
Aside from being friendly and helpful he never gave me any sign he'd be interested in me.
And today he decided to send me a song. I'm confuised.
.
He is a vague aquaintance of my ex. When we broke up he gifted me plane tickets to go see my ex and try to work it out but... corona.
He's sent me a book and lent me a bit of money to make up the deposit I needed for a house I'm buying ( had an em.emmergency and had to dig into the funds I had set aside for it and ran short. I asked him and he sent it to me- in cash via DHL). I will pay him back asap.
I don't know if he's being friendly or interested.
I mean seriously, a Taurus willing to lend money? That's weird, right?
I don't know what to do with this. Any advice?