Is this the beginning of the end?

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by TaurusPrincess10 on Thursday, July 6, 2017 and has 4 replies.

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@TaurusPrincess10
9 Years

So, I'm a Taurus and I'm currently talking to another Taurus. We met on pof in may and we really hit it off. Well he always asked me when we're gonna meet, and eventually I decided on July 17th, He was gonna get a hotel since we live to hours apart and he was coming to see me. Well we had a fight about a week ago and I being a petty bull said to him "You don't have to get a hotel when you come to see me we can just have a picnic then you can leave." And he said that He wasn't going to come at all because He was sick of the arguing and His family members Birthday was on the 18th. So I just let it go. Well we made up and I said do you still wanna see me? He replied that he does but he wants to wait a bit Bc of his family members birthday. He still acts the same towards me and we're getting along great but I worry that I ruined things with him because he hasn't mentioned seeing me since. Do you think He's slowly pulling away from me? Thank you in advance for all the replies.

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@TaurusPrincess10
9 Years

Oh, and I forgot to add that He seems to be getting a little bit more distant... like not talking as much or not being as affectionate.

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@jeane
12 Years5,000+ Posts

Have you guys been arguing a lot?

You're a Taurus so you probably understand him better than I could however I'll tell you how I would play it from now on.

Quite simply, the argument is over. Don't think about it, don't think about what he is thinking about. You've made up. The slate is clean. Now you go on like it never happened.

If in case you have another argument in the future (it's definite you will), don't bring it up again. Have a very short term memory when it comes to arguments.

If his attitude is different and he is distant, then you carry on just the same as you were before the disagreement.

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@TaurusPrincess10
9 Years

Thank you everyone for your advice, you guys are right, He is a lot like me... and I do tend to overanlyze things. I'm just gonna let him come to me and be honest with him. We seem to be doing fine today ?