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For Taurus Sun Venus or Moons...do you find it takes longer to get over someone?
Do Taurus Sun Venus or Moons Take Longer to Get Over Someone
Taurus individuals often take longer to move on from emotional attachments due to their loyal and steadfast nature. Their strong desire for stability makes it harder to let go, especially if they deeply loved or valued the relationship. Understanding Taurus's emotional depth can help in coping with the lingering feelings.
I'm a Taurus Sun. But I blame my Scorpio Moon for taking me forever to heal my broken heart.
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
Is it just me or is this a taurus thing?Please share.
dude i thought you're a pisces sun?
Nope.I get over people or anything for that matter surprisingly quickly.
Posted by Teena
Nope.I get over people or anything for that matter surprisingly quickly.Is it that you don't have a strong developing feeling for it? or whats your venus placement?
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Lol! Sag Venus. Self explanatory huh?
But I have very strong feelings trust me. When I'm in it, there's nothing better. When I'm out, it's over. The pace at which I move on would make someone think I was never in love ..n they can't be more wrong.
Posted by Teena
Nope.I get over people or anything for that matter surprisingly quickly.Is it that you don't have a strong developing feeling for it? or whats your venus placement?
Lol! Sag Venus. Self explanatory huh?
But I have very strong feelings trust me. When I'm in it, there's nothing better. When I'm out, it's over. The pace at which I move on would make someone think I was never in love ..n they can't be more wrong.
Ohhh I see. :O I do wish to have that poer though.
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Haha.. forever thankful for this power? I just start to get practical. I get depressed for a while maybe n then "Hey life! I know your game.Shoo pity party!"
Posted by Teena
Nope.I get over people or anything for that matter surprisingly quickly.Is it that you don't have a strong developing feeling for it? or whats your venus placement?
Lol! Sag Venus. Self explanatory huh?
But I have very strong feelings trust me. When I'm in it, there's nothing better. When I'm out, it's over. The pace at which I move on would make someone think I was never in love ..n they can't be more wrong.
Ohhh I see. :O I do wish to have that poer though.
Haha.. forever thankful for this power? I just start to get practical. I get depressed for a while maybe n then "Hey life! I know your game.Shoo pity party!"
Omg thank you to catch that one up! I was in the hurry to take out the muffin.
And dang.. mine was more into researching of what when wrong, sulking for the longest time with self-punishment blablabla until I have to find the target to distract it.
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Haha np...Aww I love muffins ❤️??
I don't need anything to distract. I need not be distracted. I just start to see the experience differently. I don't look for this next challenge to get over this. I think I kinda compartmentalize well.
yes it does, when it was good but it just didn't work for whatever reason
It really depends on how deeply invested I am emotionally to that person and the stage we're in romantically. If the relationship or fling is still in it's early stages, I can move on rather quickly. However if we've been together for over a year or more, it's hard as hell to let go.
I'm a Taurus Sun/Moon and Gemini Venus.
It definitely does take me a while to get over someone; whether it ended on good terms or not. I invested my heart, soul, body, time and life into the committed relationship.
It can take days or weeks to get over it in the sense of being able to get out of bed and finally try to move on. However, emotionally, it will take a while. I will try to distract myself with a rebound that coincidentally decides to come my way or I travel or party more often, just keeping myself busy in general.
Yes
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
Is it just me or is this a taurus thing?Please share.
dude i thought you're a pisces sun?
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I am.
I have a taurus venus though!
My ex has a taurus moon but also a pisces sun..
I also know a couple of taurus suns
it seems to be a pattern amongst all of us.
Used to yes. Not anymore.
Posted by Teena
Nope.I get over people or anything for that matter surprisingly quickly.
do you have a lot of air in your chart
like a Gemini or aqua moon?
Maybe a gemini venus and a sagg moon?
Posted by youngali
yes, for about two days... then the sag placements overrides the bullshit...
Jealous!
Posted by Teena
Nope.I get over people or anything for that matter surprisingly quickly.Is it that you don't have a strong developing feeling for it? or whats your venus placement?
Lol! Sag Venus. Self explanatory huh?
But I have very strong feelings trust me. When I'm in it, there's nothing better. When I'm out, it's over. The pace at which I move on would make someone think I was never in love ..n they can't be more wrong.
Ohhh I see. :O I do wish to have that poer though.
Haha.. forever thankful for this power? I just start to get practical. I get depressed for a while maybe n then "Hey life! I know your game.Shoo pity party!"
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I need a t-shirt or hoodie that say this.
Posted by tcta
yes it does, when it was good but it just didn't work for whatever reason
Yeah that's the worst.
When it just doesn't make any sense.
Like on paper it was supposed to...especially after you've waited for a long time.
I think it would be easier for me if I was the type of person that found more people intriguing on a more consistent basis.
Personally.
I only develop a crush ( usually a mini one) on someone every couple of years and
I'll actually only want to date someone ( for real) once every 5 years.
Posted by earlorg16
It really depends on how deeply invested I am emotionally to that person and the stage we're in romantically. If the relationship or fling is still in it's early stages, I can move on rather quickly. However if we've been together for over a year or more, it's hard as hell to let go.
what's your venus?
Posted by SugarandSpunk
I'm a Taurus Sun/Moon and Gemini Venus.It definitely does take me a while to get over someone; whether it ended on good terms or not. I invested my heart, soul, body, time and life into the committed relationship.
It can take days or weeks to get over it in the sense of being able to get out of bed and finally try to move on. However, emotionally, it will take a while. I will try to distract myself with a rebound that coincidentally decides to come my way or I travel or party more often, just keeping myself busy in general.
Oh wow
I think the double taurus combo is deadly.
It's good that you have gemini venus
to break up the seriousness.
Posted by LePewp
Used to yes. Not anymore.What's your secret?
What changed for you?
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Understanding I was codependent and fixing that first, once I molded myself into caring about me just as equally as my partner I knew I'd be OK if things went awry. Also understanding that people come and go in your life those that leave are lessons those that stay are your guidance.
Posted by SugarandSpunk
I'm a Taurus Sun/Moon and Gemini Venus.It definitely does take me a while to get over someone; whether it ended on good terms or not. I invested my heart, soul, body, time and life into the committed relationship.
It can take days or weeks to get over it in the sense of being able to get out of bed and finally try to move on. However, emotionally, it will take a while. I will try to distract myself with a rebound that coincidentally decides to come my way or I travel or party more often, just keeping myself busy in general.
Oh wow
I think the double taurus combo is deadly.
It's good that you have gemini venus
to break up the seriousness.
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Yeah this is true. Except sometimes having Gemini Venus can make me an emotional mess too lol. I try to keep a good poker face when necessary but deep down inside I'm a sensitive one lol
Posted by LePewp
Used to yes. Not anymore.What's your secret?
What changed for you?
Understanding I was codependent and fixing that first, once I molded myself into caring about me just as equally as my partner I knew I'd be OK if things went awry. Also understanding that people come and go in your life those that leave are lessons those that stay are your guidance.
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That's really beautiful.
That's a beautiful outlook.
I guess you are right...the lessons wouldn't stick if you didn't care about those that left / or really saw them as being a part of your future.
How do you work on your codependency issues?
I know I'm definitely want of those.
I love troubled women.
: /
Posted by LePewp
Used to yes. Not anymore.What's your secret?
What changed for you?
Understanding I was codependent and fixing that first, once I molded myself into caring about me just as equally as my partner I knew I'd be OK if things went awry. Also understanding that people come and go in your life those that leave are lessons those that stay are your guidance.
That's really beautiful.
That's a beautiful outlook.
I guess you are right...the lessons wouldn't stick if you didn't care about those that left / or really saw them as being a part of your future.
How do you work on your codependency issues?
I know I'm definitely want of those.
I love troubled women.
: /
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A few things I had to come to terms and embrace when I was letting go of codependency was, I will be fine even when I'm alone. I gotta really invest in myself and appreciate who I am, now this isn't an invitation to become egotistical it's just an attitude of self appreciate and love that you can develop slowly by being ok with being alone and understanding that doing your own thing creates respect from others as well. Another thing is, letting go if control. We often try to control everything once we separate the things we can control things we can't we can better self govern ourselves which will then allow you to get rid of defects such as codependency and also letting go of control also helps you become most in control and also helps you feel free. Doing all of this makes you more confident in you and your perspective really starts to change on what a relationship should be and how you deserve to be treated. At the end of the day it all starts with your attitude towards yourself.
Posted by earlorg16
It really depends on how deeply invested I am emotionally to that person and the stage we're in romantically. If the relationship or fling is still in it's early stages, I can move on rather quickly. However if we've been together for over a year or more, it's hard as hell to let go.what's your venus?
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Ariesss
Posted by LePewp
Used to yes. Not anymore.What's your secret?
What changed for you?
Understanding I was codependent and fixing that first, once I molded myself into caring about me just as equally as my partner I knew I'd be OK if things went awry. Also understanding that people come and go in your life those that leave are lessons those that stay are your guidance.
That's really beautiful.
That's a beautiful outlook.
I guess you are right...the lessons wouldn't stick if you didn't care about those that left / or really saw them as being a part of your future.
How do you work on your codependency issues?
I know I'm definitely want of those.
I love troubled women.
: /
A few things I had to come to terms and embrace when I was letting go of codependency was, I will be fine even when I'm alone. I gotta really invest in myself and appreciate who I am, now this isn't an invitation to become egotistical it's just an attitude of self appreciate and love that you can develop slowly by being ok with being alone and understanding that doing your own thing creates respect from others as well. Another thing is, letting go if control. We often try to control everything once we separate the things we can control things we can't we can better self govern ourselves which will then allow you to get rid of defects such as codependency and also letting go of control also helps you become most in control and also helps you feel free. Doing all of this makes you more confident in you and your perspective really starts to change on what a relationship should be and how you deserve to be treated. At the end of the day it all starts with your attitude towards yourself.
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Thank you.
I really appreciate this as I really needed it.
I've been navigating this road for awhile now.
How old are you?
Posted by Teena
Nope.I get over people or anything for that matter surprisingly quickly.do you have a lot of air in your chart
like a Gemini or aqua moon?
Maybe a gemini venus and a sagg moon?
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My chart is pretty balanced
Water 29% , Air n Earth around 25% n Fire 21%
I've Sag Venus n Gemini rising. Aqua is apparently my second dominant sign(Scorpio being the 1st) followed by Sag ?
Posted by Teena
Nope.I get over people or anything for that matter surprisingly quickly.Is it that you don't have a strong developing feeling for it? or whats your venus placement?
Lol! Sag Venus. Self explanatory huh?
But I have very strong feelings trust me. When I'm in it, there's nothing better. When I'm out, it's over. The pace at which I move on would make someone think I was never in love ..n they can't be more wrong.
Ohhh I see. :O I do wish to have that poer though.
Haha.. forever thankful for this power? I just start to get practical. I get depressed for a while maybe n then "Hey life! I know your game.Shoo pity party!"
I need a t-shirt or hoodie that say this.
click to expand
LOL!!
Posted by earlorg16
It really depends on how deeply invested I am emotionally to that person and the stage we're in romantically. If the relationship or fling is still in it's early stages, I can move on rather quickly. However if we've been together for over a year or more, it's hard as hell to let go.what's your venus?
Ariesss
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makes sense.
Posted by Teena
Nope.I get over people or anything for that matter surprisingly quickly.do you have a lot of air in your chart
like a Gemini or aqua moon?
Maybe a gemini venus and a sagg moon?
My chart is pretty balanced
Water 29% , Air n Earth around 25% n Fire 21%
I've Sag Venus n Gemini rising. Aqua is apparently my second dominant sign(Scorpio being the 1st) followed by Sag ?
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so your a scorpio sun
sagg venus
and taurus moon?
That is a pretty strong and yet balanced combo.
Taurus sun and venus and throw in that Scorpio moon... it takes me a while to get over you. But brightside, by taking that time to heal, when Im over you, Im over you forever, Im just done then.
Posted by LePewp
Used to yes. Not anymore.What's your secret?
What changed for you?
Understanding I was codependent and fixing that first, once I molded myself into caring about me just as equally as my partner I knew I'd be OK if things went awry. Also understanding that people come and go in your life those that leave are lessons those that stay are your guidance.
That's really beautiful.
That's a beautiful outlook.
I guess you are right...the lessons wouldn't stick if you didn't care about those that left / or really saw them as being a part of your future.
How do you work on your codependency issues?
I know I'm definitely want of those.
I love troubled women.
: /
A few things I had to come to terms and embrace when I was letting go of codependency was, I will be fine even when I'm alone. I gotta really invest in myself and appreciate who I am, now this isn't an invitation to become egotistical it's just an attitude of self appreciate and love that you can develop slowly by being ok with being alone and understanding that doing your own thing creates respect from others as well. Another thing is, letting go if control. We often try to control everything once we separate the things we can control things we can't we can better self govern ourselves which will then allow you to get rid of defects such as codependency and also letting go of control also helps you become most in control and also helps you feel free. Doing all of this makes you more confident in you and your perspective really starts to change on what a relationship should be and how you deserve to be treated. At the end of the day it all starts with your attitude towards yourself.
Thank you.
I really appreciate this as I really needed it.
I've been navigating this road for awhile now.
How old are you?
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You're very welcome if you ever need any advice or anything feel free to tag me I'll help any way I can 🙂 it's a tough road for sure but if I someone who suffered from clinical depression and low self worth practically my whole can make it so can you I'm certain. I just turned dirty 30.
Posted by Teena
Nope.I get over people or anything for that matter surprisingly quickly.do you have a lot of air in your chart
like a Gemini or aqua moon?
Maybe a gemini venus and a sagg moon?
My chart is pretty balanced
Water 29% , Air n Earth around 25% n Fire 21%
I've Sag Venus n Gemini rising. Aqua is apparently my second dominant sign(Scorpio being the 1st) followed by Sag ?
so your a scorpio sun
sagg venus
and taurus moon?
That is a pretty strong and yet balanced combo.
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Yeah..Taurus moon ?
I'm Taurus sun AND moon.... and yes it takes me a looong time no matter how it ended. However because I'm a home body no one will realize it cause I hide away until I pop on the scene again. What I do is I never stalk their page or anything they do I just tune it out, I watch movies, listen to songs, keep busy until one day I wake up and I'm fine again. Anytime I think about them I find something to do and that helps me a lot.
Oh and I get really drunk at home (the only time I drink a lot is with heartbreak, some do food I do liquor) and stay in bed which makes me numb and able to deal
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Is it just me or is this a taurus thing?
Please share.