is this unfixable terrible fight with taurus b/f

Posted by soundsunscene
Hi I know this is done I guess but im seeing if any Taurus can see any light here - my Taurus b/f has mars sq pluto in his chart btw so he can get really dark and angry and I had never seen this before or had a fight. we were only 2 months in but those times had been great not super close but great anyway

Basically I felt he was making an excuse not to stay the night and he contradicted his plans in a matter of minutes and I called him out on it (he was not with a woman or anything) and I was trying to understand why he didn't want to stay. he snapped at me when I tried to convey my feelings rationally and he erupted at me he wasn't on earth to sooth my soul or fix my problems and I was being childish (in a really condescending way) and that he had to spend his to focus on himself and not on me trying to convey problems etc so I told him not to bother coming over to plans we had made next day and to get lost. Few things back and forth and I snapped myself and said he was being passive aggressive and narcissistic. I then calmed down and said to call me in the morning and he later replied we are done and I got so upset I told him he had a horrible tongue intimacy issues (more to that obviosuly)

yep its bad but he has such a dark temper he has told me about and Id been in a previously emotionally abusive relationship so I freaked - I am a Cancer so it hurt deeply him saying that stuff to me.

Is there any way I can apologize for what I have said form the bottom of my heart he said I burnt him and to get lost and leave him alone when I tried to contact him to talk is this done dusted and unfixable

thanks for any feedback

why would you apologize.

this is why men treat women like she because women let them.

he needs to be the first to respond.

Another example of a Taurus man acting like an immature, childish, selfish prick... There must be something in the water! Such a shame though 😢

no we are 42 so lots of stuff

he is separated getting divorced I was in an emotionally abusive relationship last time so we both have a lot of history to deal with of our own (though he thinks he is fine even though going through divorce)

Op, it's not terrible fights.
Just relax. I think it's your behavior how to approach that man when he is in the dark mood. Don't decide yet when you both have extreme emotions. This is humans nature. They are really smart arguing. Throwing insults each other then boom the begging issues arise when the other party call it's over. Nah been dealing the captain asshole of tauruses but hey it's not that painful break up when you learn how to manage your emotion first. Lol.
My ex taurus told me... He blocked me. But then greeted happy birthday.lol. It made me laughed and move on.

Don't wait that silent treatment happen. Have your space now and deal your problem. Be the first to throw that silent treatment.. Beat him in his own game. If You already done your apology then leave it that way. Stop pestering him or you will lose the chances of getting him back.