Jealousy

I know this topic comes up quite a bit, but I was wondering how you guys all deal with jealous feelings with your partners? I'm currently seeing a Gem/Cancer cusp guy who has no problem talking about attractive girls or discussing his exes in detail with me. Which inflames me. My Pisces ex was never like this, so maybe I'm just not used to him, but when I tell him it annoys me, I think he thinks I'm a bit weird and a control freak! (Which I'm not, honest ;p ) Aaarghhh! I hate these feelings, wish I could control them!

Copperhead,

We can be jealous, but how much do you trust your boyfriend? It's a bit odd that he talks about his exes in detail with you. Not sure what he's proving there other than maybe he's insecure in himself.

You've told him that it annoys you; now it's up to him to respect that and make a change.

Oh I can't hear that stuff either. I once insistently kept asking my bf questions about previous girls and even though he didn't even go into any details whatsoever I couldn't help feeling very jealous lol I learned my lesson, NEVER EVER again ask about other girls. I hope they all die... btw... agonizingly slow and painful deaths.

What my bf does do once in a while... is comment on girls HE claims checked him out or flirted with him. OMG, please, I do not want to hear that, can you please keep that to yourself?! Seriously... aaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrggh... talk about feeling homocidal!

So finally the last time he did that I just hung up. I was sooooo HOT WITH RAGE! I paced back n forth, threw a couple of things around, socked the walls for a minute and finally took some deep breaths to call him back and immediately go into an argument. He was just like "What's the big deal? I'm not with them nor do I want to be" and to finally and once and for all get to the point without pretending I don't care... I told him "DO...YOU... NOT KNOW *WHO* YOUR GIRLFRIEND IS??"

Gem/Cancer cusp huh? He could just be making conversation, then again he might be trying to make you jealous. Either way *you* don't like it so just tell him to keep certain things to himself!

"I was sooooo HOT WITH RAGE! I paced back n forth, threw a couple of things around, socked the walls for a minute and finally took some deep breaths to call him back and immediately go into an argument."

I am so like that. I fly into such a mad rage if my guy talks about some other gurl or admires them..the worst is the situation that u just described where he said that other gurls check him out, it makes me really mad...somehow I feel these guys know what they are doing but they love getting us into knots with their behaviour.