My Poor Bull :-(

My friend (who is a taurus/gemini) is going through some really emotional issues right now. Things have gotten really bad -- his brothers ans sisters say that he just snaps at them and basically stays off to himself. Also, I was told that he doesn't look happy anymore -- either he is sad or in a bad mood :O -- that's not the way he use to be .....

This past April, he and he Scorpio friend got into a fight over something really petty and he ahsn't spoke to him since ... but he continued to talk to me.

Last month, he needed a favor from me, so I agreed to do it, but he never went came through with the info that I needed in order to help him. Since then, I haven't been able to get in contact with him.

I do know him father has put a ton of pressure on him to stay home instead of moving away and I do know that his father wants him to get marriage soon -- All these things are what my Taurus friend DOESN'T want 😢

We know each other since we were really young and we have been close for years.

Should I write him a letter since he won't communicate ?

Yeah, we love letters.

But don't ask him to talk to you, we hate that.

Hey TC!

So what should I say then ...

I want him to talk to me ... 😢

Sometimes just a quick "Hello, I've been thinking about you and hope you're doing well"

If he's a close friend, then you can let him know that are there for him. If he wants to talk, whether in person, phone, or email, you're available.

If we trust you, we'll let you know what's bothering us.

Really? HP ...

Alright, well I will try to send him a letter sometime this week -- he has known me just alittle longer then his Scorpio friend but he usually tells him everything ... so the fact that he stopped talking to the Scorpio slims my chances, I don't know -- I write him ans see what happens.

It been four weeks sense I've heard from him and thats really not like him. Since his family claims that he's been acting really weird -- like off to himself, depressed and always in a negative mood -- indicates that somethings wrong.

"he snaps and stays to himself"
Cappiesweetie-oh that is classic. I do that. I hate that I snap too!!! When I snap it is because I needed space, I asked for space, and space was not given. I don't like nor need help...I try to figure my crap out and less people are involved the better I can get myself out.
He'll be fine. He needs to get out of that environment because he is feeling emotionally overwhelmed and needs space. He's moody because we're not too skillful in hiding our discontentment. If he's like me, he wants out but is scared to say it because he doesn't want to step on toes. And thats a stressful situation to be in.
My suggestion is to keep him in your prayers so he finds his way through this. My bestfriend is a Capricorn too. He knows I go through my "hermit" eposides and lets me be. He'll text me something like "boo stranger" and I eventually come around. I don't know if it is that we are too proud to ask for help, or we feel that we don't want to bombard others with our issues. But sending him a card might be a better idea. Something that doesn't get specific, but the point is your thinking about him during these hard times....

-ST

ST and BT,

You are both right, its very hard for him to come out and say whats wrong with him. However, me being the capricorn that I am ... its hard to deal with that.

Alright, maybe I'll send a card instead -- however, I will write alittle message stating how I feel ...

Well thats good to hear AM,

I'll probably send him a card next week -- I'll have the weekend to think about what I want to write ..

So what happened CS, is ur bull alrrite now?
If u havnt send the card yet just make sure that he knows u are there for him no matter what(it feels very good to hear that or read that in the card)

*UPDATE*

Hahaha, my Bull called on my birthday yesterday 🙂 🙂 🙂

I was so happy to hear from him but I also told him that it wasn't cool for hi
m to just disappear off the face of the planent like that -- friends don't do stuff like that X(

His response was that he was going through some issues and he's been working alot -- he's saving money to pay for school because he doesn't want to rely on his parents any longer.

So everything is good now BT 🙂 ... now I've just got to get him to tell me his issues -- the way he use to before he shutdown on everyone around him. If I can just pick his brain for a while I probably can help him ....

way to go cappysweetie!
I am so glad ur bull fren got back to talking to u..just give him sometime and he will unload his heart to u..i am sure he has lots to tell u..we taureans are sensitive creatures but once we are ready, we will come back to u.
One thing i have noticed is that capricorns love to solve problems 🙂