Just a Taurus thread

How long does it take for you to become in a relationship? My cousin is a Taurus she didn't want to date her gf now because she wasn't over her ex now they been together for 3 years. Im dealing with a Taurus man now he told me he doesn't want to do feelings but we been hanging out and he told me not to be a stranger. I bought him a lil gift to remind him how much i care bout him it's been 8 months i been seeing him. I know Taurus's are good at fwb but he told me he loved me twice. He has been coming around opening up a lil.

Took me and my bf 3 months when we first got together. But that was after a year of being fuck buddies. Then when we broke up and were "talking" again (this happened twice), we didn't get back together because I didn't want to be official. He kept insisting. Then finally this year we're back together officially after a month of "Talking". He never actually asked me... someone asked who he was and he just said my bf. I think he got tired of being friend zoned ? I consider us being together on and off for the past 3 years because we pretty much were together. Complicated, I know. My bf is also a Taurus btw.

We sort of know right away whether it's going to work or not. But it takes time to verbalize it. It helps if the other person is very stable in their life, we'll see that as a security blanket.

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We sort of know right away whether it's going to work or not. But it takes time to verbalize it. It helps if the other person is very stable in their life, we'll see that as a security blanket.

I agree! But also I think Taurus men love to save and play the hero don't they? Like damsel in distress kind of thing. It brings out the protective part in them.

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I've never been involved with a Taurus man. Perhaps you're right. 😉

My bull has a virgo moon but does have Gemini replacements. I confessed on how i feel towards him i don't know hes upset i didn't reciprocated back how i felt. But i do care about him alot. I seen he was trying to move on with someone else. He told me he doesn't want to do feelings but lately he been opening up to me after i told him i wanted him and i would never hurt him. He told me he loved me twice. He have sex a lot but i just feel like we somewhat still falling off. We literally been seeing each other for 8 months we had lil few week breaks from each other but i thought Taurus didn't see you in any way they would stop sex?

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Posted by taurusgirl9000
We sort of know right away whether it's going to work or not. But it takes time to verbalize it. It helps if the other person is very stable in their life, we'll see that as a security blanket.

I agree! But also I think Taurus men love to save and play the hero don't they? Like damsel in distress kind of thing. It brings out the protective part in them.

I've never been involved with a Taurus man. Perhaps you're right. 😉

Is the opposite true? Like do you feel the need to save a man?

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Weak mean are a turn off. If I meet someone that needs "saving" or protecting, I'm not interested.

I also have a really bad opinion about Virgo Moon. Also, I find them completely not loyal as individuals - either if they're women or men. either to family, friends, lovers etc. It's all about themselves.

I caught him not being loyal when he asked me to be loyal and honest with him. I think he just wanted to sabotage what he had so he can have power and control over it. Like you said at his time and pace. We have casual sex but i think that is getting out of hand because I'm done wasting my time and energy. He acts like he gets mad ill move on to someone else. He doesn't show any possessive sides now he been actual sweet which it seems weird. I don't know why he told me he loved me but i never said it back. He also made a remark saying since i want kids he will give them to me. I think he is moving too fast.

Yes doubt is eating. I do feel like he is still on an ex he talks bout his children's mother all the time. I think they will get back together but she moved on. He started asking me questions would i do that to him but he already said i don't know loyalty but he doesn't give me a chance to prove that to him.

He only said it twice but hasn't said it anymore. He said we need to spice our sex. He told me not to be a stranger every time i leave he tells me to be good. I know he been seeing others because he basically told me. He always says I'm single i do what i want so i told him im single i think he gets mad that i do act like I'm being single. I do like him i care bout him i did tell him i got love for him but he saying he just doesn't want to do feelings but he been kissing me hugging me and holding convos.

He's clearly not emotionally invested and why do you want to come second to the extent? You're hurting yourself more by staying in the kind of cycle..if you leave now the hurt won't last long ♡

*to the ex? *

I know what i want. Okay let be clear he came on with his emotions in the beginning i showed no interest so he backed off. Im not looking for not serious. I'm 24 just having fun. I think hes mad that I didn't want a relationship but i never overstepped my boundary. I see why he coming back but i don't know why cause at the end of the day hes wasting his own time. I Don't communicate much with him. We are fwb perfectly fine with me. But i don't know why all this emotional bs is coming from if we are supposedly on the same page but we aren't. I blow him off all the time he blows me off all the time. He saying im the only one i know im not and really don't care. Only thing i realized i just need to be more honest with myself and don't waste my time on people who don't want what i want.

He told me he loved me but im not loyal. But he is the only guy i see cause i don't want to screw other men but that's my decision i only hit him up when i want too. I was just asking why is he asking me to be honest and loyal if we are supposedly fwb that's what Im not understanding? He telling me im keeping secrets i don't have nothing to hide i just keep my distance cause i already know where it's going from the beginning. I was somewhat hoping hell get the hint now.

For the record,

Gemini Moons are not flaky with their behavior, (look at the Venus or Mars placements), we are unpredictable with our emotions.

He's a Virgo Moon.

DiamondNurse,

Your threads are redundant, monolithic...with all different subtopics.

I don't think your Taurus is indecisive (we never are) cautious yes, uncertain, never.

Not even with 'flaky' placements.

The mind doesn't always want what the heart wants.

Typical classic Earth sign conflict.

Call it a segregation of the mind and heart.

I told you this countless times.

He has feelngs for you, but he does not see longevity with you.

Just because we love you it doesn't mean we have plans for skipping down the yellow brick road with you.

Taurus is a practical sign.

No fantasies for us.

Just reality.

Oh and DiamondNurse,

If you are a real person (whichy I highly doubt you are)....

Word of advice....

If this is a legitimate thread, I would have to account for his reasons to keep you at a serious distance.

You're not stable.

Just a pathological liar.

You're quite popular on the other boards.

I agree with TaurusBull. You should heed this advice.

He is still in love with his ex and that's where he would prefer to be in a perfect World. You serve a purpose for him, but not one you would like. The longer you stay, the more messy and confusing it will become for you. And will prove to be unhealthy for you mentally and emotionally.

He is controlling. And possessive. You are his toy for him to play with, only. But you are just one of his toys. He has others. All that loyalty, be good crap is mind games. He wants you how HE wants you. He wants to be in control of this scenario and he wants it set up how he desires. As Woman, you're trying to make sense of it emotionally. Your focusing on the details of the romantic moments and time you share. Try seeing the bigger picture. The details are confusing you.

Not confused. I know what i want at the end of the day. I know it's not going to be him i realized i need to just stay focus on me. I was just asking for advice for the current situation that's going on. He did show possessive ways not really much he doesn't really say much now. I got love for him don't get me wrong. I know we are toxic and we weren't ever going to be together. I never over stepped my boundary. I think people try to keep seasonal people in their lives for ever. I think he came in my life to teach me patience and to let myself know my worth. He taught me a good thing about myself and that's all i needed. So i think he caught feelings and is upset i don't reciprocate the same back. He told me i got him going back to his old ways but i think he never changed and won't. Hes still on his ex yes because he tries to categorizes me with her which I don't do things like she did. So i think he is lusting which i told him that. Im causal dating im just chilling really. I was just curious on why his actions are acting upon this way at this point. Nothing is that deep. Im fine with the fwb but i know how to handle my business at the end of the day. Im not hurt by any means i just think it's crazy he thinks I'm silly or dumb. Just because i don't speak on a lot of things doesn't mean i don't know what's going on. Actions speak louder than words. I think he cares a lil or he wouldn't put with a lot of things he didn't have too. We been around each other going on 9 months. Never really had a break from each other maybe like 3 weeks but not long periods of time. I asked him does he want to stop contact he said no but i asked him why by being curious. I know it's not going anywhere. He told me to forget feelings after he told me he loved me i didn't say it back. He told me i was his he was mine but i feel like he was rushing into that and it just sounds like deseperation at the time. But i could be wrong. I told him i wouldn't intentionally hurt him he opened up to me a lil but the next day he saying im keeping secrets. I'm a person that doesn't open up or express feelings less it's necessary. I caught him talking to one of my co workers he straight came out and told her he wanted just sex from her. A lot of the arguments is due to a lot of things he does. Now i just stop questioning this situation cause i got to move on. Thanks everyone that gave me good advice.