Leo girl talking to Taurus unsure if it's worth it

Hi I'm a 22 year old Leo talking to a 22 year old Taurus. I honestly don't think I have any experience with a Taurus besides a crush I had when I was 15. He was the one who started the moves on me despite I have been wanting to get to know him for years and have been extremely attractive. I live walking distance of campus so one night when he got wasted I offered him to spend the night so he didn't have to drive. Innocent request he grabbed my face & made out with me and felt me up a little then cuddled me and fell asleep and he was kissing my forehead and shoulders complete time I was asleep. Next day he was facebooking me cute stuff like "my sleeping beauty" he got my number and we hung out a few times after in which he still appeared to have interest but he's always making excuses to not see me like he's not that interested. Friends say that's how he is he's very go to sleep early study for school but he insist he does like me and it's not like that but he's extremely hot and cold. Apparently he's talking to some 19 year old he's all about and she doesn't want anything serious and just wants to hang out (she's still talking to an ex) but he's afraid to take it anywhere with me to mess it up with her— She pretty much sounds young and like a lost cause and all the close friends hate her but like me, and have been inviting me out in the group a lot to hang (respectfully they all have gfs and want me to be with their friend) they said this other girl he can't even invite out with them. Should I just take it slow and try to be friendly until he sorts his stuff out or is he just not interested?? I honestly as a Leo get offended if guys aren't trying to have sex with me and I hear tauruses like to take it slow so maybe my Leo nature is just getting overbearing for him and I need to not jump to conclusions

It's not worth it.

I am a Taurus female 44, and in an affair with a Leo. I find you guys hard to figure out lol!
But I do know that' we do run hot and cold, run and then come back. I do it because I am scared to be rejected. So I come to you, then slide away ( hot/ cold) because I don't want to come on to strong either...We are great at physical communications, and my moto is actions speak louder then words... So SHOW ME . I don't need words, but like affection. The fact he was kissing you and touching you means HE DID LIKE YOU! I always watch ppl and get to know them before I " jump in" or them, why? Because I want to make sure I like them...

That makes a lot of sense. Yeah I just stopped texting him all together because I hated being the one initiating conversation but whenever we end up being at the same place it's different. Like we were at a day party for the us game and we got pretty toasty and he was biting my arm and we all went to the movies in couples and he was feeding me popcorn. But then at the same time he bails out early always goes home cause he "works early in the morning" and he never kisses me goodbye I haven't felt this conflicted over a guy since high school. I seriously feel like I am scaring him away like I'm too aggressive. Sometimes when I'm begging him to stay out I see him take a few steps away from me and I'm like ok nevermind go home I'm sorry lol so I've been trying to tone down a lot. I guess it is good that he is pshyically expressive though. I'm just not used to working at such a slow pace. I feel like when I like people I am a lot more assertive talkative and take slot of initiative and he always replies to me if I text him I just hate that I'm even the one texting

It's a damn hard thing for us to miss work , or me.... Or not have enough rest before work. I'm a workaholic and not many things overdid it for me. Everybody could be going to the biggest BBQ OF THE YEAR... And I'd either miss it, or go after work. So he could be the same. I value hard work and the rewards it brings me...
Also i don't touch Anybody unless I want them , then I start to casually touch their arm or hand... All small things, but really a huge thing for me...

Come on now your a Leo women you could never settle for second best. Even if it is for a short period of time. And it's not in our nature to have to compete.