@taurusgoddess
21 Years1,000+ PostsTaurus
Letting go of our need for security
How to Let Go of the Need for Security in Relationships
Letting go of the need for security involves building self-confidence and trusting the process of love. Focus on the present moment and recognize that no relationship is guaranteed. Developing inner security and understanding that imperfections are natural can help reduce insecurities and foster healthier connections.
No it's me. This is how I screw up relationships. I fear commitment yet I want someone to lay down their life for me. I want to commit though...I just can't do it unless I know for sure! But what in life do we really know, ONE HUNDRED percent for sure?
Learning everyday, baby! 🙂
So ur a bull too, Sag, where do you stand with your need for security?
You're probally right Sag, women sometimes do get their emotions out of hand! I'm usually pretty good, but with the stress of moving and being a country apart for a few months, emotions run a little higher.
Thanks DB... ps. YOU SCORPS are the CRAZY ones!! 😉 🙂
"Letting go of our need for security"
*panics* NEVER!
And I think you fit that desciption as well, Sag chickie! 😉
No dildos & no action, waiting for my reunion with my baby. grrrrrrrrrrr that guys gonna get raped!! 😛
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"If you can give a Taurus security, beauty, nature and pleasure you have a better chance of getting their love and affection."
I can a little frustrated sometimes when I'm feeling insecure about a relationship and really everything is fine. How do I let go of that strong need to have everything perfect? I called my scorp up all paranoid, and later I realized how stupid I sounded. He tells me I'm his everything & that I complete him.
I think it's my past failures and I have a hard time believing things wouldn't go wrong again - they always have, that's all I know. I want some hard evidence that I will be secure forever. Where the hell is my faith?!!