estellajones
@estellajones
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My Taurus husband won't let me go after cheating
Yeah restraining order in placed is great. But what is he doing to stop it? It takes two to stop it and be assertive.
Shadow I never will forgive a cheat but because of his actions and how he's realised that he could lose me and he F'd up I am slowly but surely forgetting things, although I haven't forgiven yet and won't show that I need him to chase a little longer.
Only thing that's making me put things behind me is that she is lying about me to him and befriending me to get in his pants or whatever. Also, they didn't date for long literally we are all in our 20's now and I feel she's hurt that he left her for me because when we first dated he would never hide me in public and everyone knew we were together. I understand she may be jealous, but I did tell her she has to let it go now especially now we are married with kids ? I hardly remember my relationships at 16 maybe that's the only one she had judging from her actions. I just don't know what to do, I've left but he won't leave me alone he's using anger now because he's so frustrated he just wants me home
Only thing that's making me put things behind me is that she is lying about me to him and befriending me to get in his pants or whatever. Also, they didn't date for long literally we are all in our 20's now and I feel she's hurt that he left her for me because when we first dated he would never hide me in public and everyone knew we were together. I understand she may be jealous, but I did tell her she has to let it go now especially now we are married with kids ? I hardly remember my relationships at 16 maybe that's the only one she had judging from her actions. I just don't know what to do, I've left but he won't leave me alone he's using anger now because he's so frustrated he just wants me home
If he cheats you should do what's necessary take the kids if the environment is unsafe and take care of the kids by yoirself. No cheating is acceptable more so when kids are involved.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428I agree
If he cheats you should do what's necessary take the kids if the environment is unsafe and take care of the kids by yoirself. No cheating is acceptable more so when kids are involved.
Yourself. This is tough but if the bond is stronger hold your ground with him and her.
My response may appear a little unorthodox,
But a s a woman, I would feel the internal need to protect my family.
A woman calling my house would pose an immediate threat to my family, especially if her motives were malicious.
A beat-down would definitely be in order.
She's testing you because your weakness is quite visible, magnified even, which is why she's able to manipulate you.
Stop communicating with her, or simply whoop her ass!
What you decide to do with your husband....—
Honestly, no one can give you this advice, but yourself.
We're not in your situation.
You're a Pisces.
You know this man intimately.
Ask yourself, regardless of the decision that is made regarding marriage/divorce.
Is this a decision you would be OK with?
Good Luck to you!
But a s a woman, I would feel the internal need to protect my family.
A woman calling my house would pose an immediate threat to my family, especially if her motives were malicious.
A beat-down would definitely be in order.
She's testing you because your weakness is quite visible, magnified even, which is why she's able to manipulate you.
Stop communicating with her, or simply whoop her ass!
What you decide to do with your husband....—
Honestly, no one can give you this advice, but yourself.
We're not in your situation.
You're a Pisces.
You know this man intimately.
Ask yourself, regardless of the decision that is made regarding marriage/divorce.
Is this a decision you would be OK with?
Good Luck to you!
It sounds like she is telling him all of this over fb or text and not in person. So my question is, why are either of you even reading anything she's saying? Both of you are giving her attention which = power. How does she even have enough power to 'manipulate'? It's so easy to ignore someone. I don't understand. And, if she's bothering you guys in person, take all those messages and get a restraining order.
Maybe you need a break from your husband so that it will give both of you time to figure out what you two want. That's a bit hard while married, but you could always take a short vacation with just your kids or something of that sort. I would take a good look at how he is acting now and if you think you still want that person around your kids.
I have to wonder about how much you and his kids really mean to him at this moment since he was willing to risk losing it all over this seemingly crazy and immature person.
Maybe you need a break from your husband so that it will give both of you time to figure out what you two want. That's a bit hard while married, but you could always take a short vacation with just your kids or something of that sort. I would take a good look at how he is acting now and if you think you still want that person around your kids.
I have to wonder about how much you and his kids really mean to him at this moment since he was willing to risk losing it all over this seemingly crazy and immature person.
This thread makes no sense.
Both you and your husband change your freaking phone numbers and block her from all social media...how the hell hard is that !
Why are you and your husband communicating with this woman in the first place if you both are trying to make your marriage work for your children ?
Seems like you and him enjoy the drama...it's sad really because there are children involved that should be the main damn focus oh and rebuilding your marriage....not this he say she say crap you're talking about here.
Cut her out of your life completely. Also if your husband does not cut her out of his life completely...you will know exactly where his priorities lie with your marriage.
Both you and your husband change your freaking phone numbers and block her from all social media...how the hell hard is that !
Why are you and your husband communicating with this woman in the first place if you both are trying to make your marriage work for your children ?
Seems like you and him enjoy the drama...it's sad really because there are children involved that should be the main damn focus oh and rebuilding your marriage....not this he say she say crap you're talking about here.
Cut her out of your life completely. Also if your husband does not cut her out of his life completely...you will know exactly where his priorities lie with your marriage.
@Lifepath8Pisces-
You can't get a restraining order for harassment.
Everything this other woman has done has been completely LEGAL.
The OP, herself, has admitted that she has entertained conversations with this woman on some occasions.
A restraining order? On what grounds?
The courts just don't hand out restraining orders like they're handing out free bus passes.
Do your homework.
Oh, and by the way, the term 'lady' is subjective.
Defending yourself or your family doesn't make you any less of a woman.
My exact words were " Stop communicating with her or whoop her ass!"
There are no such things as Victims... just Volunteers.
...And the OP has clearly volunteered to keep this woman going.
You can't get a restraining order for harassment.
Everything this other woman has done has been completely LEGAL.
The OP, herself, has admitted that she has entertained conversations with this woman on some occasions.
A restraining order? On what grounds?
The courts just don't hand out restraining orders like they're handing out free bus passes.
Do your homework.
Oh, and by the way, the term 'lady' is subjective.
Defending yourself or your family doesn't make you any less of a woman.
My exact words were " Stop communicating with her or whoop her ass!"
There are no such things as Victims... just Volunteers.
...And the OP has clearly volunteered to keep this woman going.
Your hubby is messy
Is he still seeing her?
Posted by estellajonesIt's going to be very difficult to legally and physically get this guy out of your life. I would suggest legal counsel and mediation. All third parties should stand back.
My husband and I had a rough patch and his Taurus ex happened to get in contact with him during our rough patch which lead him astray. Now he is feeling so stupid and guilty but he will not let me go, what makes it harder is that we have kids together. He finds wherever I am and lands there to try and get me to come home, he's being possessive and controlling more than before and he's acting a bit crazy. Is this guilt? What do I do?
His ex girlfriend is trying to split us up and isn't happy we're together, she dated him briefly back when they were 16 never had a relationship it was just a school playground relationship now she insists I split them two up and keeps on messaging him and manipulating both of us going back to me telling me lies what he's done or said and then doing the same back to him, it's driving me crazy and he fact I have two small children involved in this is even harder. I'm not sure if she really wants him or if she's out for revenge, she claims she doesn't love him but her actions show different and she disrespected my children by bringing them in to an argument yet she's the one trying to get back with my husband?
Tell him to cut the gf out of your lives. And you do the same. Ignore her. Why are you even talking to her?
It's a crazy situation it's not going to get better fast. Stop letting her affecting you is easy to say. Harder to do.
Get her out of you life. You can sue for liable— Tell her to leave you alone.
You need to leave the husband.
Posted by TaurusBull1977Just whoop her ass ..thenhis...
@Lifepath8Pisces-
You can't get a restraining order for harassment.
Everything this other woman has done has been completely LEGAL.
The OP, herself, has admitted that she has entertained conversations with this woman on some occasions.
A restraining order? On what grounds?
The courts just don't hand out restraining orders like they're handing out free bus passes.
Do your homework.
Oh, and by the way, the term 'lady' is subjective.
Defending yourself or your family doesn't make you any less of a woman.
My exact words were " Stop communicating with her or whoop her ass!"
There are no such things as Victims... just Volunteers.
...And the OP has clearly volunteered to keep this woman going.
A 'beat down'doesn't have to be interpreted as physical violence and if it was referring to physical violence it doesn't have to result in a prosecution or a record.
The sun beat down on her skin. The rain beat down on the trees.
Nothing wrong with whooping her arse either. Just don't get caught!
The sun beat down on her skin. The rain beat down on the trees.
Nothing wrong with whooping her arse either. Just don't get caught!
why are you entertaining this? Divorce him and move far away. You posted a while ago about how he was giving you issues and now he's cheated on you and brought this into your KIDS life??!!!!
SHAME ON YOU.
SHAME ON YOU for seeing the kind of man he was from the beginning and selfishly ignoring that because 'loooooooovvvveeeeeeee' and 'but my feeeeeelllliiiinnnngggsss"
SHAME ON YOU for doing this to your innocent children.
Take responsibility for your HUGE part in this (keeping a cheating husband, entertaining a side-bitch).
YOU FIX THIS SHIT. Document all of this and report it to the police, get rid of that pig you call a 'husband', and most of all YOU PROTECT THOSE FUCKING BABIES OPENED YOUR LEGS AND BORE.
SHAME ON YOU.
SHAME ON YOU for seeing the kind of man he was from the beginning and selfishly ignoring that because 'loooooooovvvveeeeeeee' and 'but my feeeeeelllliiiinnnngggsss"
SHAME ON YOU for doing this to your innocent children.
Take responsibility for your HUGE part in this (keeping a cheating husband, entertaining a side-bitch).
YOU FIX THIS SHIT. Document all of this and report it to the police, get rid of that pig you call a 'husband', and most of all YOU PROTECT THOSE FUCKING BABIES OPENED YOUR LEGS AND BORE.
I think op and the hubby need a beating more than the side trash
Posted by PV&JellayAmen.Posted by Lifepath8PiscesI agree. Fight with the pen, not the sword. A woman I used to work with in ky 20s decided she was gonna beat down her husbands mistress cause the heffa was disrespecting her by calling and visiting their home. The woman pressed charges. She now has a misdeameanor fot assault on her record. She has a degree in psychology, but no one will hire her. She has been doing cll center work the last ten years. She and her husband are divorced, hos life wasn't altered.Posted by TaurusBull1977A beat-down ?
My response may appear a little unorthodox,
But a s a woman, I would feel the internal need to protect my family.
A woman calling my house would pose an immediate threat to my family, especially if her motives were malicious.
A beat-down would definitely be in order.
She's testing you because your weakness is quite visible, magnified even, which is why she's able to manipulate you.
Stop communicating with her, or simply whoop her ass!
What you decide to do with your husband....—
Honestly, no one can give you this advice, but yourself.
We're not in your situation.
You're a Pisces.
You know this man intimately.
Ask yourself, regardless of the decision that is made regarding marriage/divorce.
Is this a decision you would be OK with?
Good Luck to you!
An assault charge in her record? This is not a very wise advice.
She is a lady and she shouldn't go that route.
Protecting her kids is right. with a restraining order and walking away from all of it. That is how she can protect them.
The guy needs NOT be protected, he should be protecting his family and her. Not the other way around.
She needs to be thinking logically not destructively. Her feelings and emotions are getting in the way of ALL logic thinking and decision making.
Never let a man fuck up your livelihood. Men can be replaced. A criminal record is forever.click to expand
You have that woman arrested for trespassing.
And remember... a good lawyer and/ or legal advice is priceless.
+10 pvaf
Your anger and focus are misplaced.
If he wanted her out, she wouldn't dare to harass either of you...because a woman would instinctively fear a man might use physical force against her and knock her out. She wouldn't have this much nerve if she didn't know something...about him either enjoying the drama or wanting to continue things on the down low.
Your children should come first. Not you, not your husband....and she should be last on any list of people to think about now.
If he wanted her out, she wouldn't dare to harass either of you...because a woman would instinctively fear a man might use physical force against her and knock her out. She wouldn't have this much nerve if she didn't know something...about him either enjoying the drama or wanting to continue things on the down low.
Your children should come first. Not you, not your husband....and she should be last on any list of people to think about now.
You have either a weak husband or he just likes to keep bullshit going.
Sounds like hubby is still screwing the Bull. What is hubby's sign, OP?
Sounds like hubby is still screwing the Bull. What is hubby's sign, OP?
Posted by Lifepath8PiscesWe need common sense too but alas that is rarely present.Posted by AgentP911we need a -1 in here too. 😄
A 'beat down'doesn't have to be interpreted as physical violence and if it was referring to physical violence it doesn't have to result in a prosecution or a record.
The sun beat down on her skin. The rain beat down on the trees.
Nothing wrong with whooping her arse either. Just don't get caught!
click to expand
Posted by estellajones
....... and won't show that I need him to chase a little longer.
I think it's hilarious that everyone is counseling you as if you actually want to be without him, and how to go about it, and why.
I also think it's hilarious that I'm the only one who picks up on the obvious. The title is a deception, in where it states that you want to leave him, but, he won' let you .... when the reality is in the above quote ..... you obviously don't care about what your kids are going through, nor care about this drama with the other woman.
What you care about is ..... that he continues to chase you.
Posted by P-AngelIf she wants to leave she is the only one that can make that happen. However if she wants him to leave her alone. That is different.Posted by estellajones
....... and won't show that I need him to chase a little longer.
I think it's hilarious that everyone is counseling you as if you actually want to be without him, and how to go about it, and why.
I also think it's hilarious that I'm the only one who picks up on the obvious. The title is a deception, in where it states that you want to leave him, but, he won' let you .... when the reality is in the above quote ..... you obviously don't care about what your kids are going through, nor care about this drama with the other woman.
What you care about is ..... that he continues to chase you.click to expand
Posted by estellajonesHappened to get in contact with? Lead him astray? Did he trip and fall and his dick land inside her? Sounds like your making excuses for his behavior. He CHOSE to contact his ex and cheat.
My husband and I had a rough patch and his Taurus ex happened to get in contact with him during our rough patch which lead him astray.
Posted by estellajonesWhy are you so focused on her?? Forget what her motivations are and focuse on you and your children. Make a plan for yourself.
I'm not sure if she really wants him or if she's out for revenge, she claims she doesn't love him but her actions show different and she disrespected my children by bringing them in to an argument yet she's the one trying to get back with my husband?click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneI agree with what you say about the whole affair thing. And if the guy wanted to make the ex girl go away. I am sure he could. He doesn't seem to care. The idea he is chasing her etc. Is not exactly accurate. He sounds manipulative.Posted by estellajonesHappened to get in contact with? Lead him astray? Did he trip and fall and his dick land inside her? Sounds like your making excuses for his behavior. He CHOSE to contact his ex and cheat.
My husband and I had a rough patch and his Taurus ex happened to get in contact with him during our rough patch which lead him astray.
Posted by estellajonesWhy are you so focused on her?? Forget what her motivations are and focuse on you and your children. Make a plan for yourself.
I'm not sure if she really wants him or if she's out for revenge, she claims she doesn't love him but her actions show different and she disrespected my children by bringing them in to an argument yet she's the one trying to get back with my husband?click to expand
Op you need to decide what you want to do. What YOU want.
Posted by BlondeAmbitionshe doesn't want either one of those.
If she wants to leave she is the only one that can make that happen. However if she wants him to leave her alone. That is different.
this is what she said she wanted, " ....... I need him to chase a little longer."
Posted by Lifepath8PiscesWell yes and no....you see whatever happens ..he is family now....they do need harmony.Posted by AgentP911yes sweetie.Posted by Lifepath8PiscesWe need common sense too but alas that is rarely present.Posted by AgentP911we need a -1 in here too. 😄
A 'beat down'doesn't have to be interpreted as physical violence and if it was referring to physical violence it doesn't have to result in a prosecution or a record.
The sun beat down on her skin. The rain beat down on the trees.
Nothing wrong with whooping her arse either. Just don't get caught!
common sense and thinking logically is extremely required in her situation. 🙂click to expand
She needs to see him as he is...
Everyone else needs to back off in this situation.
What will create most harmony? What can she control and what can she not?
Yet you are so hurt you are not thinking straight.
And you are still excusing him rather than accusing him. He was astoundingly selfish.
Accuse him.
Punishing him is not creating Harmony. He must punish himself.
Accuse him and then he must punish himself.
Do what you need to do for harmony and greater happiness.
Posted by Lifepath8PiscesShe has neither common sense nor logic. They wouldn't help her anyway.Posted by AgentP911yes sweetie.Posted by Lifepath8PiscesWe need common sense too but alas that is rarely present.Posted by AgentP911we need a -1 in here too. 😄
A 'beat down'doesn't have to be interpreted as physical violence and if it was referring to physical violence it doesn't have to result in a prosecution or a record.
The sun beat down on her skin. The rain beat down on the trees.
Nothing wrong with whooping her arse either. Just don't get caught!
common sense and thinking logically is extremely required in her situation. 🙂click to expand
Posted by busyeyes88Ha ha @Rocky!!Posted by AgentP911I totally agree and I like your style!!
A 'beat down'doesn't have to be interpreted as physical violence and if it was referring to physical violence it doesn't have to result in a prosecution or a record.
The sun beat down on her skin. The rain beat down on the trees.
Nothing wrong with whooping her arse either. Just don't get caught!
I was not nicknamed "Mrs Rocky Balboa" for nothing lol
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Posted by TaurusBull1977Thank you so much for this, his father has been letting me stay at his parents house telling me that if his son does decide to be with this woman he will never approve and he will look after me and the children, and set up a job for me as he owns his own business he will allow me to get on my feet which is nice. I've decided to take on the process of forgiving my husband as I have started to see that this girl is being evil and throwing up pictures to get me to react which i have not this time. Since we've been working things out its been hard but slowly happening, as for beating this girl up I am so close to doing so as I know where she lives. Many people think I'm stupid but I see his sincerity I just need to give it time and see where we go with this now. Thank you so much
My response may appear a little unorthodox,
But a s a woman, I would feel the internal need to protect my family.
A woman calling my house would pose an immediate threat to my family, especially if her motives were malicious.
A beat-down would definitely be in order.
She's testing you because your weakness is quite visible, magnified even, which is why she's able to manipulate you.
Stop communicating with her, or simply whoop her ass!
What you decide to do with your husband....—
Honestly, no one can give you this advice, but yourself.
We're not in your situation.
You're a Pisces.
You know this man intimately.
Ask yourself, regardless of the decision that is made regarding marriage/divorce.
Is this a decision you would be OK with?
Good Luck to you!
Posted by BlondeAmbitionI agree with what you're saying but trust me I am not excusing him lol, in fact when I first found out they were together I immediately was nothing but nice to this girl and she asked for us to meet up so she could show me some messages on her phone, it was so crazy we had a meal and was having a little chat about him etc I literally did not go crazy on her at first it was like we became friends over this guy! Then she started to tell him lies about me and told him in front of me that I wanted to meet her to see text messages but she doesn't have any— Then that's when I was so done with the both of them lol. Ever since she kept trying to be my friend adding me on social media, ringing me to see if I was okay. I told her to back off then that's when I started to see evilness and bitterness in her lol
And you are still excusing him rather than accusing him. He was astoundingly selfish.
Accuse him.
Punishing him is not creating Harmony. He must punish himself.
Accuse him and then he must punish himself.
Do what you need to do for harmony and greater happiness.
Posted by MontgomeryThe thing is he never was really seeing her, he was always at home with me or out with his friends and majority of the time he's not at home we will be on the phone, so whenever he saw her must have been a literal 2 second thing lol. Even his family is confused as to when he saw her we live in such a small town as well so somebody would have spotted them.
Is he still seeing her?
He's not good at opening up or talking about his feelings which frustrates me so I just automatically think everything this girl is saying to me is true.
However, he's got a new phone now and a new number.. Let's see if she "manages" to get this number lol
Posted by P-AngelYeah the stupidity of making sure he is serious instead of jumpingPosted by estellajones
....... and won't show that I need him to chase a little longer.
I think it's hilarious that everyone is counseling you as if you actually want to be without him, and how to go about it, and why.
I also think it's hilarious that I'm the only one who picks up on the obvious. The title is a deception, in where it states that you want to leave him, but, he won' let you .... when the reality is in the above quote ..... you obviously don't care about what your kids are going through, nor care about this drama with the other woman.
What you care about is ..... that he continues to chase you.click to expand
right back into the mess she was in before... unbelievable.
You're whole life is unbelievable love x
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His ex girlfriend is trying to split us up and isn't happy we're together, she dated him briefly back when they were 16 never had a relationship it was just a school playground relationship now she insists I split them two up and keeps on messaging him and manipulating both of us going back to me telling me lies what he's done or said and then doing the same back to him, it's driving me crazy and he fact I have two small children involved in this is even harder. I'm not sure if she really wants him or if she's out for revenge, she claims she doesn't love him but her actions show different and she disrespected my children by bringing them in to an argument yet she's the one trying to get back with my husband?