My taurus man left me a second time.

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lunagirl
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12 Years

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I'm an Aries Taurus cusp and he is an early Taurus. We met last year and it was instant chemistry, we couldn't be away from each other and we integrated each other fully into the othes life. I had, and still do have, a very good relationship with his family and friends and we both loved each other deeply. Problem was our communication was always off and I would get upset easily while he would passively brush things off. We broke up the first time 6 months ago and got back together within two weeks because we missed each other too much. A month ago though, we got into a huge fight and said many hurtful things to each other. He moved out of my house that night and we haven't spoken since. We are now both seeing new people but my heart still aches for him and his friends have told me that he has been a bit sad as well but is coping and has not talked about me at all. Is there any chance for us to be together again. I know we are both still hurting and need time to heal from this sudden breakup. I sent him a well written email of apology and thank you two weeks ago and told him I am no longer angry and that he still has some belongings at my house.I am very determined and stubborn and my heart is fixed on my Taurus man, I have never connected with someone like I did with him, it was almost like we had met before and he had told me that if there was a perfect girl out there for him, I was very close to it. He now lives down the street from me with his best friend, who talks to me frequently and wants us to be together again. What should be my next step? Or should I just wait and see if he comes around?
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lunagirl
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12 Years

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We broke up the first time because I was very weary of him and refused to build trust and it would cause us to argue about it. We never had the chance to build a friendship and I feel like our relationship developed too fast over the one year we were together. But our chemistry was so strong that it was difficult to stay away from each other and have our space. He moved in with me three months ago and our communication deteriorated, plus we both got new jobs and he was pretty stressed out from college. So I feel like allot of pressure built up, we never talked about any of it, and we finally blew up on each other. This was one month ago, and we never got to talk about it and he was very angry about the fight. Whenever we would argue, which was rare, it would always be shattering. But we got along very well and we have always been very loving and attentive with each other during the whole relationship. We have very similar personalities so maybe he recognised that we went too fast also. I just miss him, he was my best friend.
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lunagirl
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12 Years

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Ialso began to open up to him over time by the way. I do have the slow moving traits of Taurus when it comes to trust. But love is different, I am very passionate and ready to love all the way. He was the opposite, ready to trust but weary of love. He began to love me and I began to trust him but I suppose our bond was not strong enough and didn't have the chance to develop properly. So it crumbled under the pressure. He said it wasn't our fault that this happened, it was just life during our argument.