my Taurus with Leo moon...

he seems self-absorbed and every now and then i feel like he's losing interest

lately, he's always got something better to do than to make plans with me.

then, when i mention that i might have plans that don't involve him he gets jealous and offensive.

can someone help me understand this?

Im a Taurus with leo moon and my guy is also Taurus with Virgo moon.. he also does the same thing.. he makes all plan with his friends and ignore me all the time coz he very well know that i love him more than anyone and i don like goin out with anyone else other than him.. but at times i juz tell him that im going out with my fnds and he gets angry and stops me from doing that and cancels all his plans and takes me out.. its frustrating.

I agree with all you guys.. They get VERY comfortable aka lazy. YOU have to let them know it's not all about them and have other outlets, almost act like you can take them or leave them.