Need advice, Pisces female + sweet Taurus male

A tough thing: he wants to get intimate with me too often. We spend one or two days a week together, and he sort of touches and kisses me all day long. I totally appreciate how cuddly he is! However, he also wants to do the actual 'deed' at least four times a day, but because of limited time we usually have intercourse three times a day.

Today I wasn't too interested in intercourse, yet we had it three times. I enjoyed it for the most part, but at the same time I was growing mentally and physically irritated. In between I told him to stop playing with my nipples because they had become too sensitive, I asked him to use more lube, so I already sort of gave him the message that it was too much for me to handle. Soon after the third time he started to become intimate with me again and I simply turned away from him. He continued pleasing himself with my body however and I got rather fed up with it. I didn't scold or anything, but I did turn around and looked him in the eyes, and told him firmly that one could do such a thing to a rubber doll till she wears out, and after that one can buy a new one again, but it's not okay to do this to a real woman. He made sad puppy noises, told me that he wasn't doing anything to me and then he just laid down next to me. After a minute he dressed himself and went to watch TV. I joined him after a while. He was friendly but very quiet and didn't touch me at all.

I'm always extremely gentle to him, but I wonder if I've hurt his feelings today...? Later he did hold hands with me when I initiated it. I asked him if he was angry, and he said: "What would I be angry about?" So I said: "About me denying you sex? You seem to have a very high sex drive, and my body can't handle that every time." He simply told me not to worry about it. He seemed disappointed however, and I know he was having many thoughts this evening that he wasn't speaking out loud. I'm feeling sad because I think my words have been painful to him today. Advice from anyone would be really welcome, but thoughts from other Taurus males especially. He should respect my boundaries, but in addition to that I'm wondering: was I too mean? If it was you who had a very high sex drive, what would be a good solution for you? Is there any way I can repair any 'damage' that my words have done, so that he'll feel better in a couple of days? Thank you!

How old is he? I was this horny in high school.

You sound like you have been more than patient. His feelingd may be hurt but he will get over it. Definitely time to set boundaries...

Also, how long have you been dating? Having sex all day gets boring eventually....

You shouldnt cater to his emotions on this one IMO. Stand your ground. 3 x's a day is REALLY generous.

Thank you for your thoughts TaurusLovesScorpio and evalani05.

He turns 27 y/o this year and we've been dating for 7 months. I hoped that his needs would decrease after a while, when the 'newness' of it would fade away. Instead it seems that his libido just keeps increasing.

I remember reading that Taurus men value physical pleasures a lot, so when they're denied those at home, they'll be tempted to get it elsewhere, but while maintaining their current relationship. With this particular boyfriend I'm not afraid he'll cheat, but I do fear that he might 'punish' me in other ways (perhaps not having as many conversations as before, not accompanying me to future outdoor events we've planned).

Maybe I should tell him in advance (to prevent any 'punishment' or cheating behavior) that if it really bothers him that he won't get unlimited sex, it'd be better that we break off our relationship and that he should find a woman with the same needs as he has. That way we won't limit each other's lives. Otherwise I've no idea how to solve this. He already knows he's allowed to watch as much porn as he likes, he can masturbate in my presence etc. I'm not sure what else he could do to lower his needs.

My taurus guy is similar... He could have sex/ touching all day... After four years he hasn't slowed down lol

Thank you for your reply INTJBull, Eris, and busyeyes88.

INTJBull: true, if it was spread out over a whole week, I wouldn't mind doing it 14 times a week. It's just that four times within only 9 hours was too much.
I guess he's more of a do'er than a talker as well, I'll keep that in mind. And now that spring is arriving I'll try to get us outside more, we're always totally near his couch and bed indeed.

Eris: o dear...I'm seeing lots of truth in their description: "The Taurus stamina is unmatched. They will wear you down if you let them."

busyeyes88: there are many activities we could try indeed, I'll offer him these suggestions. I don't feel weak, just considerate regarding someone I love. I went on first dates during which guys made strange jokes or put their arm around my waist and I immediately told them I won't allow them to do that/I didn't appreciate their joke.