Need insight on Taurus

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Hi, I have been lurking and finally decided to post. Insight on my situation would be great cause I can't figure this out.
I am 39 and an Aries female, the guy is of course a Taurus and 39 yrs old also. We went to high school together??_always crushed on one another but timing was never right. Fast forward 20 years and we have reconnected. We both are going thru divorces right now??_we connected again a couple of years ago on facebook. At first he was always communicating by posting funny memes or comments on anything I would post on social media. Eventually we started talking with facebook messages, that is how we found out we are divorcing. The facebook communication has been going on for a couple of years on and off. I noticed he is very sexual in what he says??_we met last weekend for the first time in person for drinks. He did not say anything sexual to me then but did touch me a lot. He felt my hands and my arms. Always made sure his legs were touching mine. Paid for my drinks and at the end of the night, we hugged and kissed me on the cheek. He just asked me out again and said he was available Fri night and needed —somebody to do—?_I replied with, wrong girl! He told me he knew that and he was just kidding but then later replied that he did want to touch me and told me that I was the perfect girl to do and that he just needed to get my panties off??_that does get me hot thinking about it because he is sexy as hell! Anyway, I really don't want to go there??_I really do like him but want to take things slow. What is his agenda?? How do I handle him so that he does not turn cold but continue to keep his interest?
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Posted by sf75
Anyway, I really don't want to go there??_I really do like him but want to take things slow. What is his agenda?? How do I handle him so that he does not turn cold but continue to keep his interest?



I would hold out on him completely until at *least* all things are settled with your respective divorces. He'll respect it, and desire your more. I wouldn't spend too much time alone with him either. Things will happen. For me, the more a woman holds out, the more I tend to value her, because the more I tend to see her as valuing herself. It also helps me to get to know her more, and not just focus on the physical aspect. With Aries and Taurus, you really do need to figure out what areas, besides the bedroom, you'll be compatible in. I've seen plenty of Aries girls get bored with their homebody Taurus.
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You're 39, he said you're the perfect girl to 'do' and he just needs to get your panties off and you're wondering what his agenda is?? Lol...seems quite clear.
What do you mean how do handle him to keep his interest? Just be honest. He's being honest with you. Go with the flow...maybe have some mind blowing sex post divorce and if you aren't ready then say that. Keep it simple
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Posted by sf75
Anyway, I really don't want to go there??_I really do like him but want to take things slow. What is his agenda?? How do I handle him so that he does not turn cold but continue to keep his interest?



I would hold out on him completely until at *least* all things are settled with your respective divorces. He'll respect it, and desire your more. I wouldn't spend too much time alone with him either. Things will happen. For me, the more a woman holds out, the more I tend to value her, because the more I tend to see her as valuing herself. It also helps me to get to know her more, and not just focus on the physical aspect. With Aries and Taurus, you really do need to figure out what areas, besides the bedroom, you'll be compatible in. I've seen plenty of Aries girls get bored with their homebody Taurus.
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Yup a Taurus should appreciate the direct approach... probably will still want you and make attempts but respect and need you for it in the end. With a Venus in Taurus but a Scorpio Mars, I know what its like to want to take it slow, then again being overwhelmed with desire. Rushing the sexual aspect can divert attention from the real potential for true intimacy. Let him know you can and will rock his world... out of the sack THEN in it 😉

-heather
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Posted by Lovable
You're 39, he said you're the perfect girl to 'do' and he just needs to get your panties off and you're wondering what his agenda is?? Lol...seems quite clear.
What do you mean how do handle him to keep his interest? Just be honest. He's being honest with you. Go with the flow...maybe have some mind blowing sex post divorce and if you aren't ready then say that. Keep it simple



+1 Lovable!