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I was told by a female friend when asking advice on a male Taurus I am interested in what actions should I look for to know if he is interested and chasing among other things, was something Taurus like to do, is that true? I am asking for everyone's personal experience, when in the initial dating/get to know you process is that something you like to do, if so do you like the chase to also occur occasionally in the relationship?
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Taurus seldom chase. They react and respond to your actions.

If Taurus is interested, they will conduct the 'interview' with you first to check out your background, temperament and subtleties in your character.

You will have to express interest first if your Taurus checks you out. Unless you are their ideal which is seldom the case since they are super picky, they will just put you as a friend first to 'test-drive' you.

You'd be doing the chase most of the time unless you're femme fatale, has a killer body and is his once in a lifetime opportunity. So they'd be slow, very slow.
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Posted by Nefertari
Taurus seldom chase. They react and respond to your actions.

If Taurus is interested, they will conduct the 'interview' with you first to check out your background, temperament and subtleties in your character.

You will have to express interest first if your Taurus checks you out. Unless you are their ideal which is seldom the case since they are super picky, they will just put you as a friend first to 'test-drive' you.

You'd be doing the chase most of the time unless you're femme fatale, has a killer body and is his once in a lifetime opportunity. So they'd be slow, very slow.

^^^^ wow absolutely correct what's your sign you seem to understand us.

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I was told by a female friend when asking advice on a male Taurus I am interested in what actions should I look for to know if he is interested and chasing among other things, was something Taurus like to do, is that true? I am asking for everyone's personal experience, when in the initial dating/get to know you process is that something you like to do, if so do you like the chase to also occur occasionally in the relationship?
In my experience, I would say they took many actions to get what they wanted and did most of the pursuing.

If they want you, they WILL make efforts.

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That has been my experience with them, as well. Something probably worth noting is that they all had one or more personal planets in a fire sign, though.

Strangely, I've never encountered a Taurus that was too slow or meek to pursue.

When they like you, they try to claim you quickly before anyone else does, and they are rarely covert in their advances. The ones who have liked me made their interest very clear from the get-go. I mean, they left no room for any ambiguity, whatsoever. They were very open and consistent. Persistent, even. When they are not talking to you, they are stalking and assessing you.
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when I met this Taurus guy, he came for me, he admitted to trying not to stare at me all night (we met at a strip club, no I am not a dancer, I am a tipper lol) and I admitted I didn't even notice him, he said he knew I didn't. Ever since then he was very persistent and then he stopped after we had sex until now, now he is back to being consistent and everything seems fine, I hope it stays this way I don't like the mind games, it's already hard enough for me to find someone I actually like as a person.
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Taurus seldom chase. They react and respond to your actions.

If Taurus is interested, they will conduct the 'interview' with you first to check out your background, temperament and subtleties in your character.

You will have to express interest first if your Taurus checks you out. Unless you are their ideal which is seldom the case since they are super picky, they will just put you as a friend first to 'test-drive' you.

You'd be doing the chase most of the time unless you're femme fatale, has a killer body and is his once in a lifetime opportunity. So they'd be slow, very slow.

^^^^ wow absolutely correct what's your sign you seem to understand us.

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Virgo here. Anyone can understand Taurus well if they read up on astrology and has interactions with a few in their lives.

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That has been my experience with them, as well. Something probably worth noting is that they all had one or more personal planets in a fire sign, though.

Strangely, I've never encountered a Taurus that was too slow or meek to pursue.

When they like you, they try to claim you quickly before anyone else does, and they are rarely covert in their advances. The ones who have liked me made their interest very clear from the get-go. I mean, they left no room for any ambiguity, whatsoever. They were very open and consistent. Persistent, even. When they are not talking to you, they are stalking and assessing you.
The ones with the Fire sign act very fast in their chase. Those in Earth will be slower.

Yes, usually Taurus are very sure when they are fixed on you. No ambiguity.

It's either very fast to claim (when you're the ideal) or start as friends first, build trust and upgrade. No in betweens. Also depends on how high the expectations of the Taurus are. I guess with all signs, the more ambitious the person, the higher the expectations?
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I was told by a female friend when asking advice on a male Taurus I am interested in what actions should I look for to know if he is interested and chasing among other things, was something Taurus like to do, is that true? I am asking for everyone's personal experience, when in the initial dating/get to know you process is that something you like to do, if so do you like the chase to also occur occasionally in the relationship?
It is a slow process and you probably won't even notice that they are observing your every move.

They find out all about you from OTHERS and keep you in the dark from their intentions for quite a while.



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Very true especially if it is one you've known for quite some time. Observations are confessed in the form of questions that relay to specific events of your past. ie. Didn't you used to date so and so? I remember when you did ____. You used to ____.

Their intentions become known when they're comfortable and give you little time to react.
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To be honest... most of them seemed very private. The one that wanted to marry me after a month was rather earthy/airy and the rest seemed earthy/watery but maybe you are right... maybe they had my opposite Venus - Aries!

It's likely! My ex Taurus has Aries in Venus, opposite my sun and mars. He asked me to move in with him after just a couple weeks of talking. lol

And completely off topic, but @KingPinky, you remind of the actress Amber Stevens. She's also a Libra! I recognized the resemblance immediately, but couldn't remember her name until now.

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I was with a Taurus 3yrs we met one night he gave me and my friend a ride home and on the way home we stopped st a park and spent hours just talking we clicked great as friends we felt so comfortable then we just hung out more often talked and it was a give & take. There's wasn't a lot of chase nor games it was very simple, we clicked he took me to meet his family they loved me we started dating he met my family made it official and our relationship was more of a friendship over anything else. So as my advice to you would be just let things flow and grow don't play games be yourself and enjoy each other by far it was one of the best relationships I've even been in.

Taurus men are by far on the top of my list.


That's exactly how it feels, it felt like he was chasing me in the beginning just to get my attention but now it's like a give and take and we just click honestly. It feels more like friends hanging out, outside of the bedroom and that's what I like, we give each other the space we need seeing each other once a week but communicating once a day at least. When I leave him I feel satisfied but still left wanting just a LITTLE bit more which is perfect because I know I won't grow tired of him because during the week it will grow and by the time I start to miss him I'll see him.
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To be honest... most of them seemed very private. The one that wanted to marry me after a month was rather earthy/airy and the rest seemed earthy/watery but maybe you are right... maybe they had my opposite Venus - Aries!

It's likely! My ex Taurus has Aries in Venus, opposite my sun and mars. He asked me to move in with him after just a couple weeks of talking. lol

And completely off topic, but @KingPinky, you remind of the actress Amber Stevens. She's also a Libra! I recognized the resemblance immediately, but couldn't remember her name until now.

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Oh gosh she is beautiful! That's quite a compliment I don't think I'm that breath taking lol but thank you very much I am very flattered honestly. I have a wig on in that picture my hair is naturally curly and big lmao ?

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I guess the Taurus men approach the feminine signs a lot different than they do the masculine signs.

As a Libra woman (masculine) if a Taurus man charged at me I would be very offended and turned off!!!

And like Nefertari said I believe they respond and react to our actions.

Taurus is the number one sign that the Libra woman will marry (1/3 of them have Venus in Gemini.) Venus represents your heart's desire. I personally know a Taurus woman who married both Virgo and a Capricorn but since her Venus is in Gemini she claims her current Libra man is the love of her life.

As a masculine sign I am very uncomfortable with a man pursuing me. The bull who liked me picked up on my uncomfortable responses to his charging. For my comfort he began to level it out and allow me to be more proactive with the pursuit since that's what I'm most comfortable.

Venus makes the Taurus and Libra relationship so beautiful even when you are truly angry to where you could just kill him Venus will bring you guys both back to peace love and harmony effortlessly.

He proposed one year and 4 months later.

The Taurus man was a very good provider very faithful and extremely knowledgeable real easy to talk to...
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I was told by a female friend when asking advice on a male Taurus I am interested in what actions should I look for to know if he is interested and chasing among other things, was something Taurus like to do, is that true? I am asking for everyone's personal experience, when in the initial dating/get to know you process is that something you like to do, if so do you like the chase to also occur occasionally in the relationship?
In my experience, I would say they took many actions to get what they wanted and did most of the pursuing.

If they want you, they WILL make efforts.


That has been my experience with them, as well. Something probably worth noting is that they all had one or more personal planets in a fire sign, though.

Strangely, I've never encountered a Taurus that was too slow or meek to pursue.

When they like you, they try to claim you quickly before anyone else does, and they are rarely covert in their advances. The ones who have liked me made their interest very clear from the get-go. I mean, they left no room for any ambiguity, whatsoever. They were very open and consistent. Persistent, even. When they are not talking to you, they are stalking and assessing you.
☹️... I wasn't into birth charts (had no knowledge of them, actually) during the time of all those experiences. So, I have no clue what their birthcharts look like.... but I wish I could confirm it!! Sounds like a fire thing to do!

But the guy that would see me and call me every day in college was REALLY quiet and rather on the shy side.

To be honest... most of them seemed very private. The one that wanted to marry me after a month was rather earthy/airy and the rest seemed earthy/watery but maybe you are right... maybe they had my opposite Venus - Aries!



The ones that came to visit me at my office were DEFINITELY much more fiery and extroverted.



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You come across like you're bragging; like through the rejection of these men somehow you are more desirable. Classic Scorpio trait!!!

You sound like a pretty sick sociopathic woman with some pretty severe intimacy issues who use men's attention to compensate for a profound sense of a lack of self-esteem.

Get some help cuz you sound crazy girl#

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I guess the Taurus men approach the feminine signs a lot different than they do the masculine signs.

As a Libra woman (masculine) if a Taurus man charged at me I would be very offended and turned off!!!

And like Nefertari said I believe they respond and react to our actions.

Taurus is the number one sign that the Libra woman will marry (1/3 of them have Venus in Gemini.) Venus represents your heart's desire. I personally know a Taurus woman who married both Virgo and a Capricorn but since her Venus is in Gemini she claims her current Libra man is the love of her life.

As a masculine sign I am very uncomfortable with a man pursuing me. The bull who liked me picked up on my uncomfortable responses to his charging. For my comfort he began to level it out and allow me to be more proactive with the pursuit since that's what I'm most comfortable.

Venus makes the Taurus and Libra relationship so beautiful even when you are truly angry to where you could just kill him Venus will bring you guys both back to peace love and harmony effortlessly.

He proposed one year and 4 months later.

The Taurus man was a very good provider very faithful and extremely knowledgeable real easy to talk to...




It depends on the approach, the worse signs I have experienced were Aries and Cancer, I am not a touchy feely kind of person especially when I first meet someone, and they don't take my stiffness as a clue until I pull away and ignore them completely.

This Taurus almost did too much with the touchy feely he was lucky I had a few drinks in me lol ?

This is my first Taurus as an adult, and I haven't done his chart but my Venus is in Libra and I have always been more attracted to earth signs more than anything. I blame my chart and daddy issues lol
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To be honest... most of them seemed very private. The one that wanted to marry me after a month was rather earthy/airy and the rest seemed earthy/watery but maybe you are right... maybe they had my opposite Venus - Aries!

It's likely! My ex Taurus has Aries in Venus, opposite my sun and mars. He asked me to move in with him after just a couple weeks of talking. lol

And completely off topic, but @KingPinky, you remind of the actress Amber Stevens. She's also a Libra! I recognized the resemblance immediately, but couldn't remember her name until now.

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Oh gosh she is beautiful! That's quite a compliment I don't think I'm that breath taking lol but thank you very much I am very flattered honestly. I have a wig on in that picture my hair is naturally curly and big lmao ?


😕 But, you are actually prettier than that celebrity/actress...



Just saying!

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Oh gosh ?? don't make my head big lmao thank you though (I have a hard time taking a compliment, but I always try to remember to say thank you)
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I guess the Taurus men approach the feminine signs a lot different than they do the masculine signs.

As a Libra woman (masculine) if a Taurus man charged at me I would be very offended and turned off!!!

And like Nefertari said I believe they respond and react to our actions.

Taurus is the number one sign that the Libra woman will marry (1/3 of them have Venus in Gemini.) Venus represents your heart's desire. I personally know a Taurus woman who married both Virgo and a Capricorn but since her Venus is in Gemini she claims her current Libra man is the love of her life.

As a masculine sign I am very uncomfortable with a man pursuing me. The bull who liked me picked up on my uncomfortable responses to his charging. For my comfort he began to level it out and allow me to be more proactive with the pursuit since that's what I'm most comfortable.

Venus makes the Taurus and Libra relationship so beautiful even when you are truly angry to where you could just kill him Venus will bring you guys both back to peace love and harmony effortlessly.

He proposed one year and 4 months later.

The Taurus man was a very good provider very faithful and extremely knowledgeable real easy to talk to...


I enjoyed the charging bit but I guess its because I was at that stage anyway. If it had been earlier in our knowing each other I think it would have been a massive turn off.
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You come across like you're bragging; like through the rejection of these men somehow you are more desirable. Classic Scorpio trait!!!

You sound like a pretty sick sociopathic woman with some pretty severe intimacy issues who use men's attention to compensate for a profound sense of a lack of self-esteem.

Get some help cuz you sound crazy girl#


That sounds like a lot of Taurus men, but I don't think Infinite8 is bragging. She might move around a lot or has a large circle of friends to have that many Taurus around her.

I guess as a Scorp, on top of natural Opp sign attraction, she must have this super gorgeous look that is a Taurus' ideal. Taurus go after looks first and foremost. All the other qualities are second-class. When they see a beautiful face and a killer body, they will chase until they get what they want. But I wonder how she met so many Taurus all with Fire placements in them.

Most Taurus I know are the slow type and will do their hw on the girl first. When they ask a girl, they are pretty sure of it and will take the relationship slow.

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I guess the Taurus men approach the feminine signs a lot different than they do the masculine signs.

Taurus is the number one sign that the Libra woman will marry (1/3 of them have Venus in Gemini.) Venus represents your heart's desire. I personally know a Taurus woman who married both Virgo and a Capricorn but since her Venus is in Gemini she claims her current Libra man is the love of her life.

As a masculine sign I am very uncomfortable with a man pursuing me. The bull who liked me picked up on my uncomfortable responses to his charging. For my comfort he began to level it out and allow me to be more proactive with the pursuit since that's what I'm most comfortable.

Venus makes the Taurus and Libra relationship so beautiful even when you are truly angry to where you could just kill him Venus will bring you guys both back to peace love and harmony effortlessly.

He proposed one year and 4 months later.

The Taurus man was a very good provider very faithful and extremely knowledgeable real easy to talk to...


Great stats there! How did you get it? From an astrologer?

I'm a feminine sign, but I get uncomfortable myself too if someone chases too aggressively without testing the water first. I also can't stand a guy who goes touchy feely with me without getting to know me first.

I myself am not comfortable with the Aries chase or anyone who comes on too aggressively after I tell them I have no feelings for them.
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? I'm not sure if they all had fire placements - this was before I was into birth charts (didn't even know about birth charts at the time). Like I said, some were slow and shy, airy/earthy, private. The ones that felt very fiery to me were just friends that would come visit me a lot.

And wow... great observation——! Yes, I did move a lot and have lots of different circle of friends that I rotate. I also travel a lot.

And yes, I was VERY social - ENFJ


Wow! Sounds amazing!! I love confident, social and open-minded women. You remind me of my Scorp friend who is a photojournalist. She travels around a lot and takes good photos of nature and culture......... multi-talented gal.

I like Scorps a lot. Lucky to come across a lot of brilliant, mysterious, intriguing, multi-talented individuals from both genders myself. Dynamic people who goes after what they want, good with arts, music, history and very knowledgeable. The good ones would help to move mountains out of the way if they really like you.

I'm more to the introvert side, but with the right people, I become an extrovert and talks a lot more. Can't remember the exact Myer Briggs, but I rmb I am a protagonist. My Aries friend is a debater. Very accurate.