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HappyCapper
@HappyCapper
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First thing you need to do, imo, is to be veeery sure(at least as sure as you can ever be) that none of you will catch feelings. From experience, I can tell you that it's difficult af - maybe even impossible - to get rid of the feeling that: "Hmm, well, he/she is probably just in for the sex". Took me and one guy years to get to that point.

Set up clear rules and boundaries, and (as BG2 said) repeat as needed. Gl!
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Sola
@Sola
19 Years1,000+ PostsLibra

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What I know for sure is that I don't want to have feelings, he's not the type of guy i would take that seriously. I don't think he's a bad type, but he is THAT type, good for a good time and no more. I would be very surprised if he wasn't feeling the same way about me. Except in my case it will be for one or two nights only. I'll probably post here in a month crying and suffering!!!
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TaurusBull1977
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Sola,

I hope you're emotionally mature enough to handle a FWB with a Bull.

Don't allow his liberated approach to sex to confuse you. There is an underlying conventional nature to this man, no games, no BS.

Start out how you're going to keep out.

The Bull is 'fixed.'

Go back and read all the 10,000+ threads on a FWB with a Bull that never developed into anything else.
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Sola
@Sola
19 Years1,000+ PostsLibra

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I'm the boss of this situation, and that's the way it will stay if it's to continue ๐Ÿ™‚

I don't lack experience in any shape or form and it's something I've done in the past..but every time is different. He is Taurus with Aqua moon, I'm Libra with Sag moon so I think we'll be ok.

There's been no mention (yet) of what our expectations are, although he's adamant it won't be for one night only. I get the feeling he hasn't been single as long as me, and I'm also feeling that it'll come to a nice natural end on it's own..no scandal, no drama, no over attachment. I'm looking for a relationship, he knows that so as much as it might get tricky if I get attached, he equally has to accept that im not holding out hope for him, i intend to and will see other guys if he doesn't mind being the stop/gap then that's up to him.