Uhhhhhh what?

So I've been hooking up with this bull for about a month. I was cool with this at first because I had just gotten out of a 4 year long relationship but as time progressed I realized this just "hooking up" isn't for me. He asked if he could come hold me and so to summarize I pretty much said I wanted to explore beyond his four walls.

His response was, "I understand what you're saying. Well said"

Then yesterday he texted me saying, "I hope you're having a good day at work today"

Uhhh what?

What's wrong with this picture. I don't see anything we are csr8ng thoughtful people even if it doesn't work out .

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
What's wrong with this picture. I don't see anything we are caring thoughtful people even if it doesn't work out .

Uh, he cares. Is he a Saggy? 🤗 cyber hug

Love,

Eva

Wth is wrong with people omg. Damn. So much for being friends. Huh.

Dude just said he hope you have a nice day! What's wrong with that?

@Blackphase on top. Lmao

Posted by Sssupes
Dude just said he hope you have a nice day! What's wrong with that?

Nothing wrong with that all it was nice but his response to me seemed like he was brushing me off and then his text just confused me.

Omg you just need a break then because now you wondering why he is or isn't responding you just said you don't want him like that anymore. Now he is doing just that. And distancing and being nice to you still.

Posted by blackphase
Seems like he is trying to comply with what you want..

Then why not have set something up then and there? That's the part that's throwing me off about this bull.

I'm Venusian, you're not going anywhere@blackphase.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
I'm Venusian, you're not going anywhere@blackphase.

Kinky ass

Posted by EvatheDiva
Uh, he cares. Is he a Saggy? 🤗 cyber hug

Love,

Eva

He's a Taurus.

Posted by LDM90

Posted by EvatheDiva
Uh, he cares. Is he a Saggy? 🤗 cyber hug

Love,

Eva

He's a Taurus.

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Taurus.....hmmmmmmmmmmmm. Yeah, he's an earth sign. Girl, if he didn't care he wouldn't give you that statement. It's like saying, "Good morning/afternoon". All he said was, "I hope you are having a good day at work". To me he's polite, too.

Keep us posted. 🤗 cyber hug!

Love,

Eva

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Posted by blackphase
Seems like he is trying to comply with what you want..

Then why not have set something up then and there? That's the part that's throwing me off about this bull.

He is still feeling you out.. He could have easily taken what you said as you wanting to find someone else, someone who can offer more. He is trying to show you that he can be what you are looking for without being too pushy about it. He is seeing how you respond. He's a Taurus right? They like to take their time and for awhile now he wasn't looking at you as a potential mate, just someone he was sleeping with.. he now has to reassess this entire relationship.. doesn't happen quickly for a Taurus.

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Thanks a lot for the insight. So basically I'm getting worried for nothing huh? lol. I guess if he wasn't up for taking things further he would've retreated....

I think he wants to take things to the next level with you, or at least is open to doing that, what ever that next level is. A guy who just wants sex doesn't give a shit about how your day is going let alone wanting to text you that. I think if he didn't want things to progress he would've ghosted or until the next time he wanted sex down the road.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
What's wrong with this picture. I don't see anything we are csr8ng thoughtful people even if it doesn't work out .

I agree completely. We care about people. Nuff said. No problems. He's not trying to get into your panties, if that's what you think.

not sure what you are worried about since you call the shots ... be open to a friendship - my thing would be to just be friends and explore yourself, not others as you are in transition and need to be solid on where you wish to go from here