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Question about Taurus Crush
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Fast forward to Present:
Okay sooooo now that school started I dont know how to react around her, I just panic even though I act and look chill on the outside. I notice that she sometimes avoid my gaze so I do the same to her. When we're with our group of friends she jokes and laughs and look at me. Yesterday my cousin (who's gorgeous and my crush don't know that she's a relative) took my phone and posted a selfie of herself on my story which my crush saw. In the evening suddenly I got a notification of her taking a screenshot of our previous convos a long while ago which she saved on our snapchat 'chat'. That conversations started when she was feeling down and I was trying to cheer her up. I told her about how beautiful she is and that shes the most beautiful girl I ever saw and what I love about her even more is her personality even more than her looks which I did, I only liked her when I started talking to her (did I ever mention that she's like... Drop dead gorgeous and has a LOT of people who admire her) I repeatedly told her that she's beautiful and not to think bad about herself... So ya apparently she took a screenshot of that convo for some reason and it was a really old one, even before I told her that I liked her.
But anyways.. Back to the question... I dont really get how they act, is she acting normally and i shouldn't get my hopes up or are these things a Taurus would do if they like you?
I'm an outgoing person but when it comes to these kinds of stuff I get really shy and I'm too shy to ask her about it and I don't want to seem too pushy and pathetic trying to get her attention. Especially since we don't see each other as much and our conversations are brief.
Thanks!
And sorry for the long post 😛
Fast forward to Present:
Okay sooooo now that school started I dont know how to react around her, I just panic even though I act and look chill on the outside. I notice that she sometimes avoid my gaze so I do the same to her. When we're with our group of friends she jokes and laughs and look at me. Yesterday my cousin (who's gorgeous and my crush don't know that she's a relative) took my phone and posted a selfie of herself on my story which my crush saw. In the evening suddenly I got a notification of her taking a screenshot of our previous convos a long while ago which she saved on our snapchat 'chat'. That conversations started when she was feeling down and I was trying to cheer her up. I told her about how beautiful she is and that shes the most beautiful girl I ever saw and what I love about her even more is her personality even more than her looks which I did, I only liked her when I started talking to her (did I ever mention that she's like... Drop dead gorgeous and has a LOT of people who admire her) I repeatedly told her that she's beautiful and not to think bad about herself... So ya apparently she took a screenshot of that convo for some reason and it was a really old one, even before I told her that I liked her.
But anyways.. Back to the question... I dont really get how they act, is she acting normally and i shouldn't get my hopes up or are these things a Taurus would do if they like you?
I'm an outgoing person but when it comes to these kinds of stuff I get really shy and I'm too shy to ask her about it and I don't want to seem too pushy and pathetic trying to get her attention. Especially since we don't see each other as much and our conversations are brief.
Thanks!
And sorry for the long post 😛
Posted by Redoctober2000Wow your getting warm there, out of sheer curiosity, what sign do I seem to you the most? 😛
What's your sun sign? I'm sensing you are either an air or Fire sun sign?
If he is an Air Sign....My guess would be a Libra.
If he is a Fire Sign...My guess would be a Leo.
Aries move in for the prey. Take a chance NOW and suffer the consequences later,
Sags appear very insensitive at times, blunt, but never apologetic.
A Leo will show interest, but their pride can often get in the way if they're really into someone. The insecurities kick in, and the 'fixed' quality sits in....waiting for the other person to make a move or show interest.
An Aqua will pursue, verbalize and show their interests, but they're not gong to apologize for it later.
A Gemini wouldn't have been this sappy.
A Libra can be quite neurotic, romantic, and gifted with words, much similar like the OP. He's weighing out the pros and cons of pursuing her. Very much like a neurotic, indecisive Libra. His description of the attractive Taurus, and the attractive cousin is written all over this thread. The OP has some Venusian qualities.
If he is a Fire Sign...My guess would be a Leo.
Aries move in for the prey. Take a chance NOW and suffer the consequences later,
Sags appear very insensitive at times, blunt, but never apologetic.
A Leo will show interest, but their pride can often get in the way if they're really into someone. The insecurities kick in, and the 'fixed' quality sits in....waiting for the other person to make a move or show interest.
An Aqua will pursue, verbalize and show their interests, but they're not gong to apologize for it later.
A Gemini wouldn't have been this sappy.
A Libra can be quite neurotic, romantic, and gifted with words, much similar like the OP. He's weighing out the pros and cons of pursuing her. Very much like a neurotic, indecisive Libra. His description of the attractive Taurus, and the attractive cousin is written all over this thread. The OP has some Venusian qualities.
Posted by TaurusBull1977Actually I'm a she and a Sag.... Although Its weird how I dont see myself as one. Sagittarius are extroverts but I always prefer staying at home. Sagittarius love partying... I dont. And Sagittarius are considered unfaithful from what I see. But If I really liked someone I cant really forget about them unless they actually break my heart in a way. If I loved someone only that person really 'fills' my eyes otherwise nobody can really take their place. I can be VERY sensetive, I just dont like to show it. Yes I'm blunt, but I ALWAYS appologize if I took it too far.
If he is an Air Sign....My guess would be a Libra.
If he is a Fire Sign...My guess would be a Leo.
Aries move in for the prey. Take a chance NOW and suffer the consequences later,
Sags appear very insensitive at times, blunt, but never apologetic.
A Leo will show interest, but their pride can often get in the way if they're really into someone. The insecurities kick in, and the 'fixed' quality sits in....waiting for the other person to make a move or show interest.
An Aqua will pursue, verbalize and show their interests, but they're not gong to apologize for it later.
A Gemini wouldn't have been this sappy.
A Libra can be quite neurotic, romantic, and gifted with words, much similar like the OP. He's weighing out the pros and cons of pursuing her. Very much like a neurotic, indecisive Libra. His description of the attractive Taurus, and the attractive cousin is written all over this thread. The OP has some Venusian qualities.
Even though my Sun sign is Sag, I dont feel like its my dominant one... And I still have no idea what my other planet signs are. I just know that my Rising Sign/Venus is a Scorpio and my Midheaven is probably either a Leo or Virgo.
Oh, you're a woman.
My apologies.
I was speaking for the male Sun Signs.
Is the Taurus woman gay?
My apologies.
I was speaking for the male Sun Signs.
Is the Taurus woman gay?
Posted by TaurusBull1977Ya she told me before that she gets attracted to both.
Oh, you're a woman.
My apologies.
I was speaking for the male Sun Signs.
Is the Taurus woman gay?
But anyways, I just want to know what do you get from her actions, is she interested, or is this something normal to a Taurus.
Usually how DOES Taurus act around a person IF they like or have a crush on them?
Oh, so she's bi-sexual.
She's flirtatious, but there is not enough contact between the both of you to tell.
Too much e-communication, social media and snap shots.
I'm a bit old school.
So I am not familiar with the 'titles' and 'logos' of the gay community.
So forgive me if I am naive to certain things. I can only attribute my knowledge according to what I have read.
Some prefer 'no labels', the bisexual individual is usually looked down upon and not taken seriously, some experiment, and some just date the same sex and consider themselves gay.
Coorect me if I am wrong in my assumptions.
But if you want a Taurus astrological perspective.
AVOID e-communication.
We're Venusian signs. We need to see, smell, touch or taste the other person.
...And we also prefer to be courted.
Instead of using the internet to court her, try courting her in person.
A graudal courtship is always preferred, despite the natal placements of the Bull.
It needs to be slow, consistent, steady, and the connection has to be organic.
This may work out for you, because I sense some hesitation and shyness on your part.
She may be taken with that.
Start by finding out what her favorite flowers are, and send them to her.
See how she reacts......
She's flirtatious, but there is not enough contact between the both of you to tell.
Too much e-communication, social media and snap shots.
I'm a bit old school.
So I am not familiar with the 'titles' and 'logos' of the gay community.
So forgive me if I am naive to certain things. I can only attribute my knowledge according to what I have read.
Some prefer 'no labels', the bisexual individual is usually looked down upon and not taken seriously, some experiment, and some just date the same sex and consider themselves gay.
Coorect me if I am wrong in my assumptions.
But if you want a Taurus astrological perspective.
AVOID e-communication.
We're Venusian signs. We need to see, smell, touch or taste the other person.
...And we also prefer to be courted.
Instead of using the internet to court her, try courting her in person.
A graudal courtship is always preferred, despite the natal placements of the Bull.
It needs to be slow, consistent, steady, and the connection has to be organic.
This may work out for you, because I sense some hesitation and shyness on your part.
She may be taken with that.
Start by finding out what her favorite flowers are, and send them to her.
See how she reacts......
Posted by TaurusBull1977Dont worry, its actually something new to us 😛 she did date a guy before but, well it didnt end well for her, so she "switched" so I'm not entirely sure.
Oh, so she's bi-sexual.
She's flirtatious, but there is not enough contact between the both of you to tell.
Too much e-communication, social media and snap shots.
I'm a bit old school.
So I am not familiar with the 'titles' and 'logos' of the gay community.
So forgive me if I am naive to certain things. I can only attribute my knowledge according to what I have read.
Some prefer 'no labels', the bisexual individual is usually looked down upon and not taken seriously, some experiment, and some just date the same sex and consider themselves gay.
Coorect me if I am wrong in my assumptions.
But if you want a Taurus astrological perspective.
AVOID e-communication.
We're Venusian signs. We need to see, smell, touch or taste the other person.
...And we also prefer to be courted.
Instead of using the internet to court her, try courting her in person.
A graudal courtship is always preferred, despite the natal placements of the Bull.
It needs to be slow, consistent, steady, and the connection has to be organic.
This may work out for you, because I sense some hesitation and shyness on your part.
She may be taken with that.
Start by finding out what her favorite flowers are, and send them to her.
See how she reacts......
But anyways, I really do want to see and talk to her more instead of it always on the phone. But again, its extremely hard for me to see her nowadays. I also want to take it slow since I hope I'm not getting the wrong signals, which is why I'm asking you guys whether she seems to be interested or not thru her actions. If I left her flowers, its basically a big fat 'I still like you' move. I'm just worried that I'm reading her the wrong way, and assuming that she DOES like me back. But If she doesnt I would kinda seem pathetic given that she never really said anything knowing that I liked her.
Send her the flowers.
This is the only way you will know.
She's a venusian sign. Remember that.
She will either accept the invittation.
Or reject the invitation.
But my gut instinct tells me that she will not rule out the friendship.
This is the only way you will know.
She's a venusian sign. Remember that.
She will either accept the invittation.
Or reject the invitation.
But my gut instinct tells me that she will not rule out the friendship.
With a Bull,
You will have to 'be in the moment' with us.
Our body gestures, our demeanor around you, it's all in the eyes.
You can only witness this for yourself.
No amount of e-communication will capture this moment.
Send her the flowers to get the ball rolling if you want to see this in person.
Or you can just ask her out for an innocent cup of coffee if you think the flowers are too forward.
You will have to 'be in the moment' with us.
Our body gestures, our demeanor around you, it's all in the eyes.
You can only witness this for yourself.
No amount of e-communication will capture this moment.
Send her the flowers to get the ball rolling if you want to see this in person.
Or you can just ask her out for an innocent cup of coffee if you think the flowers are too forward.
I know how you feel! What is it about sag women and Taurus women? I also don't feel like I'm a true sag half the time...I'm a total introvert
Anyway, I find my Taurus girl very hard to read. Some days she super flirty, some days she's my best friend, and others she pulls back.
It almost seems to me the deeper her feelings, the less open she is! I wish I could peek inside her mind because it is super hard to understand but I wouldn't want it with anyone else...
Anyway, I find my Taurus girl very hard to read. Some days she super flirty, some days she's my best friend, and others she pulls back.
It almost seems to me the deeper her feelings, the less open she is! I wish I could peek inside her mind because it is super hard to understand but I wouldn't want it with anyone else...
Posted by spljmikr, they are super hard to read... Although it's funny how I have many other Taurus friends who I can immediatly know what they're thinking by just looking at their face, yet, she's so tough to read.
I know how you feel! What is it about sag women and Taurus women? I also don't feel like I'm a true sag half the time...I'm a total introvert
Anyway, I find my Taurus girl very hard to read. Some days she super flirty, some days she's my best friend, and others she pulls back.
It almost seems to me the deeper her feelings, the less open she is! I wish I could peek inside her mind because it is super hard to understand but I wouldn't want it with anyone else...
So I would take it as a good sign that she's not as open to me as she was before? Like nowadays when we see eachother I get extremely shy and I kinda sense the same from her as we avoid eachother's gaze. Before I even realized that I liked her, we always went for a hug and we messed around a lot with eachother. Yet again, those times were when we didnt have clashing classes, so we saw eachother more often than now.
In my experience, when we first met, she was really funny and friendly and would respond to flirty texts. She would tell me I was beautiful, hot, etc (now I assume this was because she thought that I was just a flash in the pan, flirtatious sag and didn't think I'd stick around. Then we started texting every day and realized we had so much in common. She stopped flirting over text and was only flirtatious in person.
Then as our friendship started to build, she started to be really flirtatious in person but only every once in a while in text. Finally, after all this time knowing I had a crush on from day one, she told me that she liked me and that she was attracted to me and we had chemistry. This is there one and only time that she admitted it. When I brought it up a while later she played it off and ignored it. This is where I get confused.
Now I would consider her to be a best friend but one with a mutual attraction and chemistry, however she still rarely will text it (maybe because she knows I could bring it up into conversation later)
She is always asking about me, always getting me things, always touching me, resting her head on my shoulder, etc but I can't get anything verbal out of her except that she cries when she thinks about me leaving for 3 months. The non-verbal thing is so confusing to me
Then as our friendship started to build, she started to be really flirtatious in person but only every once in a while in text. Finally, after all this time knowing I had a crush on from day one, she told me that she liked me and that she was attracted to me and we had chemistry. This is there one and only time that she admitted it. When I brought it up a while later she played it off and ignored it. This is where I get confused.
Now I would consider her to be a best friend but one with a mutual attraction and chemistry, however she still rarely will text it (maybe because she knows I could bring it up into conversation later)
She is always asking about me, always getting me things, always touching me, resting her head on my shoulder, etc but I can't get anything verbal out of her except that she cries when she thinks about me leaving for 3 months. The non-verbal thing is so confusing to me
I basically have learned to not repeat anything she has said to me about liking me, thinking I'm attractive, how she feels about me, etc because she shuts it down.
Maybe a Taurus can explain why this happens? Maybe it makes her feel vulnerable?
Maybe a Taurus can explain why this happens? Maybe it makes her feel vulnerable?
Also, is it true that when Taurus are in a funk they want to be left alone? Even by the people closest to them?
I think this is going on with my Taurus lady and it is so hard for me because I just want to be there for her.
I think this is going on with my Taurus lady and it is so hard for me because I just want to be there for her.
Posted by Redoctober2000This is very accurate. I would rather show someone how I feel rather than tell them how I feel. I feel that actions have so much power than words. When I attempt to verbalize how I feel, it makes me feel vulnerable. When I attempt to prepare the words, gather them collectively and deliver...it appears very awkward and scripted.
Taurus do not like to talk about feelings... It makes them feel vulnerable and they hate feeling vulnerable.
But a Taurus needs to be forced to talk about issues.. If you feel you need to know about your situation (saves time wasting) them mention it again to her... If she avoids answering or changes the subject, move on... Taurus will never let you go without a huge fight to keep you if they truly want you..
If you really want to know how a Bull feels about you, it's all in the eyes.
I agree with RedOctober.
When I am really feeling someone, in regards to intimacy issues, I can be very shy.
Being flirtatious is just a fun and natural way to break the ice, but it doesn't mean that I will let you in or take you seriously. ( I have a Venus in Aries, so I can attest to this).
However, if you notice that I am not flirting, but appear non-verbal and extremely shy, know that I am really into you.
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The Beginning:
I have a crush on this Taurus friend who almost knows everything about my love life and I know about hers (it was one time we were sitting alone after our friends left us and we spilled everything to each other) but anyways...I told her that I like her.... over the text (I know its kinda cowardly but I didnt see her at school much because of classes) she was surprised and I didnt want it to be awkward between us and I didnt think that she would like me back anyways, besides, I just needed to get it off my chest so I just told her and she was like "wow... Ummm" again I didnt want it to be awkward so I almost immediately told her not to worry and that I'll get over these feelings... She just replied with "I know you will.... You badass" I made a few jokes, she laughed and then our convo ended.
This past summer
We have each other on snapchat and one day she commented on one of my adventure snaps... It slowly started to turn into a conversation... It felt REALLY nice, we made jokes and made fun of each other it was our first conversation in a long time... Again it was nice. (That was at the end of summer and almost the beginning of school again.) So at one point I made a joke which referenced to her favorite movie ever. She laughed and she was like "Nice job... I like you even more now... keep it up" So I panicked since I was in the process of getting her out of my heart and I said "oh damn how do I reverse that 😛" or something like that, I said it in a joking way (we joke a lot with each other if you haven't noticed by now) but ya I don't really remember what I said exactly but anyways....