@LibraLovesHim
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Are Taurus dumb/naive or gaga in love?
Are Taurus People Naive or Just Loving and Loyal
Taurus individuals are often practical and cautious but can be deeply loyal and loving. Their actions may seem naive but are driven by their desire for stability and affection. Understanding their motives helps clarify their behavior rather than labeling them as naive or naive in love.
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I've noticed that sometimes with compatible pairings a little more is tolerated than usual. She could very well know what's going on, but at the same time, why won't he leave her and be with whom ever else?
Earth sign men can be tricky too...well, I'll speak for Caps. He could never take her out, get with someone else, wine and dine them, yet not feel as deeply for that person. It's like you can't take what's going on at face value.
Posted by LibraLovesHim
Your Cappy "boyfriend" who never posts pics of the 2 of you, goes out without you, goes out with other girls etc grabs you to take a pic with you and posts it publicly to hurt another female. Do you get this is whats happening? Or are you "awwww I love him he finally posted a pic with me" or do you know whats going on but are that desperate to keep him you accept it?Are Taurus REALLY that naive or just have an "ignorance is bliss" attitude.
Stumped!
Let me guess, the other woman he's trying to get jealous is you.
You're spending too much time on Social Media.
I wouldn't try to play the relationship expert for Fakebook, Fibb-to-gram, Twitter Lies, or Fake-Chat if I were you.
Everyone is pretending.
Don't think the Bull isn't pretending either.
But to answer your question,
Bulls are naive when they're young, < than the age of 25.
The Venusian aspect it's heightened, and we're fools for love.
When they're > than the age of 25.
Then the pragmatic earth' element is heightened.
We have already smelled the Bullsh&t and we're just looking for incentives.
There is nothing practical in pursuing a dead end relationship going nowhere without the benefits.
Tell us one lie...we will tell you three.
Remember, we're sweet, lady-like, unsuspecting, unassuming, and traditional.
No one suspects a Bullette of anything.
Posted by LibraLovesHim
Your Cappy "boyfriend" who never posts pics of the 2 of you, goes out without you, goes out with other girls etc grabs you to take a pic with you and posts it publicly to hurt another female. Do you get this is whats happening? Or are you "awwww I love him he finally posted a pic with me" or do you know whats going on but are that desperate to keep him you accept it?Are Taurus REALLY that naive or just have an "ignorance is bliss" attitude.
Stumped!
Let me guess, the other woman he's trying to get jealous is you.
You're spending too much time on Social Media.
I wouldn't try to play the relationship expert for Fakebook, Fibb-to-gram, Twitter Lies, or Fake-Chat if I were you.
Everyone is pretending.
Don't think the Bull isn't pretending either.
But to answer your question,
Bulls are naive when they're young, < than the age of 25.
The Venusian aspect it's heightened, and we're fools for love.
When they're > than the age of 25.
Then the pragmatic earth' element is heightened.
We have already smelled the Bullsh&t and we're just looking for incentives.
There is nothing practical in pursuing a dead end relationship going nowhere without the benefits.
Tell us one lie...we will tell you three.
Remember, we're sweet, lady-like, unsuspecting, unassuming, and traditional.
No one suspects a Bullette of anything.
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Informative thanks, needless to say cunt that comments on my threads is fucking useless as usual. Thanking you 🙂 explained much
Posted by Redoctober2000
Perhaps the other female is the "desperate" one to be entertainment for someone else's "bf" in the first place—
Sup with you lady? Take a hike to the salon get that midden on top of your head fixed and stop being a keyboard warrior. Your so fucking predictive sheesh! Bye!
Posted by LibraLovesHim
Your Cappy "boyfriend" who never posts pics of the 2 of you, goes out without you, goes out with other girls etc grabs you to take a pic with you and posts it publicly to hurt another female. Do you get this is whats happening? Or are you "awwww I love him he finally posted a pic with me" or do you know whats going on but are that desperate to keep him you accept it?Are Taurus REALLY that naive or just have an "ignorance is bliss" attitude.
Stumped!
Are u "the other female"?
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And no dear, im not "the other female" I was with him before I cut him off. The "other females" he has plenty off. Hence the question about the Taurus. The dynamic of his current relationshit intrigues me. Nothing less nothing more so get the fuck off your high horse and stop jumping to conclusions.
Is his harem aware of how disingenuous and manipulative he is?
I found the best way to knock down flies surrounding his bullshit is to offer complete consent to everyone and make their fetishizing of taboos basal.
Make their trysts uninteresting
I'd be happy he posted the picture. And happy she's jealous. He's mine bitch ?
@SensitiveBlues....
No.
Not fake.
Just reactionary.
Just treating a spade like a spade.
...There is a difference.
Posted by LibraLovesHim
Your Cappy "boyfriend" who never posts pics of the 2 of you, goes out without you, goes out with other girls etc grabs you to take a pic with you and posts it publicly to hurt another female. Do you get this is whats happening? Or are you "awwww I love him he finally posted a pic with me" or do you know whats going on but are that desperate to keep him you accept it?Are Taurus REALLY that naive or just have an "ignorance is bliss" attitude.
Stumped!
Let me guess, the other woman he's trying to get jealous is you.
You're spending too much time on Social Media.
I wouldn't try to play the relationship expert for Fakebook, Fibb-to-gram, Twitter Lies, or Fake-Chat if I were you.
Everyone is pretending.
Don't think the Bull isn't pretending either.
But to answer your question,
Bulls are naive when they're young, < than the age of 25.
The Venusian aspect it's heightened, and we're fools for love.
When they're > than the age of 25.
Then the pragmatic earth' element is heightened.
We have already smelled the Bullsh&t and we're just looking for incentives.
There is nothing practical in pursuing a dead end relationship going nowhere without the benefits.
Tell us one lie...we will tell you three.
Remember, we're sweet, lady-like, unsuspecting, unassuming, and traditional.
No one suspects a Bullette of anything.
Tell us one lie...we will tell you three.
Remember, we're sweet, lady-like, unsuspecting, unassuming, and traditional.
No one suspects a Bullette of anything"
I love the above para.... True... No one suspects a thing.. That is part of Taurus "disguise"!! 😉
My mother calls me a "Wolf in sheep's clothing"!!
Nicely put TB!!
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Wolf in sheeps clothing? Not a term to describe you, well besides when you're on these boards being a manipulative asshole and changing accounts and making threads about yourself. Fucking pain the arse more like! Doubt you're actually even a Taurus.
Posted by LibraLovesHim
Your Cappy "boyfriend" who never posts pics of the 2 of you, goes out without you, goes out with other girls etc grabs you to take a pic with you and posts it publicly to hurt another female. Do you get this is whats happening? Or are you "awwww I love him he finally posted a pic with me" or do you know whats going on but are that desperate to keep him you accept it?Are Taurus REALLY that naive or just have an "ignorance is bliss" attitude.
Stumped!
Are u "the other female"?
And no dear, im not "the other female" I was with him before I cut him off. The "other females" he has plenty off. Hence the question about the Taurus. The dynamic of his current relationshit intrigues me. Nothing less nothing more so get the fuck off your high horse and stop jumping to conclusions.
Wow! For someone you claim you dumped you are sure as hell taking things waaaaaayy too seriously here. I didn't say anything to cause any harm...
Look at the way you have behaved. You are cursing for what?! No harm was meant? If you cut him loose why would you be intrigued by whomsoever he is with now?! I am absolutely gobsmacked at your reaction.
Astounded
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Hunni your constant "insinuations" do not go unmissed. Believe me. Now fuck off.
Posted by LibraLovesHim
Your Cappy "boyfriend" who never posts pics of the 2 of you, goes out without you, goes out with other girls etc grabs you to take a pic with you and posts it publicly to hurt another female. Do you get this is whats happening? Or are you "awwww I love him he finally posted a pic with me" or do you know whats going on but are that desperate to keep him you accept it?Are Taurus REALLY that naive or just have an "ignorance is bliss" attitude.
Stumped!
Let me guess, the other woman he's trying to get jealous is you.
You're spending too much time on Social Media.
I wouldn't try to play the relationship expert for Fakebook, Fibb-to-gram, Twitter Lies, or Fake-Chat if I were you.
Everyone is pretending.
Don't think the Bull isn't pretending either.
But to answer your question,
Bulls are naive when they're young, < than the age of 25.
The Venusian aspect it's heightened, and we're fools for love.
When they're > than the age of 25.
Then the pragmatic earth' element is heightened.
We have already smelled the Bullsh&t and we're just looking for incentives.
There is nothing practical in pursuing a dead end relationship going nowhere without the benefits.
Tell us one lie...we will tell you three.
Remember, we're sweet, lady-like, unsuspecting, unassuming, and traditional.
No one suspects a Bullette of anything.
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Nicely done. I can really relate to this except some parts (I'm a guy) and the lies -- I really hate lying, even to those who deserve it -- it just hurts me when I lie. I've also noticed we're underestimated a lot and taken for granted. Everytime I help someone out, I'm telling myself, maybe, someone would do the same for me. Unfortunately life doesn't work that way.
Please take this Lenin face, you've earned it. ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
Posted by PhytoLilith
Is his harem aware of how disingenuous and manipulative he is?I found the best way to knock down flies surrounding his bullshit is to offer complete consent to everyone and make their fetishizing of taboos basal.
Harem quite literally! lol! I do remember when I was seeing him he told me about an ex who said to him "go be with who you want but just don't leave me" I knew all along what he was capable of, it was always in the back of my mind he has to go. Eventually I did get rid. Its just this type of female that "accepts" it genuinely intrigues me as i'm the total opposite. Even when I was 21 I was a ruthless bitch if I find out someone is cheating/lying to me you're out. I have softened up more as i've gotten older and have a more willingness to try and understand-although not everyone deserves that approach.
Posted by TaurusBull1977
@SensitiveBlues....No.
Not fake.
Just reactionary.
Just treating a spade like a spade.
...There is a difference.
TB, what I find weird is the OP's AGGRESSIVE reaction.. I don't know about you but I was not expecting that remark from her.
I got the feeling from the thread that there was no feeling or involvement hence my comments but her reaction to the comments has knocked me for six...
Especially as she says she dumped him but the fact that she is still intrigued by what he does, who he sees, enough to create a thread as a third party with no feeling or involvement and goes completely dolally and starts insulting us as if she still has feelings for or was hurt by the cap...!!!
Confused.... Nasty personality though... So I'll the cap off!!
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Manipulative shithead...here we go. Those who know your history around here know exactly your tactics doll. They never change. Glad I could entertain though. And not one part of this was done "third party" again, assumptions.
Whoaaaa!
It's not that serious LibraLovesHim,
No one insinuated anything.
I just asked if you were the female he was trying to get a rise out of.
I don't know much about this Cappie's dating history.
But anything posted on social media, I take with a grain of salt.
As Inana stated,
Earth sign men can be fickle.
This is very true.
There are some things they choose to share, but a majority of their private lives or what's really going on with them internally is usually kept to themselves.
I think what Busy was alluding to was...
Why are you so concerned with this Capricorn?
It wasn't meant to come off as disrespectful.
Wolf in sheeps clothing? Not a term to describe you, well besides when you're on these boards being a manipulative asshole and changing accounts and making threads about yourself. Fucking pain the arse more like! Doubt you're actually even a Taurus.
Well according to your OP and your reaction to some of the comments, I'd definitely say you were a libra;
"Libra: fake Flakes of the zodiac" comes to mind...
My reaction is due to being tired of your bs luv. Its not the first time youve been know to rile me or others up on here. Does you mom hate you? Like seriously what is your problem? It was a genuine question looking for a genuine response. You are literally incapable of that its unreal. Do you have ADD? Go open a new profile and start a thread about yourself. Bye.
Posted by TaurusBull1977
Whoaaaa!It's not that serious LibraLovesHim,
No one insinuated anything.
I just asked if you were the female he was trying to get a rise out of.
I don't know much about this Cappie's dating history.
But anything posted on social media, I take with a grain of salt.
As Inana stated,
Earth sign men can be fickle.
This is very true.
There are some things they choose to share, but a majority of their private lives or what's really going on with them internally is usually kept to themselves.
I think what Busy was alluding to was...
Why are you so concerned with this Capricorn?
It wasn't meant to come off as disrespectful.
That wasn't directed at you. Please again, don't be confused. This thread is more about the dynamics of the relationship and this type of woman. I am not concerned about him whatsoever. I know exactly how he is what he is etc etc-personally id say borderline narc. I have no questions or concerns about him at all.
I don't think Busy was being rude.
She asked the same questions I did.
I think i'd chalk it up to her being young. Even though it wasn't me at that age it does happen. She is from a good family, seems to have very loving parents although does claim to have daddy issues. I just think maybe making bad decisions and growing up. God knows. It wouldn't be my daughter.
Posted by TaurusBull1977
I don't think Busy was being rude.She asked the same questions I did.
Its her "insinuating" she wouldnt do it to my face so I disappreciate her doing it through the keyboard. She avoids answering questions. Thats all. I dislike snakes.
What is with women using public photo posting as some sort of marker for how much a man loves them - as though they aren't offered any other practical and substantial signs of love?
Posted by TaurusBull1977
Whoaaaa!It's not that serious LibraLovesHim,
No one insinuated anything.
I just asked if you were the female he was trying to get a rise out of.
I don't know much about this Cappie's dating history.
But anything posted on social media, I take with a grain of salt.
As Inana stated,
Earth sign men can be fickle.
This is very true.
There are some things they choose to share, but a majority of their private lives or what's really going on with them internally is usually kept to themselves.
I think what Busy was alluding to was...
Why are you so concerned with this Capricorn?
It wasn't meant to come off as disrespectful.
That wasn't directed at you. Please again, don't be confused. This thread is more about the dynamics of the relationship and this type of woman. I am not concerned about him whatsoever. I know exactly how he is what he is etc etc-personally id say borderline narc. I have no questions or concerns about him at all.
But your reaction is the name calling etc in a temper says otherwise. Your reactions do not correlate with what you are now saying...
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You do it all the time, all the time! Its tiresome! I was looking for genuine responses. You didnt give me any response whatsoever! You came back with something about "maybe the other female is...." that is not an answer to the OP. Please go back and read it again. If you are capable of responding decently. No problemo.
Posted by TaurusBull1977
@SensitiveBlues....No.
Not fake.
Just reactionary.
Just treating a spade like a spade.
...There is a difference.
and why im losing out, i can't do that, i can't be like that.
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It comes very naturally to us. For example we'll help you, be there for you and all that. When someone tries to take advantage of that, we press the delete button. Most of the time there wont be any shouting, fighting and whatever, really. Just drowning silence.
Hope you didn't have any bad experiences with our sign.
Also, a young Taurean can be very different from an adult Taurean. Experienced this.
Posted by LillyPetal
What is with women using public photo posting as some sort of marker for how much a man loves them - as though they aren't offered any other practical and substantial signs of love?
I think it is the modern day equivalent of leaving your scent.
I also find it very odd you care enough to want to talk out your feelings on this online advice. Perhaps you don't want to talk to your closest friends because they'd too think you're being a little crazy. I get it. You're jealous. I would be too. But it's better to be a mature adult in this situation.
Posted by TaurusBull1977
@LibraLovesHim,Can I ask you a personal question?
Do you have an issue with this Taurus woman?
She attacked me about 2 months ago. Other than that no not particularly, I did take that a personal affront! The man I couldn't care less about. I see fellow women as my sisters in a way. Id rather get to the root of an issue with the woman, not by attacking her in a fit of jealous drunken rage. At that point I didnt have him blocked and he'd still msg me about shit, trying to get me back around "I miss Gretzky" (cat he bought me) "I need to talk to you its important" He knew the way to get to me and get a response was to make me feel sorry for him. From what I know this is what she does to him. Maybe there are 2 and the same? But I know for a fact her reaction was a result of how he is capable of "getting to you" Its just sad to me to see another female get that low.
What he said ^ a young Taurean can be very different from an adult Taurean...
Posted by LibraLovesHim
Your Cappy "boyfriend" who never posts pics of the 2 of you, goes out without you, goes out with other girls etc grabs you to take a pic with you and posts it publicly to hurt another female. Do you get this is whats happening? Or are you "awwww I love him he finally posted a pic with me" or do you know whats going on but are that desperate to keep him you accept it?Are Taurus REALLY that naive or just have an "ignorance is bliss" attitude.
Stumped!
Are u "the other female"?
This was a direct question.
I think that's a question mark at the end.
I immediately assumed it was you, too.
Let me guess, the other woman he's trying to get jealous is you.
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I don't understand the hostility.
Posted by pinkbird03
I also find it very odd you care enough to want to talk out your feelings on this online advice. Perhaps you don't want to talk to your closest friends because they'd too think you're being a little crazy. I get it. You're jealous. I would be too. But it's better to be a mature adult in this situation.
No I have of course talked to them. I think most of us on the forum discuss here what they do daily with friends also. Everyone has a different persepective and take on things. Anyway I think the thread has gotten more about me now than the OP. But thanks for the responses I got anyway.
Yeah, I am grey asexual monogamous, how I find this translates within the modern sexual revolution with a hetero-monogamous cultural background is that people will use jealousy to make sex more exciting between their parter and other women as they typically are seen to compete.
I can imagine less asexual people would still be upset despite their understanding of the range of attraction to others because of honesty and prior agreements of what a relationship would be.
I do the best thing I can and deflate their perceptions in such a way that makes their sex lives uninteresting, accepting their 'poly' inclinations yet not yielding my souls or body to them. Extend basic world love, be deeply engaging, invite the other ladies to all hang out, flaunt your charm in front of them to a particular no one in a very European manner, get bored of them in public, this can be more subtley frustrating to cheaters than the cold shoulder.
There's nothing I find more insulting to people's intelligence than the jealousy games people play.
Posted by TaurusBull1977
@SensitiveBlues....No.
Not fake.
Just reactionary.
Just treating a spade like a spade.
...There is a difference.
and why im losing out, i can't do that, i can't be like that.
It comes very naturally to us. For example we'll help you, be there for you and all that. When someone tries to take advantage of that, we press the delete button. Most of the time there wont be any shouting, fighting and whatever, really. Just drowning silence.
Hope you didn't have any bad experiences with our sign.
Also, a young Taurean can be very different from an adult Taurean. Experienced this.
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Well Stated.
1. Drowning Silence.
2. Disappearing Acts.
3. Entertainment (Hot & Cold) Incentives.
Posted by TaurusBull1977
Whoaaaa!It's not that serious LibraLovesHim,
No one insinuated anything.
I just asked if you were the female he was trying to get a rise out of.
I don't know much about this Cappie's dating history.
But anything posted on social media, I take with a grain of salt.
As Inana stated,
Earth sign men can be fickle.
This is very true.
There are some things they choose to share, but a majority of their private lives or what's really going on with them internally is usually kept to themselves.
I think what Busy was alluding to was...
Why are you so concerned with this Capricorn?
It wasn't meant to come off as disrespectful.
That wasn't directed at you. Please again, don't be confused. This thread is more about the dynamics of the relationship and this type of woman. I am not concerned about him whatsoever. I know exactly how he is what he is etc etc-personally id say borderline narc. I have no questions or concerns about him at all.
Then why are you checking him out on social media!! Get a life and then you might be able to do the same thing!! Lol lol
You are even narcissistic enough to think that he is just doing it to gain your attention when he might actually love the Taurus... !!!
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Im not checking him out on social media? EEK! Problematic you are! He done this kind of thing with me, I could see through it...I know for a fact he plays the same shit with her. I knew him better than he knew himself I think.
Posted by pinkbird03
I also find it very odd you care enough to want to talk out your feelings on this online advice. Perhaps you don't want to talk to your closest friends because they'd too think you're being a little crazy. I get it. You're jealous. I would be too. But it's better to be a mature adult in this situation.No I have of course talked to them. I think most of us on the forum discuss here what they do daily with friends also. Everyone has a different persepective and take on things. Anyway I think the thread has gotten more about me now than the OP. But thanks for the responses I got anyway.
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Well how do you know he didn't post the picture because he loves her? Or because it makes him happy? Why do you think he's trying to make you jealous?
Posted by PhytoLilith
Yeah, I am grey asexual monogamous, how I find this translates within the modern sexual revolution with a hetero-monogamous cultural background is that people will use jealousy to make sex more exciting between their parter and other women as they typically are seen to compete.I can imagine less asexual people would still be upset despite their understanding of the range of attraction to others because of honesty and prior agreements of what a relationship would be.
I do the best thing I can and deflate their perceptions in such a way that makes their sex lives uninteresting, accepting their 'poly' inclinations yet not yielding my souls or body to them. Extend basic world love, be deeply engaging, invite the other ladies to all hang out, flaunt your charm in front of them to a particular no one in a very European manner, get bored of them in public, this can be more subtley frustrating to cheaters than the cold shoulder.
There's nothing I find more insulting to people's intelligence than the jealousy games people play.
Now this is interesting! Makes sense...
In short I think its not really about accepting that behavior from them so much as clearly defining where your love is held and making them question how that is really expressed.
Posted by pinkbird03
I also find it very odd you care enough to want to talk out your feelings on this online advice. Perhaps you don't want to talk to your closest friends because they'd too think you're being a little crazy. I get it. You're jealous. I would be too. But it's better to be a mature adult in this situation.No I have of course talked to them. I think most of us on the forum discuss here what they do daily with friends also. Everyone has a different persepective and take on things. Anyway I think the thread has gotten more about me now than the OP. But thanks for the responses I got anyway.
Well how do you know he didn't post the picture because he loves her? Or because it makes him happy? Why do you think he's trying to make you jealous?
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Because I know him inside out and a leopard never changes his spots. He puts it up for a week or so, then takes it down. Everything is to manipulate who he is with and others. But you may be right...I dont doubt he doesnt love her, his idea of love anyway...
Posted by TaurusBull1977
Whoaaaa!It's not that serious LibraLovesHim,
No one insinuated anything.
I just asked if you were the female he was trying to get a rise out of.
I don't know much about this Cappie's dating history.
But anything posted on social media, I take with a grain of salt.
As Inana stated,
Earth sign men can be fickle.
This is very true.
There are some things they choose to share, but a majority of their private lives or what's really going on with them internally is usually kept to themselves.
I think what Busy was alluding to was...
Why are you so concerned with this Capricorn?
It wasn't meant to come off as disrespectful.
That wasn't directed at you. Please again, don't be confused. This thread is more about the dynamics of the relationship and this type of woman. I am not concerned about him whatsoever. I know exactly how he is what he is etc etc-personally id say borderline narc. I have no questions or concerns about him at all.
But your reaction is the name calling etc in a temper says otherwise. Your reactions do not correlate with what you are now saying...
You do it all the time, all the time! Its tiresome! I was looking for genuine responses. You didnt give me any response whatsoever! You came back with something about "maybe the other female is...." that is not an answer to the OP. Please go back and read it again. If you are capable of responding decently. No problemo.
You see what you want to see.. My first response was this :
This is not based on astrology!! Just because she is a Taurus doesn't mean we act like this!!
So the answer to that question :: HELL NO!!"
What's wrong with that? Warrant name calling does it—
You have serious ex issues... Leave your ex and the Taurus alone.. They don't you pretending to care... Fake flake!!
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As other Taurus have said-this seems like it could be a young Taurean thing. But thanks again for your input love.
Posted by TaurusBull1977
@SensitiveBlues....No.
Not fake.
Just reactionary.
Just treating a spade like a spade.
...There is a difference.
and why im losing out, i can't do that, i can't be like that.
It comes very naturally to us. For example we'll help you, be there for you and all that. When someone tries to take advantage of that, we press the delete button. Most of the time there wont be any shouting, fighting and whatever, really. Just drowning silence.
Hope you didn't have any bad experiences with our sign.
Also, a young Taurean can be very different from an adult Taurean. Experienced this.
Well Stated.
1. Drowning Silence.
2. Disappearing Acts.
3. Entertainment (Hot & Cold) Incentives.
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Point no 2-I guess thats when he gets someone else to "fill the gap" for a while.
Don't lower yourself to playing games. There are so many things in this world than worrying about other people and their lives.
Posted by jeane
Don't lower yourself to playing games. There are so many things in this world than worrying about other people and their lives.
For sure...agreed
Posted by LibraLovesHim
Your Cappy "boyfriend" who never posts pics of the 2 of you, goes out without you, goes out with other girls etc grabs you to take a pic with you and posts it publicly to hurt another female. Do you get this is whats happening? Or are you "awwww I love him he finally posted a pic with me" or do you know whats going on but are that desperate to keep him you accept it?Are Taurus REALLY that naive or just have an "ignorance is bliss" attitude.
Stumped!
Are u "the other female"?
This was a direct question.
I think that's a question mark at the end.
I immediately assumed it was you, too.
Let me guess, the other woman he's trying to get jealous is you.
I don't understand the hostility.
Exactly! Me neither! If the OP is an uninvolved third party why the volatile reaction...
We are only getting 5% of what is really going on here!!!
Why is she even still spying him...??! Odd behaviour.. But I'm sure a "nerve" was hit but why?
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Still?
Posted by pinkbird03
I also find it very odd you care enough to want to talk out your feelings on this online advice. Perhaps you don't want to talk to your closest friends because they'd too think you're being a little crazy. I get it. You're jealous. I would be too. But it's better to be a mature adult in this situation.No I have of course talked to them. I think most of us on the forum discuss here what they do daily with friends also. Everyone has a different persepective and take on things. Anyway I think the thread has gotten more about me now than the OP. But thanks for the responses I got anyway.
Well how do you know he didn't post the picture because he loves her? Or because it makes him happy? Why do you think he's trying to make you jealous?
Because I know him inside out and a leopard never changes his spots. He puts it up for a week or so, then takes it down. Everything is to manipulate who he is with and others. But you may be right...I dont doubt he doesnt love her, his idea of love anyway...
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I find it hard to believe a cap would do this. More so because it's public and they hate pda. Especially if they are players like this guy sounds like he is. It must have been his new gf trying to control him. Trying to feel special. I don't blame her. But girl, you gotta move on. He's not worth any upsetting feeling you have. You'll find someone much better!!!
If you blocked him, how were you able to see his profile, posts and his pics.
Or how was he able to guilt-trip you about your pet Gretchen?
Posted by TaurusBull1977
@LibraLovesHim,If you blocked him, how were you able to see his profile, posts and his pics.
Or how was he able to guilt-trip you about your pet Gretchen?
It was before he was blocked. We were on/off for a loooong time until I finally cut the cord. V messy situation. Id get pissed off block him for a while then unblock. Stupid but it was stuck in the grey phase for a very long time.
Posted by TaurusBull1977
Whoaaaa!It's not that serious LibraLovesHim,
No one insinuated anything.
I just asked if you were the female he was trying to get a rise out of.
I don't know much about this Cappie's dating history.
But anything posted on social media, I take with a grain of salt.
As Inana stated,
Earth sign men can be fickle.
This is very true.
There are some things they choose to share, but a majority of their private lives or what's really going on with them internally is usually kept to themselves.
I think what Busy was alluding to was...
Why are you so concerned with this Capricorn?
It wasn't meant to come off as disrespectful.
That wasn't directed at you. Please again, don't be confused. This thread is more about the dynamics of the relationship and this type of woman. I am not concerned about him whatsoever. I know exactly how he is what he is etc etc-personally id say borderline narc. I have no questions or concerns about him at all.
But your reaction is the name calling etc in a temper says otherwise. Your reactions do not correlate with what you are now saying...
You do it all the time, all the time! Its tiresome! I was looking for genuine responses. You didnt give me any response whatsoever! You came back with something about "maybe the other female is...." that is not an answer to the OP. Please go back and read it again. If you are capable of responding decently. No problemo.
You see what you want to see.. My first response was this :
This is not based on astrology!! Just because she is a Taurus doesn't mean we act like this!!
So the answer to that question :: HELL NO!!"
What's wrong with that? Warrant name calling does it—
You have serious ex issues... Leave your ex and the Taurus alone.. They don't you pretending to care... Fake flake!!
As other Taurus have said-this seems like it could be a young Taurean thing. But thanks again for your input love.
So what's your excuse?!
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My excuse for what?
Posted by LibraLovesHim
Your Cappy "boyfriend" who never posts pics of the 2 of you, goes out without you, goes out with other girls etc grabs you to take a pic with you and posts it publicly to hurt another female. Do you get this is whats happening? Or are you "awwww I love him he finally posted a pic with me" or do you know whats going on but are that desperate to keep him you accept it?Are Taurus REALLY that naive or just have an "ignorance is bliss" attitude.
Stumped!
So you mean to tell me that his happened a while back before you blocked him?
Is this correct?
Posted by LibraLovesHim
Your Cappy "boyfriend" who never posts pics of the 2 of you, goes out without you, goes out with other girls etc grabs you to take a pic with you and posts it publicly to hurt another female. Do you get this is whats happening? Or are you "awwww I love him he finally posted a pic with me" or do you know whats going on but are that desperate to keep him you accept it?Are Taurus REALLY that naive or just have an "ignorance is bliss" attitude.
Stumped!
So you mean to tell me that his happened a while back before you blocked him?
Is this correct?
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No the comment about "missing the cat" was made about 1 week ago through snapchat as I hadnt blocked him there since I got it. How he is how he treats her is still ongoing-thats his personality trait. She has "tried to commit suicide" apparently twice when he tried to finish with her. She spoke to me abt this the day after she went for me. She came across as very please feel sorry for me but i'm not easily swayed whatsoever and was totally affronted by it tbh.
Posted by TaurusBull1977
Whoaaaa!It's not that serious LibraLovesHim,
No one insinuated anything.
I just asked if you were the female he was trying to get a rise out of.
I don't know much about this Cappie's dating history.
But anything posted on social media, I take with a grain of sal
That wasn't directed at you. Please again, don't be confused. This thread is more about the dynamics of the relationship and this type of woman. I am not concerned about him whatsoever. I know exactly how he is what he is etc etc-personally id say borderline narc. I have no questions or concerns about him at all.
But your reaction is the name calling etc in a temper says otherwise. Your reactions do not correlate with what you are now saying...
You do it all the time, all the time! Its tiresome! I was looking for genuine responses. You didnt give me any response whatsoever! You came back with something about "maybe the other female is...." that is not an answer to the OP. Please go back and read it again. If you are capable of responding decently. No problemo.
You see what you want to see.. My first response was this :
This is not based on astrology!! Just because she is a Taurus doesn't mean we act like this!!
So the answer to that question :: HELL NO!!"
What's wrong with that? Warrant name calling does it—
You have serious ex issues... Leave your ex and the Taurus alone.. They don't you pretending to care... Fake flake!!
As other Taurus have said-this seems like it could be a young Taurean thing. But thanks again for your input love.
So what's your excuse?!
My excuse for what?
For your disgusting behavioural towards us when you were hiding the truth all along!!! Nasty!
click to expandWho is "us" whats this an attempted gang attack now lol. Finish babe i'm tired. Yallah! Bye!
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Your Cappy "boyfriend" who never posts pics of the 2 of you, goes out without you, goes out with other girls etc grabs you to take a pic with you and posts it publicly to hurt another female. Do you get this is whats happening? Or are you "awwww I love him he finally posted a pic with me" or do you know whats going on but are that desperate to keep him you accept it?
Are Taurus REALLY that naive or just have an "ignorance is bliss" attitude.
Stumped!