Most helpful Thing for a worn out taurus

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by spljm on Saturday, September 3, 2016 and has 11 replies.

How to Support a Worn Out Taurus Woman

To help a worn out Taurus woman, offer her quiet, genuine support and respect her need for alone time. Show appreciation through actions rather than words and encourage her to prioritize self-care. Being patient and understanding can help her feel valued and less overwhelmed.

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@spljm
10 Years

So my Taurus best friend (also huge crush) is being taken advantage of and is feeling under appreciated because of her generous and kind nature. She told me tonight that the only alone time she gets is in her car.

I know this is very important for Taurus women to have their alone time so how can I comfort her and what can I do to let her know I'm there? I've told her but as you all probably know, she isn't much for expressing gratitude or feelings in words

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@spljm
10 Years

Ok, what is with Taurus women changing the subject when talking gets deep and serious? It's like she cannot let go and just let me know what she's thinking.

I've never known someone to change the subject more than her. Should I call her out on it or just ignore it and go with the flow? Why does it happen so often?

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@spljm
10 Years

Sag

We are really close friends and she has told me (once) that she likes me and is attracted to me but I just can't get her to talk about anything serious without her changing the subject.

I am going away for three months and she said she can't think about it because it makes her cry but when I brought it up again she just played it off.

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@spljm
10 Years

She always says that she knows she can trust me and that I'll always be there, etc so I don't know what I've done that would make her not take me seriously.

Why would she say that she likes me and is attracted to me? And why would she cry just thinking about me leaving?

I'm so confused

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@spljm
10 Years

Ah.

So there is nothing I can do? I'll love her no matter what - hope she knows and can feel that

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@TaurusBull1977
17 Years1,000+ Posts

Ask her one direct question...instead of several different questions.

Keep asking the same direct question until it triggers a direct response.

It annoys us to no end, you will eventually get a blunt, unfiltered response.

Be prepared when you do.

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@spljm
10 Years

Got it.

So why would she tell me these things if she doesn't see stability?

Because she does have feelings but that isn't enough?