I am a Cancer male and I've been dating a Taurus woman for about 2 and a half months now. We both agreed that we were not ready for a relationship but we hit it off so fast it was crazy. We started talking everyday and seeing each other whenever we could make the time. She always told me she loved talking to me and she appreciated me being so good to her. She started making plans of me spending time with her kids. About a csouple weeks ago things just changed she became quite distant so I finally asked her what's wrong and she told me she's not ready for love and doesn't want a relationship which was odd to me because we've never said anything about love or a relationship so I told her that I do have feelings for her but as far as a relationship if it happens I'll be here and that I was just enjoying our time together then she say's we just need to slow things down. She says that she doesn't know why I like her because her life is so crazy and I shouldn't want to deal with it but I told her that her having a crazy busy life has no bearing on me liking her. So I've been staying away texting her every couple of days just to let her know I still think about her and still care for her and I'm going to be here even if it's difficult. Am I handling this right I'm trying to stay cool on the outsidebut lord knows the cancer in me is going crazy right now wondering if she still likes me or waiting for her to cut me off completely I've never dated a Taurus woman and I'm definitely stuck.Any advice would be great.
Racking my brain

Well I don't know your situation personally but I'll try and give my 2 cents.
Do you know any of her other placements?
Ok so if things rly were going as good as you say let's assume she does actually like you.
I'm a taurus female and from my opinion there's rly only 2 reasons I'd run from a guy I rly like
1. I sense he may not like me as much as I like him so it's my defense mechanism to run away in order to protect myself
2.my feelings are starting to develop and we know how much we give when we love rtc so I may test the guy. If I push you away or get a little more difficult and you run then I know you didn't rly care about me! Taurus have big hearts and we like to feel safe and if you aren't consistent and dependable we won't feel safe with you and won't want to let our feelings grow
So since you've openly showed interest in her I'm guessing is could be the second one. I say keep doing what your doing. Don't come on too strong give her a little space to miss you but let her know that we're there and your not going anywhere. And mayb in time she will trust you enough to not push anymore
Do you know any of her other placements?
Ok so if things rly were going as good as you say let's assume she does actually like you.
I'm a taurus female and from my opinion there's rly only 2 reasons I'd run from a guy I rly like
1. I sense he may not like me as much as I like him so it's my defense mechanism to run away in order to protect myself
2.my feelings are starting to develop and we know how much we give when we love rtc so I may test the guy. If I push you away or get a little more difficult and you run then I know you didn't rly care about me! Taurus have big hearts and we like to feel safe and if you aren't consistent and dependable we won't feel safe with you and won't want to let our feelings grow
So since you've openly showed interest in her I'm guessing is could be the second one. I say keep doing what your doing. Don't come on too strong give her a little space to miss you but let her know that we're there and your not going anywhere. And mayb in time she will trust you enough to not push anymore
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