long post... This is all online, as we live in different countries...Handsome Taurus man contacts Attractive Cancer woman, we hit it off - witty banter, affectionate words etc...Taurus is very comfortable with Long distance relationships, as previous career of constant travel left no choice. Cancer never entertained the thought of a LDR, she has enough men to keep her occupied in her own state, but the this idea appeals to her commitment phobic side, plus she appreciates that Taurus has a positive outlook (plus she feels he may be worth it). Finally start setting up times to im, and begin chatting, eventually via cam (but no voice due to tech difficulties). Proper & polite Taurus knows his passion makes shy Cancer blush - but she likes it. Taurus shares sexual fantasy (pretty tame, but sweet). Taurus wants Cancer to share her fantasies also. Cancer says she will when trust and comfort are built. Taurus understands. Both are aware that sexually they are very compatible, so not very worried. Cancer satisfies 3 out of 5 senses for Taurus - she 'looks' good, can cook 'taste', sexy voice. Taurus has a HUGE ego, but Cancer gently strokes it constantly - making Taurus act like a ManBoy, surely he blushes too. Taurus finally shares (and asks) about past relationships, what are we looking for etc. Seems both agree that they are looking for "long term relationship with someone who shares same interests and values". Taurus is divorced, picky Cancer never married... They've known each other for about 3 weeks (but know both are who they say they are internet safety wise). Taurus plans to travel to Cancer's country sometime this month for business. They agree that Taurus will stay with Cancer, instead of a hotel (Taurus made nervous/cautious suggestion, but extremely happy when Cancer agreed). Cancer is excited and can't wait to cook for him (and fack his brains out). They also discuss her potential visit to Taurus country in 3 months - Taurus' suggestion. Online relationship has now seemed to reach a new level - more secure, more romantic for both. So around Easter, all is well. Taurus mentions that he will be swamped with work for about 2 weeks - project deadline 4/5. Cancer is fine with that. 7 days go by, and not a peep from Taurus - no 1 line "miss u's", nothing. Cancer takes it in stride and figures 'poor Taurus baby is being worked to the bone.' BUT ...
she goes on the website they met at, and notices he's been quite active!! WTF?!? Well, the Leo in Cancer's chart kicks into full gear, and she stalks his site activity in stealth mode - he's fackin' on there 24/7!! Cool. They haven't even met yet, so she's no upset over that, but she is pissed by the new lack of communication. Knowing he's online, she sends him a short "how ya doin?" email. He doesn't answer until the next morning - "been busy, good to hear from her, thinking about her, missing her, can't wait to see her blah, blah, blah". Cancer answers as she normally would "doin this, done that, miss u too". They continue to email, but Taurus (still active online) seems less attentive and makes no mention of setting up online chat time, and ignores Cancer's hint. As a test, Cancer emails him in the middle of the work day with the flirtatious promise of a "sexy surprise" via cam. Wow! Taurus responds pretty fast, very happy and just wants to know time to be there lol! That was 3 days ago - Cancer hasn't responded. Cancer, also decides to rock the Taurus boat a little, hopefully arousing his jealousy, by also being very active on the site, in fact adds new photos, and changes up profile. One thing Taurus knows is that men find Cancer attractive, but he also knows she is loyal.
So how did I do? I figure he is collecting more harem members (hey, I have some too)...I feel like he's too secure about me, and I need to introduce him to my Leo (player) side to shake things up a bit. I'm determined to have him (completely). I want him to start chasing me again. How should I proceed?
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This is all online, as we live in different countries...Handsome Taurus man contacts Attractive Cancer woman, we hit it off - witty banter, affectionate words etc...Taurus is very comfortable with Long distance relationships, as previous career of constant travel left no choice. Cancer never entertained the thought of a LDR, she has enough men to keep her occupied in her own state, but the this idea appeals to her commitment phobic side, plus she appreciates that Taurus has a positive outlook (plus she feels he may be worth it). Finally start setting up times to im, and begin chatting, eventually via cam (but no voice due to tech difficulties). Proper & polite Taurus knows his passion makes shy Cancer blush - but she likes it. Taurus shares sexual fantasy (pretty tame, but sweet). Taurus wants Cancer to share her fantasies also. Cancer says she will when trust and comfort are built. Taurus understands. Both are aware that sexually they are very compatible, so not very worried. Cancer satisfies 3 out of 5 senses for Taurus - she 'looks' good, can cook 'taste', sexy voice. Taurus has a HUGE ego, but Cancer gently strokes it constantly - making Taurus act like a ManBoy, surely he blushes too. Taurus finally shares (and asks) about past relationships, what are we looking for etc. Seems both agree that they are looking for "long term relationship with someone who shares same interests and values". Taurus is divorced, picky Cancer never married... They've known each other for about 3 weeks (but know both are who they say they are internet safety wise). Taurus plans to travel to Cancer's country sometime this month for business. They agree that Taurus will stay with Cancer, instead of a hotel (Taurus made nervous/cautious suggestion, but extremely happy when Cancer agreed). Cancer is excited and can't wait to cook for him (and fack his brains out). They also discuss her potential visit to Taurus country in 3 months - Taurus' suggestion. Online relationship has now seemed to reach a new level - more secure, more romantic for both.
So around Easter, all is well. Taurus mentions that he will be swamped with work for about 2 weeks - project deadline 4/5. Cancer is fine with that. 7 days go by, and not a peep from Taurus - no 1 line "miss u's", nothing. Cancer takes it in stride and figures 'poor Taurus baby is being worked to the bone.' BUT ...