I met this Taurus girl at college at the start of the semester (2 months ago) now, we're in the same degree (Bachelor of Psychology) and I've seen her in many of my units over the past year. At the start of this semester we met each other properly and became good friends but she was in a relationship at the time I met her so I didn't think about anything more than friendship.A few weeks pass and we start to really get along well, oddly enough this coincided with her having problems with her boyfriend. As the problems with her boyfriend intesified so did our bond and we started to become very close, it was at this point ( about a month after meeting her) I told her that I liked her a lot (this was done on Facebook messenger), she replied with "honestly, I have feelings for you too and I like you a lot but its just the wrong time I guess" (she's still with him at this point).The plot thickens. I start to begin light physical contact such as hugging at first, but then I began to stroke her thighs, get more physical which she doesn't stop or gets bothered at. Anyways she ends up breaking up with her boyfriend about a week ago and I'm really supportive about saying I don't want her to commit to anything etc. I give her lifts around college to her living quarters, study a lot with her, laugh at the same things and get along great in general until very recently. Last thursday, I drove her to her house and gave her a hug nothing more, when I get back home we start talking online as per usual and mid conversation online she says: "I thought about kissing you today but I don't think I'm in the right mindset idk if it's just because I'm clearly hurting and find you attractive or not". This conversation happened at night after we'd been cuddling and doing minor stuff during the day nothing major. This weekend comes round and she's completely different, as if she's a totally different person, I know she's recently broken up with her boyfriend (Last wednesday) so she's highly likely to be very moody and will take a long time get over it like most taurus women, but is this sporadic behaviour normal of Taurean women? or is this a sign she doesn't want the closeness that we've developed? I'm worried that's all because even though she's been in a relationship we've shared a very strong bond/friendship.
I told her that I'm not asking her to commit to ANYTHING till she's ready to do so and that I don't want to lose the closeness I've built up with her, to which she always says: "I don't expect you to wait for me" which I respond with "I don't mind, or I'm not going to give up, or I don't want to lose what we've developed etc.". I say those things because she's said she likes me a lot but I feel like there's a lot of confusion too. Today she's been giving me very short responses usually one or two words and absolutely zero emotion. I won't see her again till monday possibly and I don't know where I sit, I really like this girl and I'm willing to wait a few months to see If she'll come round but I'm not entirely sure I'll even get that chance. She also went clubbing last night and kissed a random but didn't do anything more than that so I'm not sure if that's her way of coping.
What do you guys think I should do and what do you think will happen?
I met this Taurus girl at college at the start of the semester (2 months ago) now, we're in the same degree (Bachelor of Psychology) and I've seen her in many of my units over the past year. At the start of this semester we met each other properly and became good friends but she was in a relationship at the time I met her so I didn't think about anything more than friendship.A few weeks pass and we start to really get along well, oddly enough this coincided with her having problems with her boyfriend. As the problems with her boyfriend intesified so did our bond and we started to become very close, it was at this point ( about a month after meeting her) I told her that I liked her a lot (this was done on Facebook messenger), she replied with "honestly, I have feelings for you too and I like you a lot but its just the wrong time I guess" (she's still with him at this point).The plot thickens. I start to begin light physical contact such as hugging at first, but then I began to stroke her thighs, get more physical which she doesn't stop or gets bothered at. Anyways she ends up breaking up with her boyfriend about a week ago and I'm really supportive about saying I don't want her to commit to anything etc. I give her lifts around college to her living quarters, study a lot with her, laugh at the same things and get along great in general until very recently. Last thursday, I drove her to her house and gave her a hug nothing more, when I get back home we start talking online as per usual and mid conversation online she says: "I thought about kissing you today but I don't think I'm in the right mindset idk if it's just because I'm clearly hurting and find you attractive or not". This conversation happened at night after we'd been cuddling and doing minor stuff during the day nothing major. This weekend comes round and she's completely different, as if she's a totally different person, I know she's recently broken up with her boyfriend (Last wednesday) so she's highly likely to be very moody and will take a long time get over it like most taurus women, but is this sporadic behaviour normal of Taurean women? or is this a sign she doesn't want the closeness that we've developed? I'm worried that's all because even though she's been in a relationship we've shared a very strong bond/friendship.