Suggestions to weird situation

I (Scorpio lady) met my Taurus on plenty of fish, last November. We went on quite a few dates and hung out for a few months, until about March (I came off too intense) Eventually I stopped messaging him cause he was very flaky and I could tell he was not as into me as I was to him. He began messaging me again in May and had mentioned he had a room in his house for rent and offered it to me. I took offer since my living situation needed changes.

I now live in a house with a guy I never had a chance with, but has been given that chance now. We are beginning to bond and have intense feelings for each other. BUT there is one BIG problem. There is ANOTHER Scorpio lady in this household who has obvious feelings for him as well. He has said numerous of times that they are just friends (best friends) they grew up together. But she definitely has some secrets hiding (as I know of secrets being a Scorpio too) She dislikes mine and his relationship and is sabotaging our chance of blooming into something much more. He told me we cant be affectionate when she is around cause it bothers her. Why is he catering to her feelings like that?!?! I am ever so frustrated. Its like a secret mind war between us all. I never knew how different 2 Scorpio ladies can be. I wont list of differences but it is obvious he is not attracted to her to put nicely. I have talked with Taurus to try and sort this out but he avoids it alllll the time. When she is not around everything is wonderful.

I'm almost on the verge of moving out as difficult as that would be, I rather avoid this nonsense from her part. It's getting very tiring.

He is very jealous, so me going out and meeting other guys will do no justice. I feel like I need him to notice that her behavior is stalling us big time. Cold shoulder? Talk with her? Get all 3 of us and talk it out? Ignore it?

I have nothing to add, but my sisters Taurus friend of 3yrs is best friends with a Scorpio. I told my sister from the beginning something seemed fishy about their friendship, but my sister swears that he swears they are like brother and sister. Im not buying it. Difference in this situation is the Scorpio is friendly. I'm pretty sure they've had sex atleast once though.

be straight up as robyn said about your feelings and be firm with what you want. listen, ANY optiions of the woman variety are very fucking tempting especially when they be grey. he's got the, as you say "intense", abundant attention slash affection that both of you are most likely providing so he's juggling with stingers and pincers.