Super Mixed signals from Taurus Male

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Itsagoodday
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12 Years

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He's got tones of girlfriends around him, and barely talk to me when we are out. Doesn't even look)) But we sleep together almost every night. He cooks for me, we watching movies and having brunch on a next day together. He spend lot's of money on my clothes and restaurant bills, which is crazy because we are both just students (he is 5 years older tho. I am German and he is American). I was trying to buy food and clothes for him, but he always says he doesn't like it!!! Just like that!!! (He only got smth from me, when I am saying I don't need it and he could have it. I got him a new iPhone like that. LoL) He calls or text just to arrange the meeting and refuse to meet my friends. Says how he likes me in bed, but never as a person. He is my second boyfriend, and he knows that. But I do remember one day he told me not to sleep with too much guys just because if I will meet a nice guy later, these guy just won't date me!!!— Is that a normal thing to say to say?! I've never been so confused in my life.
I do understand that it takes time for a guy to let you in his life, and I do can wait. But he's behavior makes me feel confused and nervous. I had my first love who's been cheated on me for several years, and everybody knew it, except me. I am just afraid, it happening to me again. I am really easy going and hate drama in every way, so he doesn't know his behavior hurts that much.

Thanks for reading.
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lildol
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He's got tones of girlfriends around him, and barely talk to me when we are out. Doesn't even look)) But we sleep together almost every night. He cooks for me, we watching movies and having brunch on a next day together. He spend lot's of money on my clothes and restaurant bills, which is crazy because we are both just students (he is 5 years older tho. I am German and he is American). I was trying to buy food and clothes for him, but he always says he doesn't like it!!! Just like that!!! (He only got smth from me, when I am saying I don't need it and he could have it. I got him a new iPhone like that. LoL) He calls or text just to arrange the meeting and refuse to meet my friends. Says how he likes me in bed, but never as a person. He is my second boyfriend, and he knows that. But I do remember one day he told me not to sleep with too much guys just because if I will meet a nice guy later, these guy just won't date me!!!— Is that a normal thing to say to say?! I've never been so confused in my life.
I do understand that it takes time for a guy to let you in his life, and I do can wait. But he's behavior makes me feel confused and nervous. I had my first love who's been cheated on me for several years, and everybody knew it, except me. I am just afraid, it happening to me again. I am really easy going and hate drama in every way, so he doesn't know his behavior hurts that much.

Thanks for reading.



Nothing to be confused about!

Behavior/actions speaks volumes! LISTEN...

And move on!
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RaeofSun
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12 Years

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Yes, run the other way. Block him and don't contact him. He made it pretty clear in my opinion, there is no grey area with his actions or words.

1. He ignores you when out with other people
2. He likes you in bed and not as a person
3. He doesn't care that you have another boyfriend, if any man cared for you, they would not want to share

Stop spending money on him, stop sleeping with him. Just... say... NO
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Itsagoodday
@Itsagoodday
12 Years

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Oh.... Well, I guess, all of you are right! I just can't get one thing. Why he were making so many efforts to get me in bed. I didn't like him when I met him at first meeting. He should of seen it. Lot's of his girlfriends are madly in love with him, I guess it would be more logical to get one of them to bed rather then me? Or does he need to know that EVERY girl in a city is after him so much? If it is so, I guess it kind of sick then. I just can't really get it why you need such a big harem like that.

PS Taurus females and males, please, give me advice how better stop it? I can't run away) I have see him every week at school.