taurus and aquarius

I am a taurus woman. I was just wonder if any other taurus ladies seem to be drown to the aquarius men. I seem to be a magnet to aquarius' and I love being around them. They make me happy and bring out the fun in me. But the problem is that it never works out. I dont know what it is about them, but they seem to find me. haha.

I was with an aquarius for a short time and cant seem to get over him. He couldnt commit to me. No matter what happened or how happy we were. I know deep down we had a big connection but he just wouldnt run with it. I had even went to a psychic who told me he thinks about me every now and then.

My question is has any other taurus lady had the same or similar issue?

i just stop seeing a aquarius about 3 mths romantically...yes they draw u in but once i realized i couldnt see the real him because he changed so much it was hard to deal with,,and he was an older aqua..they are loyal to u but always have many other things going on...and of course i didnt feel safe with him..or he didnt make me feel we had a stable relationship as i needed,so that made me feel insecure all the time..even if possibly nothin was going on..i think he was very selfish,,but he did care for me,,,you will have to distance yourself then move on it is the best thing to do because he will keep you sucked in,,and you know it will never work...what i did was just stop accepting his calls,i only answer when i have a power day,,which means when i dont want to be bothered so that way the bull sh-t is just bullsh-t and i dont have to hear the drama...i also noticed that although reserved like a lot of drama with them,,they wont tell u but they do...long story short YOU WILL NOT BE ABLE TO HAVE THE CLOSENESS THAT YOU WANT WITH AN AQUA IN A RELATIONSHIP,,IT JUST WONT BE THERE,UNLESS HE IS REALLY READY TO SETTLE DOWN-THEY ALWAYS FEEL SOMEONE IS TAKING THERE SPACE AND DONT LIKE TO FEEL CROWDED OR RESTRAINED WHICH I THINK SOMETIMES A TAURUS WE TEND TO DO...

by the way this went on for 2 yrs

wow. you are so right. thats exactly how it was. Its weird he did suck me in and wouldnt leave me alone with all of the phone calls and texts. I would try to distance myself from it all and thats when he would start up again. I knew he wasnt with anyone else but he loved to hang out with alot of his different guy friends. It frustrated me bc i couldnt tell where this was going and i think thats exactly what he liked about it. Idk. We had a great sexual connection and whenever we could talk serious, it would be a great conversation. The serious conversations werent often but when we did have them, it was like noone else mattered. But you are so true. because it finally ended when i got mad and tried to push him into committing fully with me.

But ever since then, it seems like every aquarius wants to get to know me. and it really scares me.

What machiavelli bull said -- don't do it! Unless you're willing to accept the Aquarian's changeable ways and need for lots of freedom and space within the relationship and expression of self. Also the fact that he probably will not want to completely settle down and may feel more comfortable being more of a friend to you then a lover.

Me personally, I have a special connection with them. My 7th house is in Aquarius, which means I'm romantically inclined and feel most at home with any Sun, Rising or Moon Aquarian. Also my moon is firey Aries. It's hard having a Taurus Sun with a Moon in Aries.. I hate to admit but I can be very contradictory at times and less stable than the average Taurean. But I have the most passion!! Also My Leo Rising forms a hard aspect to my Sun, which makes a nasty clash regarding how I express myself to most.. despite my Jupiter/Mercury Conjunct and Rising/Mercury Sextile. I feel like most don't understand me. Aries & Aquarius if you read about them -- that's exactly how I view a romantic relationship. Someone who can be my best friend, who is VERY openminded and open to new experiences, and is experimental 😉 Also someone who gives me my space and I would in turn respect theirs. Leo (my Rising, 1st decan) is opposite Aquarius. I'm sure that just adds to the attraction. 70% of the guys I've liked, been friends with and the most serious relationship I've had..have been w/ Aquarius natives. I'm also extremely magnetic to them I find.

The serious relationship I had w/ an Aquarian ended over a number of things. We were both immature and young and made mistakes. He of course wanted to be friends after the fact but I just couldn't do it.. I did try for awhile but the feelings for him would not leave and they would come back when he would contact me. And lmao - I find this funny that I had to deal with the same thing, I had to LITERALLY delete him from my Myspace and erase him from my life to get him to leave me be.. I even saw that he emailed me on an old email address months after. Jeez, so stubborn!! 😉 Although I admit I admire it, the stubborness that is. Both Fixed signs - Taurus and Aquarius.

Would I ever consider an Aqua? Yes, but only if they had alot of earth in their chart. Like Kid Cudi 😄 I can compromise and give someone alot of space and expression of self, and I can ACCEPT the changeable ways.. it mirrors my own - Aries influence. BUT I need someone who can commit to me. If you can't then that's a wrap 😉

Thanks heart of fire. You said alot of things that i should think about ha. I guess I can see what you are saying but im am just so stubborn and want what people say I cant have. Its weird what they do, because even though i am a taurus, i am very curious and love how Aquarius' are so interesting. haha. I know its true that we are not supposed to work, I think it would only work if I met an older and more mature Aquarius. I am a strong believer of astrology but I just dont believe that "there isnt a sign for you". I think you can work anything out. It just depends how hard you want to work at it 🙂. haha

My question for you, is how do you know all that in depth information about yourself? For example youre "7th house in aquarius"

@taurusxm18:

Completely agree. No matter what astrology says if both parties are willing to accept, work on and compromise on their differences, anything can work. Just won't be easy 😉 But hey, sometimes a challenge is fun/keeps things interesting!



Well for Houses and Rising sign you need your exact birthtime. For the other signs like Moon, Venus, Mars - all you need is your birth date and birth place, although If you wanted to be 100% sure of those signs you could use your birth time as well. Cafeastrology.com is where I went to find out all my info, you can get a free Natal Chart done which will tell you all your houses, planets, and how they relate to eachother along with some more stuff. It's very interesting. Your 7th house in particular, or rather what sign rules that house, suggests which sign you are most attracted to or feel most comfortable/at home with. Also the sign which rules a woman's Mars suggests which type of male she's into/fond of. For example my Mars is in Cancer, which is spot on, I love them! But not neccesarily the sign itself but the qualities that sign possess. For a man, it's their Venus. This doesn't just pertain to Sun signs but all of the planets. For instance, I could be attracted to a Sag but he may have a buttload of Cancer in his chart 😄 You see? God, I could read/talk about this stuff all day haha, it's SO interesting. And that's coming from a Gemini in Mercury.. I get bored/sidetracked at a ridiculous rate.



http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/natal?member=&recalc=&name=Melissa&sex=f&d1day=3&d1month=5&d1year=1989&d1hour=11&d1min=34&citylist=Tarrytown% 2C+NY+% 2836% 29% 2C+United+States&lang=en



That's mine if you're interested in an example. 🙂

Also I have recently been reading about Juno, which you can find from that site, too. Very interesting stuff. It depicts the marriage realm and what type of partners we need and usually end up with rather than what we think we want or desire.

For instance I have Juno in Leo, and when I first read the description I was eh.. and then I laughed. And thought about it. Deep down, it is what I want. I always have a need to nuture/care anyone I'm interested in but I crave attention/affection like nobodys business and any form of rejection or being taken for granted sends me to the deep end. I found it amusing that it also said I should look for someone who is not shy, retiring etc. HILARIOUS, cause that is exactly the type I go for, and now I can see why that may prove to be unwise. I like demonstrative partners, but I can't help I'm extracted to shy/mellow guys and am totally turned off by any arrogance or immaturity, regardless of how fun and demonstrative someone might be. My Juno (Leo) also conjuncts my Ascendant (Leo) which explains alot of stuff!! Maybe it's why I tend to easily attract people. Also again that damn Leo.. opposite Aquarius!! See, told ya I had a special connection 😉 Also Leo rules my 2nd house, which explains why I've always encouraged/supported any of my partners with their dreams/jobs, I prolly wanted them to succeed more than they actually wanted to themselves!




I also found it amusing that the guy I like has a Scorpio Pluto-Juno conjunct! Oh my. I always tone down my domineering, possible possessive, powerful side to anyone I'm attracted to as i'm sure i would turn off/scare most away.. but after discovering this, he probably gets off on it LOL!