Taurus mad at me?

No you didn't screw up. He did. He's ignoring you and is noncommittal about plans and leaves you hanging. Why would you want to pursue a relationship with this guy. He makes me ashamed to be a Taurus. You deserve to be treated more respectfully than this don't you think?

Pisces suns can have a tendency to let people walk all over them.

Seems like he's putting the blame on you when it's his fault.

taurus sun & venus gem with pisces..I can relate. Just ended a relationship with one last year. He had no backbone. Let this guy chase you, Forget him and play and have fun if he reaches out. You'll both enjoy it more.

Good luck, it can be rewarding if you both play your cards right!

Thanks for the responses!

Usually my natural instinct is to stop talking to the guy but my friend told me maybe try communicating this time...should've stuck with my gut...



It's is what it is —

No, I don't think you did anything wrong. I do think you should give the situation more time, and see if he comes around. When I feel like I've been slighted, I can go quiet. And though it is strange that he hasn't said anything when it looked like you guys had worked out the miscommunication, I still think you should let more than 48 hours pass. xD

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No you didn't screw up. He did. He's ignoring you and is noncommittal about plans and leaves you hanging. Why would you want to pursue a relationship with this guy. He makes me ashamed to be a Taurus. You deserve to be treated more respectfully than this don't you think?

Pisces suns can have a tendency to let people walk all over them.

Don't be. Everyone is their own person. The actions of one person in a group do not define another person within that same group. 🙂

If I were you and I really like him, I will text him in another two weeks to drop concern or hints about another meeting up. And yeah, you are right to say you have to be patient and take things slow. When Mr Taurus are busy at work, just someone he knows recently won't be relevant in his life to take much action about.

But the fact that he is willing to meet up with you shows he has some interest in you already.

When he drops you that pic of him hanging in the bar, he expects you to understand his meaning. In his mind, 'it is what it is' means 'I am hanging out at the bar, you ask me whether you want to hang out, so this is my answer. 'Let's hang out here.' That was actually his invitation. But you didn't ask what he meant by the pic.

Therefore in his mind, you ditched him 'in that appointment'

If you were to contact him again, don't bring the last appointment up. Learn from your miscommunication and leave it in the past. These guys are forward looking, and self-centred.

And a word of advice, if you really are interested in a real relationship with him, busy yourself with your own life first and take things really slow at this stage. Think long term. Seeing each other twice in 2 weeks sounds pretty fast for Taurus progression.

Try to find more things about him from the side. Know what his routine is like eg Wed n Fri clubbing, Sun gym, Mon running etc and the friends he hang out with. That will help a bit in progressing.