Taurus boyfriend is being a jerk to me

Posted by saggurl88

Tell him how you feel, the wording you're using here

"yet tells me I can always feel comfortable enough to talk to him but when I do and it's a bit on the heavy side he can't take it"

No one can tell you anything about your relationship really. Communication is key, so If he wants to hear what you have to say, let him have it and let him digest it and deal with it. It won't get fixed by not talking.

"I fall back and he reacts like a emotional ahole."

Why should you fall back? let him know this, that his emotion overtakes logic and that he's not hearing you.

Posted by Timon

Do you see yourself being with him in the long run if this is how he is? Talk to him about it in a non accusatory way and tell him that you won't accept to be treated like that in a relationship. What exactly did he say to you that was out of line?

eem to think so. I'm guilty for falling asleep on the phone but that time I wasn't sleep. He stopped talking to his cousin for a second and asked me if I was still awake , I said yes then he proceeded to still talk to his cousin. I'm scared but I definitely want to discuss things later when I see him. If he's going to be like this in our relationship and continue with the rudeness and disrespect then I don't want to be with him. Im wayyyyyyyy to good to him to be treated like this

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Posted by goldrockett

He says a lot of things. Like the other day I decided to hang up the phone bc he was talking to his cousin for like 15 minutes and I was just waiting on the phone so I hung up and texted him I'm just going to go to bed bc he's not talking to me goodnight and he blew up. Calling me childish etc. I told him it's insane that he's reacting that way and he called me insane in return. I do see us together for the long run bc the great times we have are truly amazing. But he's been acting a a $ $ towards me lately and idk what to do

Posted by Timon

Do you see yourself being with him in the long run if this is how he is? Talk to him about it in a non accusatory way and tell him that you won't accept to be treated like that in a relationship. What exactly did he say to you that was out of line?

Having you waiting on the phone for 15min is rude. Ofc you're going to hang up when you don't know how long he is going to talk to him. I think he might have seen it as you attacking him passive-aggressively by hanging up so he gets upsets because he thinks you're upset and he becomes defensive. Honestly he should be the one apologizing to you. I think the communication is lacking in here. You should have a talk with him.

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Posted by goldrockett

I'm going to see him later. We really need to have a take. Things have been a mess. He won't acknowledge it tho so it makes me feel like I'm the only one that things haven't been great which makes me feel like I'm the only one tripping. I'm scared to talk to him bc things are already bad and seeing how he can't even handle it when i express myself by text I can only imagine how it'd be verbally

Posted by saggurl88

Tell him how you feel, the wording you're using here

"yet tells me I can always feel comfortable enough to talk to him but when I do and it's a bit on the heavy side he can't take it"

No one can tell you anything about your relationship really. Communication is key, so If he wants to hear what you have to say, let him have it and let him digest it and deal with it. It won't get fixed by not talking.

"I fall back and he reacts like a emotional ahole."

Why should you fall back? let him know this, that his emotion overtakes logic and that he's not hearing you.

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Posted by goldrockett

He says a lot of things. Like the other day I decided to hang up the phone bc he was talking to his cousin for like 15 minutes and I was just waiting on the phone so I hung up and texted him I'm just going to go to bed bc he's not talking to me goodnight and he blew up. Calling me childish etc. I told him it's insane that he's reacting that way and he called me insane in return. I do see us together for the long run bc the great times we have are truly amazing. But he's been acting a a $ $ towards me lately and idk what to do

Posted by Timon

Do you see yourself being with him in the long run if this is how he is? Talk to him about it in a non accusatory way and tell him that you won't accept to be treated like that in a relationship. What exactly did he say to you that was out of line?

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I won't be afraid. Thank you. I'm just going to get it all out and over with. After that I really don't have much else to discuss

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by goldrockett

I'm going to see him later. We really need to have a take. Things have been a mess. He won't acknowledge it tho so it makes me feel like I'm the only one that things haven't been great which makes me feel like I'm the only one tripping. I'm scared to talk to him bc things are already bad and seeing how he can't even handle it when i express myself by text I can only imagine how it'd be verbally

Posted by saggurl88

Tell him how you feel, the wording you're using here

"yet tells me I can always feel comfortable enough to talk to him but when I do and it's a bit on the heavy side he can't take it"

No one can tell you anything about your relationship really. Communication is key, so If he wants to hear what you have to say, let him have it and let him digest it and deal with it. It won't get fixed by not talking.

"I fall back and he reacts like a emotional ahole."

Why should you fall back? let him know this, that his emotion overtakes logic and that he's not hearing you.

You still have a right to be heard and no one is living under a rock. These are the types of issues that will need to get ironed out in the long run. Mutual understanding and compromising is key in a long relationship. Just say what you have to say and let him digest it and think on it. Either it will get fixed or worked out, or it won't.

Don't let his stubbornness get in the way and you shouldn't be nervous about talking to him. If he can see you naked and have sex with you and do all the other nasty stuff you guys do to each other, then you can have a conversation with him. You are aware that he will clam up and get uncomfortable, but maybe that's his way of dealing with things, so say what you want in a respectful way and if he clams up or looks uncomfortable, just keep talking till it's all out and let him digest everything. Don't expect an immediate response if he's the type that needs time to think. Give him a little room 🙂

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what I said thoroughly —? Bc I said he was talking to SOMEONE ELSE and NOT ME for 15 MINUTES while I was waiting on the phone. Like just call me back.

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by goldrockett

He says a lot of things. Like the other day I decided to hang up the phone bc he was talking to his cousin for like 15 minutes and I was just waiting on the phone so I hung up and texted him I'm just going to go to bed bc he's not talking to me goodnight and he blew up. Calling me childish etc. I told him it's insane that he's reacting that way and he called me insane in return. I do see us together for the long run bc the great times we have are truly amazing. But he's been acting a a $ $ towards me lately and idk what to do

Posted by Timon

Do you see yourself being with him in the long run if this is how he is? Talk to him about it in a non accusatory way and tell him that you won't accept to be treated like that in a relationship. What exactly did he say to you that was out of line?

Hanging up on your SO when he's in the middle of talking is some a $ $ hole behavior.

I'd be mad too.

Childish is right.

He's trying to communicate and involve you in his life and your all, nope, don't have the time. Sleep is more important than you.

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Posted by goldrockett

Did you read what I said thoroughly —? Bc I said he was talking to SOMEONE ELSE and NOT ME for 15 MINUTES while I was waiting on the phone. Like just call me back.

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by goldrockett

He says a lot of things. Like the other day I decided to hang up the phone bc he was talking to his cousin for like 15 minutes and I was just waiting on the phone so I hung up and texted him I'm just going to go to bed bc he's not talking to me goodnight and he blew up. Calling me childish etc. I told him it's insane that he's reacting that way and he called me insane in return. I do see us together for the long run bc the great times we have are truly amazing. But he's been acting a a $ $ towards me lately and idk what to do

Posted by Timon

Do you see yourself being with him in the long run if this is how he is? Talk to him about it in a non accusatory way and tell him that you won't accept to be treated like that in a relationship. What exactly did he say to you that was out of line?

Hanging up on your SO when he's in the middle of talking is some a $ $ hole behavior.

I'd be mad too.

Childish is right.

He's trying to communicate and involve you in his life and your all, nope, don't have the time. Sleep is more important than you.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by goldrockett

Did you read what I said thoroughly —? Bc I said he was talking to SOMEONE ELSE and NOT ME for 15 MINUTES while I was waiting on the phone. Like just call me back.

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by goldrockett

He says a lot of things. Like the other day I decided to hang up the phone bc he was talking to his cousin for like 15 minutes and I was just waiting on the phone so I hung up and texted him I'm just going to go to bed bc he's not talking to me goodnight and he blew up. Calling me childish etc. I told him it's insane that he's reacting that way and he called me insane in return. I do see us together for the long run bc the great times we have are truly amazing. But he's been acting a a $ $ towards me lately and idk what to do

Posted by Timon

Do you see yourself being with him in the long run if this is how he is? Talk to him about it in a non accusatory way and tell him that you won't accept to be treated like that in a relationship. What exactly did he say to you that was out of line?

Hanging up on your SO when he's in the middle of talking is some a $ $ hole behavior.

I'd be mad too.

Childish is right.

He's trying to communicate and involve you in his life and your all, nope, don't have the time. Sleep is more important than you.

So why not say, call me back when your done talking.

Communicate.

Hanging up in a huff cause you don't have his undivided attention is CHILDISH.

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e your miserable negativity somewhere else. There's more to what I'm going through than what you're speaking on. It always has to be someone like you in a forum trolling ppl. Fk off

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by goldrockett

Did you read what I said thoroughly —? Bc I said he was talking to SOMEONE ELSE and NOT ME for 15 MINUTES while I was waiting on the phone. Like just call me back.

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by goldrockett

He says a lot of things. Like the other day I decided to hang up the phone bc he was talking to his cousin for like 15 minutes and I was just waiting on the phone so I hung up and texted him I'm just going to go to bed bc he's not talking to me goodnight and he blew up. Calling me childish etc. I told him it's insane that he's reacting that way and he called me insane in return. I do see us together for the long run bc the great times we have are truly amazing. But he's been acting a a $ $ towards me lately and idk what to do

Posted by Timon

Do you see yourself being with him in the long run if this is how he is? Talk to him about it in a non accusatory way and tell him that you won't accept to be treated like that in a relationship. What exactly did he say to you that was out of line?

Hanging up on your SO when he's in the middle of talking is some a $ $ hole behavior.

I'd be mad too.

Childish is right.

He's trying to communicate and involve you in his life and your all, nope, don't have the time. Sleep is more important than you.

So why not say, call me back when your done talking.

Communicate.

Hanging up in a huff cause you don't have his undivided attention is CHILDISH.

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Posted by goldrockett

Honestly take your miserable negativity somewhere else. There's more to what I'm going through than what you're speaking on. It always has to be someone like you in a forum trolling ppl. Fk off

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by goldrockett

Did you read what I said thoroughly —? Bc I said he was talking to SOMEONE ELSE and NOT ME for 15 MINUTES while I was waiting on the phone. Like just call me back.

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by goldrockett

He says a lot of things. Like the other day I decided to hang up the phone bc he was talking to his cousin for like 15 minutes and I was just waiting on the phone so I hung up and texted him I'm just going to go to bed bc he's not talking to me goodnight and he blew up. Calling me childish etc. I told him it's insane that he's reacting that way and he called me insane in return. I do see us together for the long run bc the great times we have are truly amazing. But he's been acting a a $ $ towards me lately and idk what to do

Posted by Timon

Do you see yourself being with him in the long run if this is how he is? Talk to him about it in a non accusatory way and tell him that you won't accept to be treated like that in a relationship. What exactly did he say to you that was out of line?

Hanging up on your SO when he's in the middle of talking is some a $ $ hole behavior.

I'd be mad too.

Childish is right.

He's trying to communicate and involve you in his life and your all, nope, don't have the time. Sleep is more important than you.

So why not say, call me back when your done talking.

Communicate.

Hanging up in a huff cause you don't have his undivided attention is CHILDISH.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by goldrockett

He says a lot of things. Like the other day I decided to hang up the phone bc he was talking to his cousin for like 15 minutes and I was just waiting on the phone so I hung up and texted him I'm just going to go to bed bc he's not talking to me goodnight and he blew up. Calling me childish etc. I told him it's insane that he's reacting that way and he called me insane in return. I do see us together for the long run bc the great times we have are truly amazing. But he's been acting a a $ $ towards me lately and idk what to do

Posted by Timon

Do you see yourself being with him in the long run if this is how he is? Talk to him about it in a non accusatory way and tell him that you won't accept to be treated like that in a relationship. What exactly did he say to you that was out of line?

Hanging up on your SO when he's in the middle of talking is some a $ $ hole behavior.

I'd be mad too.

Childish is right.

He's trying to communicate and involve you in his life and your all, nope, don't have the time. Sleep is more important than you.

15min is a long time. Do you really expect the other person to just sit around on the line for 15min and wait for you to get back whenever. That 15min could have turned to 30min who knows. I don't understand why they are making such a big deal of it. Ok she is no longer on the line after I got back 15min later. Just call again or talk tomorrow. Why turn nasty?

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by goldrockett

Did you read what I said thoroughly —? Bc I said he was talking to SOMEONE ELSE and NOT ME for 15 MINUTES while I was waiting on the phone. Like just call me back.

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by goldrockett

He says a lot of things. Like the other day I decided to hang up the phone bc he was talking to his cousin for like 15 minutes and I was just waiting on the phone so I hung up and texted him I'm just going to go to bed bc he's not talking to me goodnight and he blew up. Calling me childish etc. I told him it's insane that he's reacting that way and he called me insane in return. I do see us together for the long run bc the great times we have are truly amazing. But he's been acting a a $ $ towards me lately and idk what to do

Posted by Timon

Do you see yourself being with him in the long run if this is how he is? Talk to him about it in a non accusatory way and tell him that you won't accept to be treated like that in a relationship. What exactly did he say to you that was out of line?

Hanging up on your SO when he's in the middle of talking is some a $ $ hole behavior.

I'd be mad too.

Childish is right.

He's trying to communicate and involve you in his life and your all, nope, don't have the time. Sleep is more important than you.

So why not say, call me back when your done talking.

Communicate.

Hanging up in a huff cause you don't have his undivided attention is CHILDISH.

I do agree with telling him to call back later but I was on the impression that he wasn't around on the phone. That's why she sent the text to tell him that. Maybe I misunderstood.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by goldrockett

Did you read what I said thoroughly —? Bc I said he was talking to SOMEONE ELSE and NOT ME for 15 MINUTES while I was waiting on the phone. Like just call me back.

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by goldrockett

He says a lot of things. Like the other day I decided to hang up the phone bc he was talking to his cousin for like 15 minutes and I was just waiting on the phone so I hung up and texted him I'm just going to go to bed bc he's not talking to me goodnight and he blew up. Calling me childish etc. I told him it's insane that he's reacting that way and he called me insane in return. I do see us together for the long run bc the great times we have are truly amazing. But he's been acting a a $ $ towards me lately and idk what to do

Posted by Timon

Do you see yourself being with him in the long run if this is how he is? Talk to him about it in a non accusatory way and tell him that you won't accept to be treated like that in a relationship. What exactly did he say to you that was out of line?

Hanging up on your SO when he's in the middle of talking is some a $ $ hole behavior.

I'd be mad too.

Childish is right.

He's trying to communicate and involve you in his life and your all, nope, don't have the time. Sleep is more important than you.

So why not say, call me back when your done talking.

Communicate.

Hanging up in a huff cause you don't have his undivided attention is CHILDISH.

I do agree with telling him to call back later but I was on the impression that he wasn't around on the phone. That's why she sent the text to tell him that. Maybe I misunderstood.

I read it as she's on the phone with him and his cousin comes into the room prolly asks a quick question which snowballs into a convo and shes feeling salty at not having his undivided attention. Understandable.

But hanging up and then calling him insane after he calls her childish IS kinda childish don't you think?

I'm just saying he's not wrong for calling her childish at hanging up.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by goldrockett

Did you read what I said thoroughly —? Bc I said he was talking to SOMEONE ELSE and NOT ME for 15 MINUTES while I was waiting on the phone. Like just call me back.

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by goldrockett

He says a lot of things. Like the other day I decided to hang up the phone bc he was talking to his cousin for like 15 minutes and I was just waiting on the phone so I hung up and texted him I'm just going to go to bed bc he's not talking to me goodnight and he blew up. Calling me childish etc. I told him it's insane that he's reacting that way and he called me insane in return. I do see us together for the long run bc the great times we have are truly amazing. But he's been acting a a $ $ towards me lately and idk what to do

Posted by Timon

Do you see yourself being with him in the long run if this is how he is? Talk to him about it in a non accusatory way and tell him that you won't accept to be treated like that in a relationship. What exactly did he say to you that was out of line?

Hanging up on your SO when he's in the middle of talking is some a $ $ hole behavior.

I'd be mad too.

Childish is right.

He's trying to communicate and involve you in his life and your all, nope, don't have the time. Sleep is more important than you.

So why not say, call me back when your done talking.

Communicate.

Hanging up in a huff cause you don't have his undivided attention is CHILDISH.

I do agree with telling him to call back later but I was on the impression that he wasn't around on the phone. That's why she sent the text to tell him that. Maybe I misunderstood.

I read it as she's on the phone with him and his cousin comes into the room prolly asks a quick question which snowballs into a convo and shes feeling salty at not having his undivided attention. Understandable.

But hanging up and then calling him insane after he calls her childish IS kinda childish don't you think?

I'm just saying he's not wrong for calling her childish at hanging up.

Yea. You're right. I could have said call me back when you're done. But I didn't. So you coming on MY forum with that trash delivery is wack. You I'm sure do that to a lot of ppl on here and that speaks highly of you in the worst way possible. I'm going through enough over her so you can calm all that sht down. Kthnxbai

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Posted by goldrockett

Did you read what I said thoroughly —? Bc I said he was talking to SOMEONE ELSE and NOT ME for 15 MINUTES while I was waiting on the phone. Like just call me back.

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by goldrockett

He says a lot of things. Like the other day I decided to hang up the phone bc he was talking to his cousin for like 15 minutes and I was just waiting on the phone so I hung up and texted him I'm just going to go to bed bc he's not talking to me goodnight and he blew up. Calling me childish etc. I told him it's insane that he's reacting that way and he called me insane in return. I do see us together for the long run bc the great times we have are truly amazing. But he's been acting a a $ $ towards me lately and idk what to do

Posted by Timon

Do you see yourself being with him in the long run if this is how he is? Talk to him about it in a non accusatory way and tell him that you won't accept to be treated like that in a relationship. What exactly did he say to you that was out of line?

Hanging up on your SO when he's in the middle of talking is some a $ $ hole behavior.

I'd be mad too.

Childish is right.

He's trying to communicate and involve you in his life and your all, nope, don't have the time. Sleep is more important than you.

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Posted by goldrockett

Did you read what I said thoroughly —? Bc I said he was talking to SOMEONE ELSE and NOT ME for 15 MINUTES while I was waiting on the phone. Like just call me back.

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by goldrockett

He says a lot of things. Like the other day I decided to hang up the phone bc he was talking to his cousin for like 15 minutes and I was just waiting on the phone so I hung up and texted him I'm just going to go to bed bc he's not talking to me goodnight and he blew up. Calling me childish etc. I told him it's insane that he's reacting that way and he called me insane in return. I do see us together for the long run bc the great times we have are truly amazing. But he's been acting a a $ $ towards me lately and idk what to do

Posted by Timon

Do you see yourself being with him in the long run if this is how he is? Talk to him about it in a non accusatory way and tell him that you won't accept to be treated like that in a relationship. What exactly did he say to you that was out of line?

Hanging up on your SO when he's in the middle of talking is some a $ $ hole behavior.

I'd be mad too.

Childish is right.

He's trying to communicate and involve you in his life and your all, nope, don't have the time. Sleep is more important than you.

So why not say, call me back when your done talking.

Communicate.

Hanging up in a huff cause you don't have his undivided attention is CHILDISH.

I do agree with telling him to call back later but I was on the impression that he wasn't around on the phone. That's why she sent the text to tell him that. Maybe I misunderstood.

I read it as she's on the phone with him and his cousin comes into the room prolly asks a quick question which snowballs into a convo and shes feeling salty at not having his undivided attention. Understandable.

But hanging up and then calling him insane after he calls her childish IS kinda childish don't you think?

I'm just saying he's not wrong for calling her childish at hanging up.

They are both Taurus right. Probably both being stubborn and getting upset lol. I don't see why they are making such an issue over it. He is upset because he thinks she is upset and being passive aggressive hanging up and she is upset because he is upset lol.

Posted by goldrockett

I told him it's insane that he's reacting that way and he called me insane in return.

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Posted by goldrockett

Did you read what I said thoroughly —? Bc I said he was talking to SOMEONE ELSE and NOT ME for 15 MINUTES while I was waiting on the phone. Like just call me back.

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by goldrockett

He says a lot of things. Like the other day I decided to hang up the phone bc he was talking to his cousin for like 15 minutes and I was just waiting on the phone so I hung up and texted him I'm just going to go to bed bc he's not talking to me goodnight and he blew up. Calling me childish etc. I told him it's insane that he's reacting that way and he called me insane in return. I do see us together for the long run bc the great times we have are truly amazing. But he's been acting a a $ $ towards me lately and idk what to do

Posted by Timon

Do you see yourself being with him in the long run if this is how he is? Talk to him about it in a non accusatory way and tell him that you won't accept to be treated like that in a relationship. What exactly did he say to you that was out of line?

Hanging up on your SO when he's in the middle of talking is some a $ $ hole behavior.

I'd be mad too.

Childish is right.

He's trying to communicate and involve you in his life and your all, nope, don't have the time. Sleep is more important than you.

So why not say, call me back when your done talking.

Communicate.

Hanging up in a huff cause you don't have his undivided attention is CHILDISH.

I do agree with telling him to call back later but I was on the impression that he wasn't around on the phone. That's why she sent the text to tell him that. Maybe I misunderstood.

I read it as she's on the phone with him and his cousin comes into the room prolly asks a quick question which snowballs into a convo and shes feeling salty at not having his undivided attention. Understandable.

But hanging up and then calling him insane after he calls her childish IS kinda childish don't you think?

I'm just saying he's not wrong for calling her childish at hanging up.

They are both Taurus right. Probably both being stubborn and getting upset lol. I don't see why they are making such an issue over it. He is upset because he thinks she is upset and being passive aggressive hanging up and she is upset because he is upset lol.

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Posted by goldrockett

Did you read what I said thoroughly —? Bc I said he was talking to SOMEONE ELSE and NOT ME for 15 MINUTES while I was waiting on the phone. Like just call me back.

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by goldrockett

He says a lot of things. Like the other day I decided to hang up the phone bc he was talking to his cousin for like 15 minutes and I was just waiting on the phone so I hung up and texted him I'm just going to go to bed bc he's not talking to me goodnight and he blew up. Calling me childish etc. I told him it's insane that he's reacting that way and he called me insane in return. I do see us together for the long run bc the great times we have are truly amazing. But he's been acting a a $ $ towards me lately and idk what to do

Posted by Timon

Do you see yourself being with him in the long run if this is how he is? Talk to him about it in a non accusatory way and tell him that you won't accept to be treated like that in a relationship. What exactly did he say to you that was out of line?

Hanging up on your SO when he's in the middle of talking is some a $ $ hole behavior.

I'd be mad too.

Childish is right.

He's trying to communicate and involve you in his life and your all, nope, don't have the time. Sleep is more important than you.

So why not say, call me back when your done talking.

Communicate.

Hanging up in a huff cause you don't have his undivided attention is CHILDISH.

I do agree with telling him to call back later but I was on the impression that he wasn't around on the phone. That's why she sent the text to tell him that. Maybe I misunderstood.

I read it as she's on the phone with him and his cousin comes into the room prolly asks a quick question which snowballs into a convo and shes feeling salty at not having his undivided attention. Understandable.

But hanging up and then calling him insane after he calls her childish IS kinda childish don't you think?

I'm just saying he's not wrong for calling her childish at hanging up.

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Posted by tommycane



. what you really want is for him to look forward to coming home and fucking you, then making him a sandwich as a pre-meal to give him energy before he takes you someplace nice for dinner and gives you a new jewelry to match your eyes. lol