Taurus & Cancer crush? Long but interesting (Page 2)

why do you think they broke up?

Yes we are very black and white. And we really have no idea how you feel until you flat out tell us. Even if we think we know we will tell ourselves we don't because we have to be SURE of everything..... but I caution you to be sure that they have broken up before you decide to try anything...and anyway, if they have you're still better off trying to be her friend for a bit...you don't want to be a rebound....

Yea she broke up with her Boy friend. I sure hope it's not one of those brake ups and get back together the next day BS?. My manager is ruining my life. So my chances are to get with my crush are slim? I'll tell you later about it. I got to sleep early tonight. Hope the bitch isn't working?. But yea she is now free? I'm worried. What if she picks some other guy?? You know how depressed/pissed I'd be?? I'm just going to wish for the best this time. I can't put myself down and worry about it to much. Go with the flow I guess if it comes it comes if not then maybe I've learned something from this that I can use later. I'll just keep being a friend since its going so well atm. Even if she finds another guy I'd just suck it up and still be her friend.... Were both young anyways... well she's younger. I'm the same age as GB.

Oh not sure why she broke up. Would be weird for me to ask. I also don't care thank GOD they broke up. I'm guessing he did something stupid. His lost. My gain that's all that matters... Tho She probably has other guys in line dying to go out with her

Easier said then done. Was thinking on waiting it out until we really do click communication wise? Until we don't feel shy around each other to buy her flowers and one of the poems I've wrote for her. And hopefully I'll be done with my song and I'll throw a get together or something and play it if she shows. I need some advice tho. Do Taurus girls really like edge? Bc I have edge! Just not around her? I get soo shy sometimes it seems like I'm not even interested in her. And I have no personality it seems. And some times it's very hard to have a conversation when you really can't find anything good to say and she just nodes! That's a bad sign. But I work with her finally! So I'll get a chance to get to know her. IF only I wasn't so shy the first time I met her! The thing Is I wasn't. I was the first to talk to her and say HI! Then latter that day she gave me a long gaze and a big smile I did the same! I was smitten! I couldn't help but look away and my smile became more awkward. And that's how it started! 6 months now.

Shishno... a year and a half ago... I was working with The Cancer that I am with. We had the same crazy eye games. He worked in a different building than me, but whenever he would come over to my building he would give me looks and I would look back. He seemed weird at first. I hadn't spoken to him before so it was just a see him around kinda thing, this went on for about 2 weeks.

So the night at our Christmas party... I was subconsciously looking for him. I didn't really go to the Christmas party for him but in the back of my mind I was wondering if he was there.

I went by the desert table and Bam!!! He walks in... slowly... as always. I looked at him for a while waiting for his girl to come walking behind him. No girl. So I went in for the kill. I asked "Are you here with someone?" "No. I am alone." I smiled... "do you have a girlfriend?" "NO." So I made my move. I invited him to my table and went with him to get his food. I had another party to go to... so I got up and told him I was out to another function. He got up and said "Wherever you're going I am too." We hung out that whole night, we danced and had a good time. He invited me out with him the next night and we have been together since.

It was weird when we went back to work. I liked him, I knew he liked me... but we avoiding eachother. We didn't acknowledge eachother in front of our co-workers. Later he thought I didn't like him and he avoided my calls and emails for a month. He then told me the reason he stopped speaking to me was because I didn't show interest.

We have long patched that up and I have been expressing my feelings more. It has been a roller coaster with him... because we are both very similar... shy and cautious.

My advice to you is... if you like her and she doesn't have her boyfriend any longer and their relationship is OVER. I would slowly get to know her. Before you get involved with her... take your time... learn her likes, dislikes and ease her into knowing you. Cancers are hard to understand. They confuse us Taurus sometimes, because we take their insecurity as avoidance and selfishness. When my cancer would withdraw it would hurt me. I didn't understand why. This caused alot of conflict. Continue with the friend thing and take it from there. Be yourself. I love my Cancer dearly, there is nothing I would change about him.

Cancers are edgy enough for me... they can sometimes be unpredictable and unreachable... Bulls dislike the unknown. My Cancer is extremely sensitive and he can withdraw from me in the drop of a dime. I therefore, try to pull him out of his shell, and this is a challenge for me, because I hate being told no and I naturally like to heal and help. Him withdrawing is not always easy but I have learned to deal with it. I'd give him his space and he gladly takes it. He doesn't chase me, he just goes with the flow. He also moves very slow when it comes to commitment, because he too has been hurt really bad as a teen because of other women taking advantage of his ?softness.? I however appreciate his sensitivity, more so after a very tough relationship with a Capricorn.

The things I wanted with the Capricorn, the Cancer now provides. And it's just the little things, the things that come natural to you Cancers. Do what comes natural to you... she will love it. Of course don't get too mushy, because Taurus women love strong men. We don't like to feel like we can over power a guy that we are with. Have a say, an opinion, challenge her by not always agreeing with her. We can tell when someone likes us so much that they would do anything and that comes across as desperate to us.

Just do you! Be a Cancer! Bulls can't help but to have this fatale attraction to you Crabs. The relationship between the two can last for a long time once you get over the bumps, and learn to understand each other.

Yea thanks. Tho right now I feel challenged. I'm no the only one that wants to date her. I feel like crap and I fear I'm probably moving way to slow and she will lose interest? Yea I did disagree with her yesterday about a movie that's coming out by the tone of my voice about it lol. Guess that's a good start? But I'm probably giving a vibe that I'd do almost anything for her. It's frustrating not being able to show my emotions to her bc of not knowing. Just because a girl looks at you a lot doesn't mean she necessarily likes you. I'm probably just an eye candy? Anyways, I am starting to feel more comfortable around her. I guess when a Taurus and cancer meets there is a strong attraction but we both move very slow to get to know each other. I'm scared of this slowness bc if I move to slow some other guy will take her that's more blunt. Yesterday I was going to ask her to watch a movie with me after work. But I just had this gut feeling it wasn't the right time yet bc there is a little awkwardness still that I feel. And from past experience if I don't think feels right to ask, I won't at all until I feel it is. It's too soon. I'll be heartbroken if someone other then me takes her. I feel like shit just thinking about it. Like she's there but out of my reach I'm thinking too much about it. She's into the same hobbies as me witch is modeling. That's a good start. But I'm intimidated now? Even tho I get people saying that I'm hot/sexy what ever... I don't feel it. I'm no very confident. I get very shy and blush when I get these complements. Now days I've been just feeling sad and quiet when I'm not around her. I don't show her my sad side bc from past failures. Never get a girl to pity you. So I walk with confidence around her but my speech needs a little work since I do sound nervous some times and random. Oh! I've also told her I get nervous easily and she gave me this very cute seductive smile like she knew already. No matter what happens. I still want to be her friend. I see lots of potential chemistry between us and a lot in common. Were just trying to get through each other walls. I like her the first moment I met her and I think she felt the same since she was giving me hard looks. Oh btw. I almost got fired the other day bc how I felt about my situation. Alone and confused of what's going on and stuff. I took this long long shift. And the manager said I stayed till 1am I said the F word out load and customers heard me. very very very very close in gett

ing fired! That would have sucked bc I'm just now getting to know this Taurus! So I'm suspended for 2 weeks. I need to be carful! I got really lucky that I didn't get fired bc that's what both managers there intention was when they called me in the room. Omg

Why not just ask her out? She doesn't have a bf and you can do something that isn't a formal date so to speak, like going for a coffee or doing something together that you know she likes, like maybe going to see an exhibition or something. Or food, that's always a good place to start with a Taurus! I think if the cancer guy at my work asked me out my head would explode!! It's so up and down with him...one day I'll be sure he likes me cos of him looking at me and stuff, the next he can be really cold and not bother with me. It drives me crazy! I have this mad urge sometimes to just walk in his office and snog his face off. Suppose it would be funny for everyone else to see me do it!

Shish...You are right... both Cancers and Taurus are slow. But that doesn't mean that you should get sad and give up easy. I completely understand how you feel about being nervous and afraid of rejection. I guess only other Cancers would understand what you are going through, while others signs would be like "just ask her out". They don't understand how hard it is for you to do just that. Don't take offence, some people just don't realise how fragile Cancers can be.

However, I would suggest that you take as long as you want. Whenever you feel like you're ready. You don't want to walk up to her when the timing feels wrong to you and blow it and end up with regret and embarrassment. Continue to get comfortable, make friends with her, learn your strong points and then approach her when YOU are ready. You can't hide your feelings forever, so whenever you feel the urge, just go with it.

Don't fear that someone else would come and take over, not every girl goes for the first one that scoops her up. Besides, when someone likes you, it wouldn't be that easy for him or her to just be with someone else. I think she likes you and you don't know exactly how she feels about you inside, so go with the flow by doing what you do best. You!

The key to a successful relationship, whether friendship or romantic is being one's self. You can't wrong with this. You may think that you're goofy, but she may find you charming and adorable; you may feel like you're doing too much, but she might really appreciate your efforts. Either way, you are being yourself and it is a take it or leave scenario, which you can't go wrong with. Either she likes YOU for YOU or she doesn't. Wouldn't it feel way better to be loved by someone that values all your traits good and bad?

I'm very confused. I think she doesn't like me? I mean I left her a message. And she did not reply. If a girl likes you back she would reply right? She didn't? It always happens like this. I can't stand it how she gets along more with other people and she gets kinda quiet around me? I feel like she's holding back sometimes even hates me? It's lowering my self esteem. It hurts. I don't know what to do anymore. Maybe I should give up. If she was interested she would definitely let me know. But she's been the same. Kinda distant and quiet around me?. least I'm trying to open up but I still get nervous around her. Am I just thinking too much? I've been down this road before and it all ended horribly. But this one is way different then the one's in the past? this one has lasted a lot longer then the last one's. I would ask her out but I think she would say no. I've never been successful in asking my crush out on a 1 on 1 thing. I dunno. It's still too early to tell. Who knows maybe she will still reply but I doubt it. You see even little things like this can hurt? One of the cancer traits I hate is the clinging thing. I wanna just move on! But how can I when she's all I think about. Its not that she's too good for me I know I can go out with a girl as hot as she is. It's just my personality. I look popular but I'm not. I don't flirt a lot like some people do bc I don't see the point in talking some times when I don't even know what most people are talking about in the first place. But that's my down fall! People will be talking and my crush would be there and she would join in I would just stand there not even know what to say. So I'm there but I'm not. I hate that. I can't talk if no one gives me attention. I hate it when the spot light is shining on someone else. I'm a loner. A disguised loser. Yea I'm bashing myself? Right now I feel like there is no other girl but her. And I'm casting a fishing line and not getting a bite. I hate to say it. But I don't think she's interested. I'd be a fool to continue this chase. Thanks for your advice everyone? If I can't get the girl that I have strong feelings for I'd rather be alone. Or am I thinking too much about it? Could she like me still? Is she still shy? No it can't be? Taurus girls lets the guy there interested in know that there interested! She has not. Only looks and smiles. I'm not satisfied with just that I want the whole thing! To just hold her and kiss her would be the best day of my life. Even if it was j

Even if it was just for one day.
I'll go with this flow with this one. I like her to much to just throw her aside with all my other failed crushes.

I'm just saying it how it is man...

I was also feeling like shit while typing that.

I really am confused. I think its BS too.

Next time I see her I'll do it.. enough said!