Cancer Taurus Story

ok this is my first post here I would like to tell you guys about my story and get some feed back.

all most a year ago I started talking to this female taurus we had a lot in common we liked the same music thats what we talked about the most for the first 2 to 3 months we talked a lot I asked her out a few times to concerts and to go snowboarding but she all ways said she had some thing to do. after a while we did not talk that much (she had a boyfriend the whole time) about 2 months ago they broke up I sent her a message last week asking if she wanted to go snowboarding by this time I asked her out more then 20 times and got shut down again after that I told her I was going to go to this local bar after and told her she should come got a message back saying that she was gonna be there too we ended up meeting up before going in to the bar sat down at a table talked for a bit making crazy eye contact then at one point she starts kissing me out of no where I ended up taking her home but we only had 15 minutes when we got into my room we started making out again she wanted to fuck but I could not do it in the time limit I told her I wanted a relationship and she said she just got out of a bad one and it ended really badly ended up driving her back to her friends house because her friends were calling her when we got to her friends house she jumped on me again and started making out again but her friends called again and she had to go keep in mind this is the first night I met her in person she told me to call her the next day I called her talked to her for a bit told her I wanted to see her and that we did not have enough time last night and asked if she want to go snowboarding but she said she was waiting for a phone call and to call her after I get back I did she said she was getting ready for a party with her friends and I asked her if she wanted to meet up she told me she would call me when she gets to the party she never did I txted her hows the party she replys good I send her one back asking if it was a open house and that I wanted to see her and got no reply and now here we are I have not talked to her in 2 days I think I'm gonna send her a txt tomorrow saying merry christmass

thats my story I really want to go out with this girl

feed back is appreciated

*I ended up taking her home but we only had 15 minutes when we got into my room we started making out again she wanted to have sex but I could not do it in the time limit*

I wrote f u c k instead of have sex but the board deleted it

She's a ho .. the signs are all over the place ..


.. she doesn't want to do anything with you unless it involves sex

.. do yourself a favor and don't send that text

why do you think that? when I saw her last week she looked really interested she started kissing me and I took her home for a bit and she wanted to have sex with me but when I talk to her on the phone or txt I feel like she is not interested

my last post was ment for RainFairy

P-Angel I think she is loyal when she is in a relationship but she just got out of a long one and it ended badly so it's possible she is turning into a ho I hear it happens a lot thats why I would like her to be my ho and be in a relationship with her it would be hard she is a really beautiful girl and lots of guys wanna be with her

okay first of pangel has a tendency to be very negative, so weigh that carefully....
I am a taurus female, and I went trhough something very similar to what it sounds like this girl is going through after a really horrible break up I had. My boyfriend seemed wonderful at first we even moved in together - after that things changed...REALLY changed.... to the point where I eneded up having to get a restraining order against him. Long story short he was very abusive, particularly mentally and emotionally and it made me really feel like I was in fact completely worthless. I had a taurus coworker that really liked me and he wanted to date me when I got out of that relationship. I told him I wasn't looking for that at the time. But we taurus can't help it, even if we think that's not what we want it always is. I changed my mind about what I wanted, but negl;ected to tell him that and ended up driving him away...so anyway, you've got one of two things here - either she really isn't interested or she is but isn't ready yet. If it's that important to you then stop talking ato her about being in a relationship - be her friend, give her space, and if the interest is there she'll come around. If it's not then at least you will have kept your distance a bit and not gotten yourself so emotionally involved. But one very important thing to remember: YOU CANNOT RUSH A TAURUS.

"thats why I would like her to be my ho"


And second of all, xangelfishx tends to not comprehend what she reads, so therefore isn't grasping that you want a ho.

I caught that.... I assume he didn't mean it as literally as you're taking it...

"and be in a relationship with her "

that was the rest of that statement.... perhaps YOU are not comprehending what you read....

I didn't attack you, just warned you tend to be negative so get over it.....

Poor angelfish .. we all know you are comprehension handicapped .. so, I'll help you out with this ..


"it's possible she is turning into a ho I hear it happens a lot thats why I would like her to be my ho"


What this means is ..

It's possible she is turning into a ho
That's WHY I would like her to be mine



It's ok .. you can't help it .. Merry Christmas

i think she was desparete and immature and just wanted to feel loved (sexually) he didnt do it so she went to a party and ill bet a thousand bucks she found someone there willing to fulfill that need......so she doesnt need u anymore......angel ...she does sound a little(alot)like a hoe, maybe thats not how she always is but that seems to be her frame of mind. i do think he was wrong to start bringing up relationships and stuff like that. if u turned her down sexually...she will not respect u for that but more like hold it against u.

easy guys.....theres been enough friction around here lately......

alot of guys want to be with her.......seems like u missed your window there buddy....if u were the space shuttle your landing in the atlantic instead florida.lol

angels right ...if u want it that bad, just be her friend....dont bring up all that heavy shit.

No prob on my end cj .. I didn't target .. I countered.

Enjoy

you didn't counter anything - everyone knows you're negative and tend to be a jerk at that.
typical pisces.... my way is the right way and I know everything so everyone else should just shut up....
mood - go ahead and listen to that crap if you want.... if you believe the girl is truly turning into a ho then walk away....
why should you take advice from a another taurus girl who went through the same thing right? ........

i would just be careful.....i mean u dont even make it in to the bar and she's making out with u.........she has one thing on her mind and thats to forget about her ex no matter what it seems.....

u know what dude....just keep callling her, show her how much u care, then if she appreciates that she'll be back .....if not you'll get your heart broken....welcome to the world kid.

lol to be completely objective, Angel you should have let Mood come to his own conclusion about PA's advice and opinion.

Secondly, I think she might be interested in you, which is partly why she did stay in touch, but she might not be ready to take it anywhere. I have to agree with CJ that she probably just wanted to feel wanted. She was coming off of a bad breakup and wanted someone to make her feel beautiful, make her feel good, make her feel desirable, and to help her to forget her pain, you were there are she had time. She might have an interest in you, but for the present moment, or atleast in the moments you and her already shared, she wasnt prepared to take that interest into a relationship, like Angel said.

I dont think that her behavior makes it prefectly clear that she is a hoe (one screw a hoe doth not make), but in that situation...all she wanted (obviously) was sex. It doesnt mean that she wouldnt have wanted more, thats just where she was at that moment.

we've all made bad decisions yes, and that doenst make her a ho........mine were usually to make others feel better 😢

"she wanted to have sex with me but when I talk to her on the phone or txt I feel like she is not interested"

fair enough sweetest - but when you're brand new here and you come across...certain people...it can be unnerving... it took me a long time to learn people's personalities here. It was cansir that convinced me to simply not listen to those people and that dxp can be a good place to make new friends.

It's not rocket science ..

Different people take it a different way. True enough we all have our own personalities, but we also react differently to different personalities too. Some people like curt to the point ultra-antagonistic view-points, others want people to be more sympathetic and romantic, and others just like something that takes all angles into account. He might appreciate it, seems like some people on here have a cut, dry, one answer approach and anything more fantastic is based on idiocy in their opinion.

"P-Angel I think she is loyal when she is in a relationship"

Mood, you are apparantly new to the whole relationship game, so I want to give you a heads-up about emotions games women play ..

"we talked about the most for the first 2 to 3 months we talked a lot I asked her out a few times to concerts and to go snowboarding but she all ways said she had some thing to do."


Girls who are loyal/faithful to their man will NOT say, "I am busy" when a guy asks them out .. they will say, "Sorry, I have a boyfriend". If a girl is faithful to her man, she won't spend 2 to 3 months leading another one to the point of him asking her out.

You believe that just because she didn't actually go out with you that she is loyal .. this is in error. Emotional cheating is STILL cheating, and she spent time with you, stroking your emotions (emotional manipulating) .. while having a boyfriend.

My whole point is .... IF you ever hook up with her, her morals allows her to lead men on, for she did it to you, all the while having a boyfriend = NOT faithful in a relationship.

If a woman cheats to get you .. she'll cheat on you.

It doesn't really matter, SF .. for the fact of the matter is, I was in a conversation with a specific person to whom was NOT angel and she rudely chimes in with her remark ... pretty much what cj was bitching about last night when notso interjected with a remark.

I was talking to mood .. so whether angel approves of me and my style of speech or not, didn't discredit me in any way because it was her who rudely stepped into a conversation.

Thank you though, for being objective.

sweetest - I said weigh the advice carefully...not don't take it.

He never said there was anything emotional about their relationship. I've had a lot of male friends that have asked me out while I was in a relationship and while each time I did respond letting them know that it would be very disrespectful for me to spend time with them one on one, it doesnt mean that it was something inappropriate on my part that caused them to ask.

I dont feel like she cheated by being friends with you during her relationship so you cannot simply label her a cheat for that reason. Im a Taurus female with a Cancer man and when he and I first came across one another I had broken up with my boyfriend months before. The Cancer and I got to know one another and impulsively I got back with my boyfriend when he asked. I remained friends with the Cancer guy, though he occasionally insisted that I would get tired of my man and when it happened he wanted a chance. We were good friends sharing conversation and when he stepped over that line towards being disrespectful I asked him to step back. When him and I did finally get start to spend time one on one after I broke up with my ex things did get physical rather soon after, but it wasnt a desperate heat of the moment type thing. I was very interested in him from the moment I met him I just wasnt really ready to move on from my ex. I never cheated on my ex and I never lead the other guy on. I do realize Im fortunate that he waited for me to find myself and my forward motion and decided to give me a chance.

you're welcome P. We dont all fit right in next to one another, but we do still all have our rightful place.

Angel I was just more or less saying you cant tell someone else how to weigh someone's advice because we all have different scales. Mood, Im sure is cognitive enough to weigh it how it applies to him and what he's looking for.

It doesn't matter "what" you said, angel .. what matters is "that" you said anything at all that is with an attempt to sway another persons opinion of another = control freak.

I won't deny that my style of communication can be irritating .. I'm direct and to the point .. no fluff, no pampering

However, when I speak to a person .. I speak TO THAT PERSON and not about other people. You can go all through here .. you won't find me attempting to tell another person about somebody I don't like. That's completely immature. Have I pissed you off in the past? Yes.

But, I've NEVER spoken about you to other people with the intentions of pursuading them to be against you .. no matter how much you have fucking pissed me off.

I may be forceful and opinionated .. but, I'm not that immature.

You were out-of-line.

here's my advice to you pangel - kiss my ass.
I didn't rudely interrupt anything. I stated my opinion as you claim to have done yours. end of story.
you're rude, immature, and you are the one who is a control freak.

you truly are from neptune....

I have nothing more to say to you.

another good point bounces off the rim and out of bounds.

SF .. I don't believe there is anything wrong with having male friends, either. I'm married and have quite a few male friends.

However, if one of these friends asked me out on a date .. there would all kinds of bells ringing = I'm sending him signals.

But, for the fact that he asked her out and she still continued to lead him on, which she must have been doing, since he asked her out more than once .. then in perspective, this equals playing him.

A loyal woman isn't going to do this .. and not just to her man, also her friends.

"another good point bounces off the rim and out of bounds."

oh well .. I got the point, SF 🙂

lol someone asking you something doesnt you sending signals, its indicative of them trying to find something out. Your answer really tells what kind of signals you're trying to send.I think we should give him a chance to say what kind of signals that she giving if any because that might bring to light now that he was disrespecting what she had by continuously asking her, which would make them peas in a pod in my opinion. She might have said she had something to do to make him feel better. Even when I told the Cancer guy to back up because he knew I was in a relationship I could tell he was hurt of course being loyal I had to charge that to the game.

someone asking you something doesnt mean you're sending signals*

Well, he said it all when he said that when phoned or texted, she gives him the impression of not being interested.

In any event .. that's how I would read it, however, I've been around the block a few times more than him I would suspect. He'll figure it out.

We all have to get burned a few times before we realize that we can't put everything out there because a pretty face batted their eyes.

I dont think she's playing him so much as he's been prepared to move in on her and she's going through emotional changes with her relationship and breakup. One thing in my situation that did pain me is that the Cancer guy thought that I wasnt really interested in him because I chose to get back with my ex whereas that decision was based on my desire to be loyal and dedicated. It was a hard long thought out decision . It is possible to be loyal to the wrong person and I explained that to him, but I hope my loyalty is more important than who I have been loyal too. This girl might really like him, but she's in a place where she is still trying to get though her present situation.

"I asked her out more then 20 times and got shut down again"
"asked if she want to go snowboarding but she said she was waiting for a phone call"
"she told me she would call me when she gets to the party she never did"
"that I wanted to see her and got no reply"
"I took her home for a bit and she wanted to have sex with me but when I talk to her on the phone or txt I feel like she is not interested"


It's all right there, mood ... every time you attempt to contact her, she blows you off. Those are her signals to you .. shut down.

he might have got shut down those first 20 times because she was still in a relationship.

But, not the rest ... I'm unclear why you are telling him that she might be interested when her signals say otherwise?

Certainly, we all have our own reads into things ... but, why lead him to believe she's interested, when he even says his ownself that she makes him feel like she's not interested when he phones and texts.

Oh well .. I don't have to understand .. he does.

SF, is that a picture of your kid?

because I know how easy it is to be mistaken to be disinterested...especially with a Cancer guy as a Taurus girl. I know astrology is the least of it, but its hard to assume anyone on any basis that someone is disinterested, especially in a text message because typed words have no mood, even an exclamation mark can be misinterpreted.

And he said she seems disinterested. I think if she was disinterested then there would be no phone convos or texts for him to judge by.

Cancer guy and a Taurus girl*

NO!! I have no children. Thats my niece.

"I think if she was disinterested then there would be no phone convos or texts for him to judge by."


It's my understanding from what he said .. there aren't any phone calls or texts from her .. he's the one that keeps contacting her and she blows him off.


However, it doesn't matter .. it's his heart.

NO (in caps), lol

sorry !

lol its ok. He didnt say that she never contacts him, he said she said she was going to in a couple instances and didnt. I think that means it would take more details to know.

It's Christmas Eve .. why the hell is ANYBODY in here?

We're gonna get the Bad Santa 😢

im Jewish

haha psyche! My family left a little while ago, I take them in small doses then I detox by conversing with total strangers. What a stress relief.