@Help66
20 Years
Taurus & dominance
well seeing as how the Man is always Head of Household, what can you do with him? However, since the Man is the Head, you have to learn to make yourself the Neck. And the Neck can turn the Head any way that she wants.
It's all about perspective isnt it? the trick i use for my bull (who is now in limbo) is to come up with ideas that I definitely want to do but I make him think that he came up with the ideas himself.
I have large breasts for my size so i can't exactly where everything in the world, but I do like to wear sexy clothes when I go to the club or something. Now, seeing as how I have a bull, he is prone to jealousy but I make him think that he came up with the idea for me to wear the outfit in the first place. Rather than asking him if he likes what I have on, I ask him does he think I'm sexy in what I have on. More than likely, the answer is usually a yes. Then I ask him does he like having a sexy girlfriend? The answer is usually yes. Then I would be like Arent you lucky to be strolling in the club with such a sexy girl? and he will usually say yes. now, this is totally a cocky approach, but it works.
It's all about perspective isnt it? the trick i use for my bull (who is now in limbo) is to come up with ideas that I definitely want to do but I make him think that he came up with the ideas himself.
I have large breasts for my size so i can't exactly where everything in the world, but I do like to wear sexy clothes when I go to the club or something. Now, seeing as how I have a bull, he is prone to jealousy but I make him think that he came up with the idea for me to wear the outfit in the first place. Rather than asking him if he likes what I have on, I ask him does he think I'm sexy in what I have on. More than likely, the answer is usually a yes. Then I ask him does he like having a sexy girlfriend? The answer is usually yes. Then I would be like Arent you lucky to be strolling in the club with such a sexy girl? and he will usually say yes. now, this is totally a cocky approach, but it works.
sorry, I meant to say that I can't exactly *wear*
Well my guy has fits because I wear loose, comfortable clothing. He thinks I should wear a tighter fit so he can see my "assets" - drives me nuts. Not quite sure how I can convince him I don't want to wear tight clothing!!
Ok, the problem starts with taurus/aqua! lol
They can compromise. My daddy-o was a controlling bull. Just let them know you're listening, & mostly do it, but slowly & quietly put your way into things. We are that way because we're not sure that what you're doing is right. Prove to us that you are smart & your way is also right & we might back off a little.
They can compromise. My daddy-o was a controlling bull. Just let them know you're listening, & mostly do it, but slowly & quietly put your way into things. We are that way because we're not sure that what you're doing is right. Prove to us that you are smart & your way is also right & we might back off a little.
hahahah @ help! ya, my scorp wants ME, a comfy taurus to dress slutty when we go out! I'll pick my days to dress hot But comfort is priority unless I choose otherwise!
oh well if comfy clothes are the problem, then thats an easy fix. You just ask him why would he want other men drooling at you, trying to take away what he has.
And Merc, why are you always picking on me? cant you find someone else to pick on?
And Merc, why are you always picking on me? cant you find someone else to pick on?
oh my stars...
Dogs? Bells anyone? What Makes YOU SALAVITE?
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I'm also involved with a Taurus man who is so extremely dominant he tries to tell me what to where, when, etc. We go nose to nose sometimes, and I normally do what I want but does he get bent out of shape.
Any way to change this - I mean to get them to compromise? I've known Taurus men who were sweet & sentimental & caring. I think this 1 is also but won't show it. I am an aqua female so I can get pretty darn stubborn also.
Just wondering.
Thanks