Taurus Female dating Aquarius Male Advice??

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So I've been dating this guy for a little over a month. And of course in the beginning things were great. Things were cute etc. We've seen each other quite a few times since. He's an aquarius and I'm a taurus. Not compatible , yes I know but I try to give everyone a chance regardless of their sign. So I originally met him on a dating site. After meeting him he would barely log on there. But recently I've noticed that he has been. We still talk and he texts me every morning , well , he would text me every morning almost first thing "good morning" , but recently he texts me in the afternoon. Might be later in time than he started but still , he texts me. But things just seem different. Sometimes he even logs on to the date site first thing in the morning before even texting me. We talk everyday but it seems like his mind is somewhere else. He still shows signs hes into me by calling me sweet names but now its starting to feel moreso just like words and not like he really WANTS to call me those sweet names or likes me on that level to call me that. If it makes any sense. I just feel like now he calls me those names just to call me it. I've never dated an aquarius male before so im not sure how they are but things just don't feel the same like they did in the beginning. I can take criticism very well so don't hesitate to be blunt with all responses bc I need some advice. He just has some moments here and there were he seems so dry towards me but he does still communicate. I just need some relationship advice bc guys can be so hot and cold at times and me, I personally like consistency so it throws me off and makes me feel as though hes getting bored with me.
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My advice is just be friends. Don't start pushing for a relationship with him. Just keep it fun and casual. Do not emotionally invest until he does, do not let yourself dream up fantasies with him because that's seeing potentials and not reality....just date. Enjoy the conversation and getting to know him. No pressure, no expectation...and don't stalk him on the net. You keep bringing up the dating site...so what if he's on there? You are on there too. Just don't worry about it...it's not life or death if he doesn't work out.
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He lost interest honey, what are you confused about? I am confused about what you are confused about? We meet folks and are excited in the beginning, we get to know them better to see if this is someone we want to be exclusive with. As you two got to know each other, whatever he needs in order to feel like he wants to be exclusive with a chick, he did not feel was present in the situation with you. Who knows what makes one person tick. I knew a Aquarius who only fell in love with hoes. Who knows? Whatever the case, stop being as available as you were before, fall back because he may be getting ready to pull their famous disappearing acts. Let him go..
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Humm i'm also a Taurus. I dated an Aqua guy for 2 months.

It was refreshing first, as I always dated fire signs before. He was very easy going, social and always ready to do activities (as opposite to day and night in bed lol). I have an Aqua rising, so we shared a curiosity for science. We always had something to talk about. We had the frienship vibe.

Then like you, i discovered his flaky side. He didnt like to commit to plans, and i was fine with it. I'm not the typical Taurus with most of my planets in Aries. But what i didnt like is that he tried to rationalize his "bad behaviours", like he could not relate to how a person feels. Nothing was a big deal to him. He assured me he would never want to hurt me.

When i let him go because of the communication problems and what i perceived as a lack of deepness. He persued me for a long time, and wanted to stay friends. I think Aqua guys want to stay free, they are so free spirited that they might appear to have loose values for a grounded sign as Taurus, that needs to know exactly what to expect.

They are very generous and fun to be around. On the other hand, i find Aqua guys to be slow to commit and not good when it comes to feelings. His flakiness might be a fear of getting too involved and loosing his freedom. Let him come to you...

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Oh and i forgot, mine was also so damn "cute", calling me cute names. At the same time he was messaging girls on Instagram i think. All this while saying how "loyalty is important to him"?!

I still can't figure him out! As a Taurus i saw this as lack of interest as you. He is still texting me to "hang out as friends".

So as you see, it's not you, they are just like that :-/
I beg to differ, my Aquarius proposed in three months and was hard to get rid of. I had to change my number and move to shake his ass. The Aquarius you dated weren't into you. When they find the love of their lives they are extremely dedicated and loyal. However if they are not into you they want to maintain the friendship as they value friendship above relationship. So I don't think your two experiences can speak for all Aquarius men, like my experiences can't speak for all Aquarius men. However like your Aquarius, mine did continue to talk to other women on the level that the Aquarius wanted to talk to you... as friends. But when they are into you, their interest is fixed and permanent.

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I've had both very good and very bad relationships with Aquas. I think for a Taurus woman it's workable depending upon where some of his inner placements are, like the Moon, Mars and Venus and his Asc. Which you don't know right? I'd stay loose until I knew more.


Ok I looked it up. I only know his birthday and I think he was born in the same state as me. His rising sign is Taurus , sun is Aquarius , moon Scorpio , mars Aries , Venus Sagittarius. His asc is in Taurus
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Oh and i forgot, mine was also so damn "cute", calling me cute names. At the same time he was messaging girls on Instagram i think. All this while saying how "loyalty is important to him"?!

I still can't figure him out! As a Taurus i saw this as lack of interest as you. He is still texting me to "hang out as friends".

So as you see, it's not you, they are just like that :-/
I beg to differ, my Aquarius proposed in three months and was hard to get rid of. I had to change my number and move to shake his ass. The Aquarius you dated weren't into you. When they find the love of their lives they are extremely dedicated and loyal. However if they are not into you they want to maintain the friendship as they value friendship above relationship. So I don't think your two experiences can speak for all Aquarius men, like my experiences can't speak for all Aquarius men. However like your Aquarius, mine did continue to talk to other women on the level that the Aquarius wanted to talk to you... as friends. But when they are into you, their interest is fixed and permanent.

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Of course, I was talking from experience. Mine wasn't mature i guess. He was on and off for 4 years with his ex aswell. He said he loved her but found her needy and insecure...go figure. I dont expect to be loved in 2 months...i'm glad i'm out because i need a deeper guy. He made me realize i loved my ex aswell, i'm now back with him.

My best friend is an Aqua too, she dated so many guys in 10 years. The one she married, it took her 4,5 years to fully commit. She says she loves him and she also told me that my "passionate" love stories, she never understood. For her, it has to be stable and comfortable.

You have to look at the full chart, i'm glad it went so well for you! 🙂
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Oh and i forgot, mine was also so damn "cute", calling me cute names. At the same time he was messaging girls on Instagram i think. All this while saying how "loyalty is important to him"?!

I still can't figure him out! As a Taurus i saw this as lack of interest as you. He is still texting me to "hang out as friends".

So as you see, it's not you, they are just like that :-/
I beg to differ, my Aquarius proposed in three months and was hard to get rid of. I had to change my number and move to shake his ass. The Aquarius you dated weren't into you. When they find the love of their lives they are extremely dedicated and loyal. However if they are not into you they want to maintain the friendship as they value friendship above relationship. So I don't think your two experiences can speak for all Aquarius men, like my experiences can't speak for all Aquarius men. However like your Aquarius, mine did continue to talk to other women on the level that the Aquarius wanted to talk to you... as friends. But when they are into you, their interest is fixed and permanent.


Of course, I was talking from experience. Mine wasn't mature i guess. He was on and off for 4 years with his ex aswell. He said he loved her but found he needy and insecure...go figure. I dont expect to be loved in 2 months...i'm glad i'm out because i need a deeper guy. And he was definitly into me. Im

My best friend is an Aqua too, she lived dated so many guys in 10 years. The one ahe married, it took her 4,5 years to fully commit. She says she loves him and she also told me that my "passionate" love stories, she never understood. For her, it has to be stable and comfortable.

You have to look at the full chart, i'm glad it went so well for you! 🙂
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It didn't go well for me. It was awful..

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I've had both very good and very bad relationships with Aquas. I think for a Taurus woman it's workable depending upon where some of his inner placements are, like the Moon, Mars and Venus and his Asc. Which you don't know right? I'd stay loose until I knew more.


Ok I looked it up. I only know his birthday and I think he was born in the same state as me. His rising sign is Taurus , sun is Aquarius , moon Scorpio , mars Aries , Venus Sagittarius. His asc is in Taurus
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Wow no wonder he is confusing, his rising in earth, sun air, moon water and mars fire.

On one side the easy going social aqua sun, and on the the other the deep closed off sensitive scorpio moon. Combined with an urge to take action - aries sun.

Look into his moon, the sun represents how we want to appear into the world (ego). The moon it's our personnality.

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Oh and i forgot, mine was also so damn "cute", calling me cute names. At the same time he was messaging girls on Instagram i think. All this while saying how "loyalty is important to him"?!

I still can't figure him out! As a Taurus i saw this as lack of interest as you. He is still texting me to "hang out as friends".

So as you see, it's not you, they are just like that :-/
I beg to differ, my Aquarius proposed in three months and was hard to get rid of. I had to change my number and move to shake his ass. The Aquarius you dated weren't into you. When they find the love of their lives they are extremely dedicated and loyal. However if they are not into you they want to maintain the friendship as they value friendship above relationship. So I don't think your two experiences can speak for all Aquarius men, like my experiences can't speak for all Aquarius men. However like your Aquarius, mine did continue to talk to other women on the level that the Aquarius wanted to talk to you... as friends. But when they are into you, their interest is fixed and permanent.


Of course, I was talking from experience. Mine wasn't mature i guess. He was on and off for 4 years with his ex aswell. He said he loved her but found he needy and insecure...go figure. I dont expect to be loved in 2 months...i'm glad i'm out because i need a deeper guy. And he was definitly into me. Im

My best friend is an Aqua too, she lived dated so many guys in 10 years. The one ahe married, it took her 4,5 years to fully commit. She says she loves him and she also told me that my "passionate" love stories, she never understood. For her, it has to be stable and comfortable.

You have to look at the full chart, i'm glad it went so well for you! 🙂
It didn't go well for me. It was awful..

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Really? Can i ask why?