Taurus friend, turned lover

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a muse a libra
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Long ago, 8 years ago, I made brilliant friends with an amazing guy. I was always interested in him, but never felt certain he felt the same way. I never made a move, and neither did he. Went on like this for 7 years, until I went to visit him and one thing led to another. We haven't seen each other since then, due to money and schedules, but are still close friends.

I am just wondering if you Taurus' can give me some insight. He always signs his letter "love" and call my friendship with him "monumental" in his life.

I get major butterflies just writing that, and miss him very dearly. I don't believe I've met someone that quite matches me the way he does.

Does Taurus play games like this? It seems so serious to me, I don't want to set myself to expect anything that isn't there...any insights you have would be awesome!
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krysrenee7
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The good thing about A Taurus is that they make it clear what they want from you. If he never made a move on you it's because he decided you'd be better as a good friend than a lover. When a Taurus wants something bad enough (relationship or just friendship) they'll do anything they can to sustain it. Try not to overanalyze the situation too deeply. The good thing about love is that the strongest relationships always started off with a deep friendship. When Taurus' love, they love hard, but love isn't just narrowed down to being in a relationship with someone. Taurus' love their best friends almost as much as they love their girlfriends/wifes & kids. And I think part of him not making a move on you could've been that he saw you didn't make a move either. Taurus' hate rejection & for every 1 shy person, that shy person is always expecting for the other person they are dealing with to step up & make the move. Taurus' hate to be led on & if they want something bad enough, they don't wait for 7 years for it (when it comes to being with someone they've always loved). I think he has a mutual love & respect for you that might be more stronger between the 2 of you as friends, more than lovers. Have you thought about expressing how you really feel to him?