Earlysport
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Taurus girl confusing and slow to love
Do you think she's just slow to trust and open up her feelings? Just inattentive and caught up in her life when she's away? Or do you think she's really not into me? Or more importantly is this a taurus thing? Reading seems to indicate so.
As a cancerian it's doing my head in and giving me anxiety! 😢
Youve only been together for three months. Chill out and give her some space. You're sounding really clingy and whiny. Dont smother her!!!! This is why I prefer not to date cancers. You're the man, you should be making 90% of the initial contact anyway.
Man up or you're going to lose your bullette
Man up or you're going to lose your bullette
Dude, chill. Sincerely.
Her time to be with her family is....time to be with her family.
After 4 years single and only 3 months in it is natural for her to be taking things more slowly. As to fb imo it is an intrusive bit of baggage and more than like she will not put anything on blast unless she is SURE.
You said yourself you are used to receiving attention from the opposite sex. A Taurus woman will give honest compliment but will not pump someone up for its own sake normally. Does not mean she hasn't eyes in her head, means she won't make it a practice to stroke your ego non-stop. Someone who constantly requires that is tiresome. Draining.
I'd say things look positive on the whole, she's making plans that include you in future. Just breathe Crab. Stop over-analyzing and reading into things that are not there.
Her time to be with her family is....time to be with her family.
After 4 years single and only 3 months in it is natural for her to be taking things more slowly. As to fb imo it is an intrusive bit of baggage and more than like she will not put anything on blast unless she is SURE.
You said yourself you are used to receiving attention from the opposite sex. A Taurus woman will give honest compliment but will not pump someone up for its own sake normally. Does not mean she hasn't eyes in her head, means she won't make it a practice to stroke your ego non-stop. Someone who constantly requires that is tiresome. Draining.
I'd say things look positive on the whole, she's making plans that include you in future. Just breathe Crab. Stop over-analyzing and reading into things that are not there.
Bulls move at their own terms
Posted by Earlysport
Right now though I feel distant and just feel unimportant and that she's not that into me. I've felt for a little while That i like her more than she likes me which is odd for me - I'm used to girls chasing me. I'm just out of a 3 year relationship (ended 5 months ago) and she has been single for four years.
You're observing the relationship from the perspective of a Cancer. Some Cancers (not all) are more prone to fall in and out of love quickly depending on the prospective partner. If a relationship has dissolved, moving on and falling in love all over again becomes just as simplistic.
For a Bullette, and I speak for myself, I'm not that optimistic about love to take another emotional risk so prematurely once a relationship has dissolved. I measure all the risks and benefits, pros and cons in regards to pursuing this individual long term. I am an old-fashioned kind of a woman. I love traditional relationships, and do believe in "Now and Forever." However, I'm still realistic about the possible outcome.
When a relationship has ended, I have to give myself space, time, my heart, a chance to heal, a self evaluation, but to enter a premature commitment with someone else? Six weeks of sealing the deal would be too soon.
I think her actions are perfectly natural. She wants to take things slow. She needs to know that she's making a keen investment in you. Only time will tell. My advice, just learn to be in the moment with her. Don't over-analyze your position with her. She seems VERY interested in you.
PRIVATE. CONSISTENT. ANTI-DRAMA. FOCUSED.
May come off standoffish at times but we have lots o' love to share underneath that top layer. Be patient my pet...and don't suffocate her.
May come off standoffish at times but we have lots o' love to share underneath that top layer. Be patient my pet...and don't suffocate her.
Posted by Earlysport
The other issue I have is facebook. She won't acknowledge me on there. Won't accept a photo tag of both of us and definitely wouldn't say 'in a relationship'. She's never mentioned me on her page. We are friends on there but that's it. . She says its because she doesn't like to share real personal stuff on FB and its just her outside life.
I agree with her. People often forget how private most Taurus women are........
Space & Privacy is very important.
—I don't want to be alone, I want to be left alone.??
?? Audrey Hepburn
^^^^^amen!!!
Posted by TaurusBull1977Posted by Earlysport
The other issue I have is facebook. She won't acknowledge me on there. Won't accept a photo tag of both of us and definitely wouldn't say 'in a relationship'. She's never mentioned me on her page. We are friends on there but that's it. . She says its because she doesn't like to share real personal stuff on FB and its just her outside life.
I agree with her. People often forget how private most Taurus women are........
Space & Privacy is very important.
—I don't want to be alone, I want to be left alone.??
?? Audrey Hepburnclick to expand
I have a bull as my partner now and we don't even have each other on FB.
Social media only bring drama to the relationship.
What's important is the relationship you two have together...not the relationship you want OTHERS to see.. Exclusivity and private is key. She would not want to put herself as " relationship" because people will start asking her questions since she's been single for so long.. you are the lucky guy that have won her heart finally! she's mostly like withdrawing a little...reflecting on things...and making you do all the work....typical bull trait 🙂 chill out and enjoy the ride or you will scare her off...
Posted by SunTauVenGem
I have a bull as my partner now and we don't even have each other on FB.
Social media only bring drama to the relationship.
What's important is the relationship you two have together...not the relationship you want OTHERS to see.. Exclusivity and private is key. She would not want to put herself as " relationship" because people will start asking her questions since she's been single for so long..
Posted by SunTauVenGem
you are the lucky guy that have won her heart finally!
click to expand
He's more occupied with giving himself a mental frenzy, I don't think he was well aware that he was chosen (probably out of many other suitors) after she spent four years being alone.
+1000
Cosign.
Nothing more to add....
This thread totally reminds me why us Virguys are generally a great fit for you Bullettes 😛
I miss my Taurie too, shes also on holidays (abroad) for a couple of weeks with her family, but its nice to have my me-time too! 😄
I miss my Taurie too, shes also on holidays (abroad) for a couple of weeks with her family, but its nice to have my me-time too! 😄
Just want to say thankyou for all the replies and insight. I think you've made me see froma different perspective snd I'm far more comfortable now, and I guess just looking forward to seeing her and a great NYE.
I've pulled back a little these last few days and am waiting for her to text me rather than me text hello each morning. Ive also taken my time responding. kinda feels a bit like game playing but She's been staying in contact each day and has suddenly now started putting kisses on the end of each text and texted last night saying she was going to call me but was out all day and had a low battery.
At the end of the day I just have to let things play out and continue to treat her well, although I will chase her less and let her have a turn..
I've pulled back a little these last few days and am waiting for her to text me rather than me text hello each morning. Ive also taken my time responding. kinda feels a bit like game playing but She's been staying in contact each day and has suddenly now started putting kisses on the end of each text and texted last night saying she was going to call me but was out all day and had a low battery.
At the end of the day I just have to let things play out and continue to treat her well, although I will chase her less and let her have a turn..
^Yeah, it is game playing.
What is your issue with putting kissed on the end of texts? Why does that shit matter to you?
Be constant with what you're doing, I don't think you'll accomplish what you want by stepping back a bit.
What is your issue with putting kissed on the end of texts? Why does that shit matter to you?
Be constant with what you're doing, I don't think you'll accomplish what you want by stepping back a bit.
Posted by Damnata
^Yeah, it is game playing.
What is your issue with putting kissed on the end of texts? Why does that shit matter to you?
Be constant with what you're doing, I don't think you'll accomplish what you want by stepping back a bit.
Cosign ^^^^
If the Crab continues to evade an issue to get the rewards to rule in his favor, the meticulous Bull (who has been in solitary for the last four years) may begin to re-evaluate and reconsider her choice for entering an exclusive relationship.
"Consistency" is a constant word for Bulls.
My opinion,
I believe the OP's anxieties and insecurities will be his tragic downfall. The demise of a relationship should not be attributed to problems that are 'self-inflicted, imaginative, or deliberately created.'
Rule One, if you smother a Taurus woman she will run for the hills and ignore you for longer to the extend she may never come back to you, we need our space.
Rule Two, we like our men to be MEN, the strong minded, we can get our heads around clingy weak minded guys Sorry 😢 lol
Rule Three, If she really like you, she WILL miss your text when they stop, and get back in contact with you :-) ... as you've just discovered, Chill out, let her do her stuff and let her breath :-)
Rule Two, we like our men to be MEN, the strong minded, we can get our heads around clingy weak minded guys Sorry 😢 lol
Rule Three, If she really like you, she WILL miss your text when they stop, and get back in contact with you :-) ... as you've just discovered, Chill out, let her do her stuff and let her breath :-)
While she is doing her thing, you do yours. Then when you guys meet up, have fun and talk. When you have space it brings you guys together and even miss each other more. Family is so important first, then usually your SO comes next. I don't understand how people don't have phones or like talking on the phone, it has to be person to person interaction eventually, but til
then phone calls is so nice. I love talk
on the phone or seeing that person at
least two a week. If I don't get a call for
very long. Either your busy or not that interested.
then phone calls is so nice. I love talk
on the phone or seeing that person at
least two a week. If I don't get a call for
very long. Either your busy or not that interested.
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However, she's currently interstate for a couple of weeks for Xmas with her family and I feel so distant. I feel like if I don't txt her or call I won't even hear from her. We've spoken twice in 8 days, and both times briefly. She hasn't sent a single msg of affection or that makes me feel special. Most times won't even put a kiss on the end.
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Right now though I feel distant and just feel unimportant and that she's not that into me. I've felt for a little while That i like her more than she likes me which is odd for me - I'm used to girls chasing me. I'm just out of a 3 year relationship (ended 5 months ago) and she has been single for four years.
The other issue I have is facebook. She won't acknowledge me on there. Won't accept a photo tag of both of us and definitely wouldn't say 'in a relationship'. She's never mentioned me on her page. We are friends on there but that's it. . She says its because she doesn't like to share real personal stuff on FB and its just her outside life. I actually don't think she has another guy she's interested in but I still find it odd. She's quite appearance conscious (cosmetic surgery etc) but most people say I'm a good looking guy.
Do you think she's just slow to t