TAURUS GIRL may be pissed at SCORPIO GUY, HELP!

TAURUS GIRL seems to be pissed at a SCORPIO GUY, HELP!
I am a Scorpio and really like this Taurus girl who is at least 10 years younger than me. I am married and in the middle of a divorce negotiation.She knows it. She has had many bf's but never married. I look 5 years younger than her or at least her age. We met once at a conference, we really got along well and she came to spend a day with me on a 4 hour ride away from her home. We had a great time doing silly and fun stuff all over the city mostly catered to her liking. The day ended with me putting her back on her ride home and a short lip to lip kiss, happened naturally. She texed, "you took me off guard, did you see my face turned red, lol..". I texed, it happened and I will cherish and remember the moment forever. She never directly responds to statements of affection like that but continues the conversation in long gaps and just slight(my assumption) interest and affection. Next day she spoke to me for a long time, just silly fun stuff and texted me to send my address so she could send me something, when asked what she said a Thank you note.
NOW THE MOMENT OF TRUTH; Last night we sent pictures to each other of what we were cooking and laughed over it. Then she said she had a friend over who she had cooked for, they were hanging out and she can't talk on the phone. Being a true passionate Scorpio, I got suspicious but didn't think it was right to ask if it was a boy or a girl. I also got impatient and texted and called couple times, once she picked and I asked if she was still hanging out, she said yes, I said sorry and asked her to call when done. She texted late saying she had to clean up and then will hit the sack. I texted a sad face. No reply. So I felt I should just end this and walk away, so I texted, That's alright, I get it, GOOD BYE. She replied with Huh? I am confused. I thought over it and tried to calm the situation by writing, I meant, I get it that you are pissed about something, most likely my being a pest. Sorry again. I send her G.Morn, messages with a joke everyday and she reponds with a Morning, nothing today, yet. HAVE I LOST HER?

Posted by cleanandcalm
TAURUS GIRL seems to be pissed at a SCORPIO GUY, HELP!

Being a true passionate Scorpio, I got suspicious (most Scorpios are) but didn't think it was right to ask if it was a boy or a girl (You could have just asked 'who'). I also got impatient and texted and called couple times, once she picked and I asked if she was still hanging out, she said yes, I said sorry and asked her to call when done You gave her a deadline ?. She texted late saying she had to clean up and then will hit the sack She let you know. I texted a sad face not something that requires a response... she might have even fallen asleep. No reply Alseep ? In fact, you really couldn't possibly know... maybe she dropped her phone in the sink. So I felt I should just end this and walk away, so I texted, That's alright, I get it, GOOD BYE JESUS ! You based this on what you thought she might REALLY be doing... in YOUR HEAD. She replied with Huh? I am confused Now we know she wasn't alseep and her phone was still operational... but she DID SAY that she wanted to clean up before bed... hard to send sms' and do dishes at the same time. I thought over it and tried to calm the situation by writing, I meant, I get it that you are pissed about something, most likely my being a pest difficult to fix that 'GOOD BYE' thing. Sorry again. I send her G.Morn, messages with a joke everyday and she reponds with a Morning, nothing today, yet. Stop already... you cannot pretend that nothing happened when you said 'GOOD BYE' just the night before. As a Taurus... I don't want to have to be required to reassure someone every few minutes... just too damned high-maintenance for me. Give her a couple of days off and see if she will write to you on her own. If she doesn't... send her a picture of something you know she would laugh at... but be willing to take a couple more days off if she doesn't respond. HAVE I LOST HER?

I can't say that you have lost her... not sure if you actually had her yet... but you made a few bad calls here. Is she pissed ? Not at all... I assure you that she would let you know if she was pissed... you wouldn't recognize her... she would look like something out of Alien... but with fire coming out of her eyes, disemboweling you with one hand and impaling you with the other. Trust me... YOU have NEVER seen her PISSED !

First off dude, and with all sincerity here...take care of your divorce first and heal before you go careening off into Leechola Territory. Relax that choke hold before she gets a 'tude. Most definitely she'll clue you in if she's torqued. Not one ounce of mystery in a PO'd Bull.

You freaked out. You have to control that scorp passion or a slow-moving bull is just going to think you're a little crazy and it'll be a turn-off. Especially male scorp/female taurus combo. I think women in general are looking for more emotional stability in a man. Definitely not time for jealousy after what little interaction you two have had (which does sound like it was meaningful/special time that impacted her alot). You totally lost it, over-reacted, and almost ended the relationship yourself over nothing - in a very short span of time. At best this looks a little unstable. You sound like my male Cancer friend. His mind works way too fast and is always in emotional freak-out mode in early phases of relationship until he is 100% sure the girl likes him and wants to commit. He blows it most of the time with his behavior before it even gets off the ground. You should get yourself a buddy who you can run all these insecure/obsessive thoughts through first, while you are courting a woman; someone who will give you the real scoop and tell you to chill.

Posted by yellowsweater
please have more control of your emotions, especially around us earth signs. not that we can't stand emotions, but acting out like this for no reason... it's just a turn off.

+++1 Yes. & Amen.

Posted by cleanandcalm
Being a true passionate Scorpio, I got suspicious but didn't think it was right to ask if it was a boy or a girl.

Male friend or female friend? Would it have mattered? The two of you are not dating exclusively.

Posted by cleanandcalm
I also got impatient and texted and called couple times,

She already told you she was busy, why didn't you just call back the next day?

Posted by cleanandcalm
once she picked and I asked if she was still hanging out,

You asked a direct question.

Posted by cleanandcalm
she said yes,

She gave you a direct answer.

Posted by cleanandcalm
I said sorry and asked her to call when done.

You told her to call you when she's done.

Posted by cleanandcalm
She texted late saying she had to clean up and then will hit the sack.

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She did and said she was tired.

Posted by cleanandcalm
I texted a sad face. No reply. So I felt I should just end this and walk away, so I texted, That's alright, I get it, GOOD BYE.

Now you're asking if you lost her?

Cleanandcalm-

You're attempting to create a melodramatic situation when there isn't one, really.

My advice---
Channel that intense passion on to something a little more constructive, perhaps a hobby, interests or work.

Or you will end up sabotaging a potential relationship.

Posted by robyn808


Let the incident go, give it a few days. She will be watching you more careful in this area, and that's why she wont bring it up, ,she'll be looking for other warning signs. You can fake it though, the more you try, the longer it will take for her to accept you.

This ^^^^^

Very accurate!

Posted by ceu
She stated to him that she is confused by what he is communicating to her by texting her GOOD BYE and deliberately emphasizing those two words in capital letters.

And it is for that reason, having observed her behavior to be cold towards him since his GOOD BYE texts melodrama, he is on the Taurus board re-strategizing, also having realized his threat to her of the silent treatment was unsuccessful and accomplished the opposite of what he intended.

What surprises me are the responses that advise him to misrepresent himself and appear less insecure and controlling than he actually is (the current state of his heart and mind). You are putting her, one of your fellow Taureans, at an unfair disadvantage.

This woman deserves and needs to see who is he from the very beginning so that she may quickly make her own decision, based on the truth of his actions and words, as to whether she would like to continue to interact with him.

If I knew this woman I would tell her not to ignore the warning signs.

CEU...you just read this dude like a book... WOW...and the sad part is that its true. The scorpio that i know have a hard time with this. When they want something they want it right now. SMH...

Posted by erd1983
CEU...you just read this dude like a book......

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