I had a friend who is Taurus 2 years ago we would flirt I came on strong and he backed off. I got over it and moved on. A few months ago I got a text from him flirting saying we should meet up etc etc but when it came to arranging he would put it off. It has now been several months and I really want to meet up but he keeps making excuses. I am getting fed up and keep having a go at him which of course causes him to back off even more. now he rarely initiates contact but when I ask if he still wants to see me he says yes but in the future. What would you do? Is he just playing me?
Taurus Male
Understanding Taurus Male Behavior in Romantic Situations
A Taurus male may be cautious with new relationships and can take time to commit. His mixed signals might indicate hesitance or a desire for stability. Patience and clear communication are key. If he's consistently unresponsive, consider whether he is genuinely interested or just uncertain about pursuing the relationship further.
Pretty much. Don't waste your time on this guy. There's really no other advice to give here because the reasons don't really matter. Yeah, he's probably using you as an emotional stand in until he finds a girlfriend. Why else would he flirt and chat then run when you want to take it outside of texting? The truth is if a guy really wants to see you, he will make it happen. This guy obviously doesn't. So just move on.
Thank u 🙂

As the other person said, don't waste your time. Ignore or block him. Who has time for that??
Anonymous Virgo male here 🙂. I would add that once you cut this guy off it may reignite his interest to which I would suggest you not respond because you will fall back into the same situation.

Just drop him. He either doesn't know what he wants or is just stringing you along.
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