TAURUS MALE IGNORES SCORPIO FEMALE ?! :(

Hey dudes. I need your help.
I've been talking to this Taurus for the past three weeks. We hung out for a while a year ago, I was in a crumbling relationship and it obviously didn't go anywhere but we did kiss... I felt pretty guilty about it but it still felt right.

Anyway, fast forward a year later - I bump into him at a party I organized for a friend and it's nice and we're talking and I'm single. He comes to visit the place I live (we live in the same city), and we end up kissing, drunk. We hang out a couple of times after and it's always nice and I feel that he likes me and don't push but lately he stopped writing me back or replying to my texts. Which are always completely non committal - not to put pressure on him. Just like, hey, I'm doing this, how are you, I hope you're having a good day. I have all the patience in the world but I kind of need to know that I'm not doing all this for nothing.

What's the deal with this man? Should I give it up? I really like him and have told him so, and he told me he thought I was amazing and always makes an effort to listen to me and make me comfortable when he's around me. So what? Am I rushing? Should I wait for him to contact me or should I go on with my persistent every day email/text message just to show him I'm around?

Thanks, your loyal reader.

I am Scorpio Sun, Aries Moon, Venus in Libra and Mercury in Scorpio
He is Taurus Sun, Cancer Moon, Venus in Taurus and Mercury in Gemini

well persistance does pay off, so eventually down the line, who knows...
BUT for a bull to ignore ur texts and calls, well hes most likely not interested in you..... has someone else on his mind.

They should have a "like" button in this forum. 🙂

I agree with Ladie.Taurus. But this seems to be the case with any sign, not just Taureans.

how likely is it that a taurus will regain interest?
I'm in the same boat 😢

I think this is normal behavior with taurus males if they are somewhat into you but not sure, they will hang out with and everything and even text but then they will disappear out the blue leaving you to wonder what happen. I had a relationship with one a while back and a child came out of the relationship but at the start of our reltionship he would be cool then would go days without contacting me then out the blue he would contact me, will ofcourse he got better and I got pregnant and then he went cold again and now our baby is 17mths and he is trying to get back with me but now I am at the point where I only want to be friends.. The ladies here will tell you patience is very important with this sign.

The patience of Job. And sometimes contact ( lack thereof ) is as simple as his work, his own internal zippedy do da. ( And honestly at times it's that male...welp! Gotta go..only you get none of that, the arrogance factor that you'll be right where he left you.)

I agree ladies that the mature bulls men wouldn't behave this way so maybe it's just the immature ones, and also very important like the ladies said stay busy and go on with life. I did that I started dating again and just having pure fun and everytime the taurus text me it was like "Hey I am in Mexico on vacation I will talk to u later" or" Hey I am at this concert I will talk to you tomorrow" It makes him try so much harder 😉

^ LOL Drives him flat out bonkers is what it does.

Hope i can answer this, But I'm currently out of town and busy at work. 😢

Maybe a few days or so. But if you want to quickie, the common reason is that they're REALLY busy, and uttermost worst reason is they DONT like you anymore, there are literary hundreds of reasons why a Taurus Guy looses interest, the most common is they found your flaws to be unbearable and uncontainable that even if these Taur Guys try to adjust their view on it, it will still remain the same. But dont take it too lightly, when a Taurus Guy looses interest it ISN'T instant. It take a lot of weeks and even MONTHS of observation and testing, sleepless nights and time alone just to finalize the decision, not to mention the tears we shed remembering happy times. Remember LOVE for a Taurus is like air, we cant live w/o it, how much more will you think if loose the ones we love!?

Trust me. I've been ignoring a Scorp. Lady for Months, I saw her flaws and i just tried convince myself that its just a minor issue. As must as Scorp. Ladies are intense to LOVE, it also applies to what they HATE. A Taur Guy loves peace, the moment of silence, and Serenity. Hard to say, the Scorp. Ladie that was after me showed these positive capabilities. It was nice, but very brief. Soon after her impatience is irritating, her persistence to topple over her enemies are scary, also, shes very loud... when i mean loud I MEAN VERY LOUD.

I know after reading this, i may sound a very big DoucheBag, but face it. Its how I feel, and i would just like to let you ladies know, about it. Sorry about it. Hope no tears were shed. Because from the very beginning of this message I was really crying, and also I'm at Work.

~ OAB

P.S. Before thinking about the WORST REASON. ALWAYS, OMFG, ALWAYS RE-THINK OF RECONSIDERING THE COMMON REASON. PLEASE I BEG YOU 😢. For the sake of the name of LOVE.

Awwwwwwww......

*hugs OAB*

*mush mush* I love Tauruses...... so utterly romantic and sweet

OAB:
I didn't pressure him, nor did I exhibit any particularly obnoxious behavior.
We're talking now but I have moved elsewhere for work for a month or so. It could be good for us to have some distance and think it over.

We don't really know each other that well. We've only started seeing each other recently. And when I see him in person it's great. I suspect it's like what you said - he is busy working. I know it's true because he has a big project coming up.

I give him all the time and freedom in the world. I wait a couple of days before replying his emails. So I can write when I really have something to say. I'm not pushy or loud, I try to keep it down a bit around him because I don't want to freak him out. I feel that sometimes it's good for Scorpio females to learn some restraint. How can I tell him through email that I am interested without putting too much pressure on? Is there something I should or shouldn't do?

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Posted by kinderk

I am Scorpio Sun, Aries Moon, Venus in Libra and Mercury in Scorpio

OMG. she's practically my twin! 😕

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Whoa.

Taurus is pretty straight forward, if we like you we will come around BUT we don't want to do all the work as we want to know we are also wanted. We want the other party to show a strong interest.

if we feel like we are on this love path ourselves we pull wayyyy back to keep our feelings safe from hurt. If we start to doubt or feel like we are being played it's hard to get back to how it was at the beginning