Taurus man and virgo girl , confusing

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Clarismoris
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Im a virgo girl currently dating a taurus guy but separated

I have dated with this guy for 5 months. I would say we are quite sweet together when we hang out, but when we are not together, he doesnt communicate with me tht much. As a virgo girl, we need communication, either through text msg or phone. I always complain abt tht.

So, 2 weeks ago, i cant handle anymore, so i said i wanna move on. In the morning, he said he doesnt want me to leave him forever, he wants me... But then at night, he said im a nice girl, he doesnt want me to wait and feel sad. As he is very busy with his work.

Then after a day, he msged again like nothing happened, then we texted for 4 days, i feel bad, i need communication! I cant stand a guy ignore my msg for whole day! So, i asked him what does he want and also tell him tht i want a relationship. He said he also want a relationship but he has no time to handle now. Then i reply: u said give urself some time to think abt wht u want.

Then we stopped texting each other, after 5 days, he texted me a good morning.

I have already told me that i cant be fd with him becuz i liked him.

I really dont know what does he want!

Btw, in this 5 months, we just kissed on cheek...virgo girl is quite shy and wont tk the first move. And we never have sex, he said abt it, but when we hang out, we never do it.

Seeking for taurus suggestion an opinion.
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Posted by strudel
Posted by Geminlove
Taureans are the type of ppl who confidently flirt with every girl OTHER THAN the girl they like, they become retarded attention-seeking lil pups around their crush

this is true. i have no game when it matters. i'm like lebron in the 4th quarter. #chokes
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@strudel: why do you do that thoooo? It gets hella difficult for the girl if she DOES like you back, me and my bull....he liked me for 2 yrs and after i made my feels known he was still the same and it took him 6 MONTHS to confess :l y'all need to step up a little when it actually matters...
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Posted by strudel
Posted by Geminlove
Taureans are the type of ppl who confidently flirt with every girl OTHER THAN the girl they like, they become retarded attention-seeking lil pups around their crush

this is true. i have no game when it matters. i'm like lebron in the 4th quarter. #chokes



@strudel: why do you do that thoooo? It gets hella difficult for the girl if she DOES like you back, me and my bull....he liked me for 2 yrs and after i made my feels known he was still the same and it took him 6 MONTHS to confess :l y'all need to step up a little when it actually matters...
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I have already told him what i want and he knows my feeling clearly

After 5 days without texting each other, he msg me first yesterday and today also, but we didnt talk much, he said good morning, i said bk and said take an umbrella( it rains today,so) then he said thanks

So cold
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Posted by M143


Clarismoris,

I think I still go with your "'move on''. I was dating many taurus men. They are communicative.

After I left our home with hugs and kisses... it always have a back up msg from them...

and I was laughing on it... but they are complainer. I cannot stand.

My ex was like he can't stop messaging me that time. When I replied late... he told me I have to quit

my job. lmao.



Whats ur sign? He said he doesnt like to text or call, but he talks alot in person
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Posted by M143

I am Scorpio woman.

Taurus men have their own time to open up. If he said he doesn't like to text or call. then why not give

him time. Just ignore him... expect his complain if you do that.

That's how deal these men... they kept saying they are falling in love with me. lol.

I don't give up my identity just loving them.. Love is not ENOUGH.



Ignore him like not response completely? Or just reply him depends on how is he texting? Ifnhe is cold then give cold reply?


After he said thanks i didnt him...
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Posted by Clarismoris
Im a virgo girl currently dating a taurus guy but separated

I have dated with this guy for 5 months. I would say we are quite sweet together when we hang out, but when we are not together, he doesnt communicate with me tht much. As a virgo girl, we need communication, either through text msg or phone. I always complain abt tht.

So, 2 weeks ago, i cant handle anymore, so i said i wanna move on. In the morning, he said he doesnt want me to leave him forever, he wants me... But then at night, he said im a nice girl, he doesnt want me to wait and feel sad. As he is very busy with his work.

Then after a day, he msged again like nothing happened, then we texted for 4 days, i feel bad, i need communication! I cant stand a guy ignore my msg for whole day! So, i asked him what does he want and also tell him tht i want a relationship. He said he also want a relationship but he has no time to handle now. Then i reply: u said give urself some time to think abt wht u want.

Then we stopped texting each other, after 5 days, he texted me a good morning.

I have already told me that i cant be fd with him becuz i liked him.

I really dont know what does he want!

Btw, in this 5 months, we just kissed on cheek...virgo girl is quite shy and wont tk the first move. And we never have sex, he said abt it, but when we hang out, we never do it.

Seeking for taurus suggestion an opinion.



In my experience, Taurus guys do not like to text or talk on the phone much at all. It's usually short to the point answers, ie. "what do you want to do?", "where do you want to go?" etc. Instead, they are great at being supportive by doing things you need. Ie. you get a flat tire, you're stuck somewhere...they will come help you. You need them to pick up something, they will do it. Key is you have to tell them straight up.

Maybe try scheduling things to do with him and spend more time together...
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Posted by M143

Clarismoris,

reply depends on his text. If he is cold. then do same thing... he will surrender if he loves you.

Just be busy.. so when he complain, tell him, you were busy.

I read a book call why man marry bitches, and it said monkey sees monkey do. But i never do tht, im doing it now...

I saw something like the bull likes girl being active, so theres a week i always msg him.... But after a week i changed lol

At least i know he cant leave me i guess............he is not being hot, but at least he will be around.... And im not interested in other guys, so lets see what will be happened
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Clarismoris
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Clarismoris,

hahaha... that book. I was laughing on that.. Why man marry B!@ches...

My ex partner taurus kept on finding it for me... after he failed to find it and he bought for me an

''alchemist'' book.

and ooh when I gave him a cold shoulder... he yelled at me and called me B!@ch and I replied... showing

my in front of him and asked.. Do you like it? he was speechless.

Then i will keep doing monkey see monkey do, until he complains.... Right now im so scared to put more feeling toward him
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Posted by Clarismoris
Im a virgo girl currently dating a taurus guy but separated

I have dated with this guy for 5 months. I would say we are quite sweet together when we hang out, but when we are not together, he doesnt communicate with me tht much. As a virgo girl, we need communication, either through text msg or phone. I always complain abt tht.

So, 2 weeks ago, i cant handle anymore, so i said i wanna move on. In the morning, he said he doesnt want me to leave him forever, he wants me... But then at night, he said im a nice girl, he doesnt want me to wait and feel sad. As he is very busy with his work.

Then after a day, he msged again like nothing happened, then we texted for 4 days, i feel bad, i need communication! I cant stand a guy ignore my msg for whole day! So, i asked him what does he want and also tell him tht i want a relationship. He said he also want a relationship but he has no time to handle now. Then i reply: u said give urself some time to think abt wht u want.

Then we stopped texting each other, after 5 days, he texted me a good morning.

I have already told me that i cant be fd with him becuz i liked him.

I really dont know what does he want!

Btw, in this 5 months, we just kissed on cheek...virgo girl is quite shy and wont tk the first move. And we never have sex, he said abt it, but when we hang out, we never do it.

Seeking for taurus suggestion an opinion.



One word...

Friend-zoned......
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Posted by Clarismoris
Im a virgo girl currently dating a taurus guy but separated

I have dated with this guy for 5 months. I would say we are quite sweet together when we hang out, but when we are not together, he doesnt communicate with me tht much. As a virgo girl, we need communication, either through text msg or phone. I always complain abt tht.

So, 2 weeks ago, i cant handle anymore, so i said i wanna move on. In the morning, he said he doesnt want me to leave him forever, he wants me... But then at night, he said im a nice girl, he doesnt want me to wait and feel sad. As he is very busy with his work.

Then after a day, he msged again like nothing happened, then we texted for 4 days, i feel bad, i need communication! I cant stand a guy ignore my msg for whole day! So, i asked him what does he want and also tell him tht i want a relationship. He said he also want a relationship but he has no time to handle now. Then i reply: u said give urself some time to think abt wht u want.

Then we stopped texting each other, after 5 days, he texted me a good morning.

I have already told me that i cant be fd with him becuz i liked him.

I really dont know what does he want!

Btw, in this 5 months, we just kissed on cheek...virgo girl is quite shy and wont tk the first move. And we never have sex, he said abt it, but when we hang out, we never do it.

Seeking for taurus suggestion an opinion.



One word...

Friend-zoned......
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Not exactly at friend zone?_? he will pay for me every dinner. Sometimes i tried to give him half of the money, he said no and ask me why u give me?

Sometimes i buy something , he will just grab it and pay for me

And we will hug like gf and bf

He did hold my hand but only at the cinema
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This guy is confused...he doesn't know what he wants. It sounds like he's not "in" and definitely is not "out." I don't see anything in his actions that say he wants you to disappear. He's just not sure what he wants...in my opinion at-least.

Be careful though. I think earth likes to feel 99.9% sure about a person or situation, and he seems on the fence. Wish you luck with it all.
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Posted by Clarismoris
I cant stand a guy ignore my msg for whole day!



*rolls eyes*

He is trying to let you down easily..He is being pretty straight forward about it but you just won't take the (not so subtle) hint.

Let him go. He'll ice you out if you keep demanding.

Btw I have no clue why you thought you were "dating", but it seems you weren't.
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We were dating, we would meet like once or twice a week, dinner or movie... He held my hand once when we meet up, but then we didnt during the hang out time.

He also held my hand like in the cinema, in the taxi......

Mostly of the time when i leave, we hugged like several minutes.... Not like a fd hug or gdbye hug.

Im letting him go, but recently i feel like he is testing me, he always say good morning then no more msg...i would reply him but not texting him first, becuz i feel so scared.

Now im feeling so confused and scared.

I still like him, but im so scared if i go bk into tht again, i have to go through all the things again... I had sleeping problem at tht time
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Posted by lnana04
This guy is confused...he doesn't know what he wants. It sounds like he's not "in" and definitely is not "out." I don't see anything in his actions that say he wants you to disappear. He's just not sure what he wants...in my opinion at-least.

Be careful though. I think earth likes to feel 99.9% sure about a person or situation, and he seems on the fence. Wish you luck with it all.

Yes i know he doesnt want me to go, becuz he would still text me in the morning.. But i know he is not tht into me at this moment... And right now im so scared to input more feeling into it.

Time will tell, at this moment, i will let him go... Im also earth sign, but i just cant understand him
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@Clarismoris.....

I believe you were friend-zoned. I'm not attempting to use condescending contexts or dry humor to insinuate the both of you didn't share some romantic moments.

This occurs with earth/earth sign pairings more often than you think. It can either progress into a blossoming relationship of unconditional love and mutual understanding OR it can lie still and lifeless, emotions fleeting, with TOO much familiarity....leading into a brotherly sister vibe instead.

Something tells me the latter happened to you.

I don't believe you did anything wrong. Just being yourself actually. But keep in mind these men are Venusian, some flirting, and light physical touches will deter that friend-zone engine from railing in your direction real quick!

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@Clarismoris.....

I believe you were friend-zoned. I'm not attempting to use condescending contexts or dry humor to insinuate the both of you didn't share some romantic moments.

This occurs with earth/earth sign pairings more often than you think. It can either progress into a blossoming relationship of unconditional love and mutual understanding OR it can lie still and lifeless, emotions fleeting, with TOO much familiarity....leading into a brotherly sister vibe instead.

Something tells me the latter happened to you.

I don't believe you did anything wrong. Just being yourself actually. But keep in mind these men are Venusian, some flirting, and light physical touches will deter that friend-zone engine from railing in your direction real quick!



What should i do now? Should i just let him go? 😢
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I dont think i should get any confusion right now...this is the thing i analysed abt the thing he said these days and it said it all.......

These day im thinking abt the things u have said.... So, u want to hv a relationship but no time to handle now, but at the same time u wanna sleep with me, but u have said that u will do it with gf only... But u cant hv a relationship now < i send him this msg

And it also made me very clear abt everything

Thanks everyone gave me reply
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Hello Strudel,

Then why bulls kept doing that? when you kept repeating and doesn't working.. don't call it ''Insanity''

it's ''Insecurity''.

Yeah my bull told me..

Mr. Bull: M, I don't love you. I lied.

Me: Stared in his eyes... Ok... and drank the whole Carlo Rossi..

Mr. Bull: Get up. Get up...

Me: (Feeling weak..) why?

Mr. Bull: I cooked for you.. Go to the kitchen. Here's the medicine so you don't have headache tomorrow. Why are you drinking?

Me: Just I deal my Adversity.

Mr. Bull: *Staring at me*

After a 2 weeks. Seen each other...

Mr. Bull: helpless.. saying.. M, that was love...

Me: * did not talk*

Mr. Bull: M, that was love...

Me: Bull.... enough....

Then silence....until I left.
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Posted by M143

Clarismoris,

Any uppdate from your Taurus man?



Update is............ Im still stuck with this person! I hate myself!

So he replied me the next day, say: i didnt say that i wanna sleep with u without relationship. And i have already told u, if i just wanna sleep with u, i would have already done tht

Daaaaaaaa...gosh.......i wish he doesnt msg me anymore, or ignore me

Well, these days he still send me good morning msg, and when i ask him how was his sleep... Then he told me he was not feeling well these days

He is so complicated
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Clarismoris,

Just respond casually. My ex Taurus and I still emailing each other and still he adores me.

Give him time. Flirt with him consistently. He will like that... until he cannot help but

love you. I had once a Taurus man behave like your Taurus man..it took me a year to get his

love... he confessed that he cannot help it but loving me. I did not do anything other than

staring at him and wink (biting my lips) and smile...

Just go with his flow. Dress feminine. put a slight make up. do it.

Don't be discourage. Dating can be fun...
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Posted by M143

Clarismoris,

Just respond casually. My ex Taurus and I still emailing each other and still he adores me.

Give him time. Flirt with him consistently. He will like that... until he cannot help but

love you. I had once a Taurus man behave like your Taurus man..it took me a year to get his

love... he confessed that he cannot help it but loving me. I did not do anything other than

staring at him and wink (biting my lips) and smile...

Just go with his flow. Dress feminine. put a slight make up. do it.

Don't be discourage. Dating can be fun...




Let see..... I may not be tht patient... Lol


What is ur sign btw