Taurus man disappearing on me...

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by sjocelyn on Tuesday, February 21, 2017 and has 3 replies.

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@sjocelyn
9 Years

so im a Cancer woman. ive been seeing/ dating my Taurus on/off for 7 months now. btw i love Tauruses ! their charm & humor. they have their flaws but no one is perfect. my Taurus has just been confusing the hell out of me. we could be great for a couple months , spend time together when he can (his work schedule is crazy busy) and our sex is amazing. than he falls off for weeks. its happened 3 times already. kind of like turn into "friends" again via text if theres even any texting. but we always rekindle & were on like nothing had happened before. at this point idk if i should just dead it because , these disappearing acts are starting to get old and annoying. ive heard they move slow sometimes when it comes to getting into a relationship. but idk if im just something convenient for him or if he really does like me. the very FEW times hes opened up to me he reminds me why he likes me & how good of a girl i am , ect. its been a while since hes expressed his feelings. but he's a guy , i dont really sweat that part. i just know we have a strong connection. so idk what to do ! idk if these are games or if hes really playing with my emotions. feels like a roller coaster.

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@AgentP911
12 Years1,000+ Posts

I'm sure he likes you but you're not in an exclusive relationship. You're just seeing each other and having sex. He probably doesn't see where there's a problem.

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@tcta
10 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by AgentP911
I'm sure he likes you but you're not in an exclusive relationship. You're just seeing each other and having sex. He probably doesn't see where there's a problem.

he might see it as exclusive - we don't know what he thinks or why he does what he does - so why don't you just find a way to ask him @OP ? and then you will know what you want and/or need to do with what he can and/or can't give to the relationship or whatever it is that needs defined