Taurus man interested or filling time?

Hi all,

I recently was contacted by a taurus man i used to date briefly (but we had major argument and didn't speak for 2 years!) asking me out of a drink.

We met and have been seeing eachother since (although not in a "relationship"), however the communication seems good this time and I have made it clear that while we are both seeing how things go I won't accept this as a friends with benefits type thing or other people in the picture. He said is in agreement and to see how things develop.

Now he has been pursuing me and contacting me an awful lot over the last few weeks, but suddenly has disappeared (he says he is busy with work). I have a tendancy not to trust people (men) so although I am initially suspicious, I have played it cool and said I will catch up with him when he is free next week.

Is there anything in our charts that suggest good or bad for this connection? I don't mind being patient for someone who is serious, but not if I am just seen as something to kill time with.

Me

Sun Leo 11.23 Ascendant Pisces 18.16
Moon Aries 7.32 II Taurus 10.39
Mercury Virgo 8.15 III Gemini 6.48
Venus Cancer 1.14 IV Gemini 25.31
Mars Gemini 11.49 V Cancer 13.22
Jupiter Gemini 26.57 VI Leo 5.53
Saturn Leo 19.12 VII Virgo 18.16
Uranus Scorpio 7.50 VIII Scorpio 10.39
Neptune Sagittarius 13.30 R IX Sagittarius 6.48
Pluto Libra 11.56 Midheaven Sagittarius 25.31
Lilith Gemini 11.27 XI Capricorn 13.22
Asc node Libra 17.23 XII Aquarius 5.53

Him

Sun Taurus 27.36 Ascendant Leo 25.07
Moon Leo 8.33 II Virgo 13.31
Mercury Taurus 9.03 III Libra 8.11
Venus Cancer 3.20 IV Scorpio 11.24
Mars Cancer 3.47 V Sagittarius 21.25
Jupiter Capricorn 7.28 R VI Capricorn 27.14
Saturn Gemini 8.17 VII Aquarius 25.07
Uranus Libra 14.40 R VIII Pisces 13.31
Neptune Sagittarius 4.04 R IX Aries 8.11
Pluto Virgo 29.27 R Midheaven Taurus 11.24
Lilith Scorpio 9.24 XI Gemini 21.25
Asc node Capricorn 28.04 XII Cancer 27.14

He prolly wants you to take some initiative with contact. They grow tired of initiating because they aren't true initiators. They want to see your actions and if you really care

From my exeperience its all a game. They love the excitment of a chase and once they have you contacting them, they lose interest quickly. As a Cancer I dont do well with the constant wondering and knowing he knows im wondering. Its exhausting. Ive recently told him very nicely that i cant do it anymore. His reply was cold. "sounds good" this sign comes with pain for me. Im running!!!