Taurus Man, Libra Woman... Tinder rebound gone wrong

@OP- Yeah tinder is cool to meet friends or fwb but as for finding love and a connection you should slow your roll on tinder and let it come to you in person. Do you have school, do you work, do you go to libraries, museums, art, tattoo or food expos. It will come because he probably has harems and isn't that serious for long term relationship atm.

And posting on a social media and you really having pics up of your ex is a no go for Taurus..

Don't apologize you guys are just friends to begin with. Nothing was set in stone or communication of relationship status with each other was not really serious or brought up.. The both of you aren't really ready for nothing. To be honest. Let him go and your ex. You know Taurus get possessive so if Taurus is really working hard at life, he doesn't want to see pictures of you and someone else especially your ex of social media.

Not sure if I tagged you correctly but that was @firstdecantaurianwomen0428

Posted by Denisemay
I am a Libra woman who was in a long term relationship that ended earlier this year. I downloaded tinder and quickly deleted it.. But not before I found a Taurus guy that I found interesting. We texted every day and he added me on snapchat and Instagram. Turns out we have a lot of mutual friends too.

We talked for weeks about our lives and futures. It was great until he would go for like 10 hours without messaging back. And that would've been okay if he hadn't been saying that he wasn't busy that day. I'm not sure if that's normal Taurus behavior or If he was just playing games. Nonetheless, he would initiate every conversation. Then he asked me on a date and our schedules didn't match up. In fact, he went out of town and went to see a "girl friend" the same weekend that I went to see my ex.

Long story short, my ex and I ended up back together. He and the girl did not. It didn't take me long to realize that I had only made this decision because I was comfortable with my ex... So I ended up breaking it off for good. But not before the Taurus guy saw us together on social media...

After the break up, i waited some time and apologized to the Taurus for not explaining anything about my ex or even formally telling him that we were going to try again. He thanked me for my apology and said he wasn't hurt. He said he wondered what he did wrong at first but just belittled everything by saying "we met on tinder anyway so it's not a big deal".. We talked a little more, he was opening up to me about some things that were going on in his life, and then he just stopped responding.

I've initiated a few more conversations since and he does the same thing... He'll engage me, have an interesting chat, and then just stop cold. But at the same time he's watching all of my snapchat stories and liking all of my Instagram pictures and told me he would stay in touch.. I'm so confused.

We are both from the same town but right now, we're across the world for school. He returns home in a month and I come back early next year. I am past the rebounding phase and truly over my ex.. I kinda liked this guy and I just don't know how I'm supposed to fix it. Is he just a player and emotionally unavailable or was he put off by everything with my ex? The silence is driving me nuts... I like to talk through my thoughts and he's not like that... AT ALL.

Just so we're clear, I haven't been with my ex for months now and I first apologized to the Taurus guy about a month
ago.

This sentence! "we met on tinder anyway so it's not a big deal" means you and he were looking for hookup(remember people see Tinder as a site to look for hookup) so it doesnt matter if you and he doesnt date or such.

@OP- Just go to places as I mentioned above, no doubt you will find someone else least expected, not so on any dating site.. Lol it's good you have goals, so what's the rush for?

Lol. I am not far from LA there's lots to do out there..

Good luck to you and Happy Thanksgiving..