scorpioisfire
@scorpioisfire
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Taurus man suddenly opens up ... I am shocked!
He's not sure about you or what he wants, but the bottom line is he is not ready to be % 100 with you.
That's how they are. They are either on full mode with you (with the decision clear in their mind) or off & on.
Idk if talking will help. If he feels pressure from you he may just back off more. I haven't heard of many good things coming from a talk with them regarding this behavior. He may have told you that so you would understand where he is at in his life. He may think he's already explained things. That's another thing, they don't like to explain their actions. Explaining their actions = negativity which = you not understanding them which makes him need to retreat and process whether you are the right one for him. I get this from my T, he expects me to know what's going on in his head and gets upset when I don't see what is so clear to him. Thankfully, I am psychic 😛
That's how they are. They are either on full mode with you (with the decision clear in their mind) or off & on.
Idk if talking will help. If he feels pressure from you he may just back off more. I haven't heard of many good things coming from a talk with them regarding this behavior. He may have told you that so you would understand where he is at in his life. He may think he's already explained things. That's another thing, they don't like to explain their actions. Explaining their actions = negativity which = you not understanding them which makes him need to retreat and process whether you are the right one for him. I get this from my T, he expects me to know what's going on in his head and gets upset when I don't see what is so clear to him. Thankfully, I am psychic 😛
If I were you, I 'd just be an understanding friend. Give him space. Let him come to you. If you text, don't say, 'why haven't I heard from you.' Say, Hi, I miss you, I'm here for you anytime.
"If I were him, I would NOT tell things like these to my gf of one year..."
There's your sign.
He bared his soul to you and told you something he probably hasn't told many,if any others.
that's extremely hard for us.he's been carrying this thing around with him for what I assume a long time.
we are very private people,our burdens are our burdens and we don't wear them around for people to see.
he most likely feels very naked and exposed right now,and although you cried for him...he wonders if he should have told you and if it affects how you see him.
hell,I sometimes reveal very small inconsequential bits of myself here on dxp,then immediately hide them....
because I'm a private person.
just leave him alone for now about it and act normal.he'll work through it and be back to normal.
also,you should understand if he told you this thing he trusts you and loves you.let that be enough for now. 😉
There's your sign.
He bared his soul to you and told you something he probably hasn't told many,if any others.
that's extremely hard for us.he's been carrying this thing around with him for what I assume a long time.
we are very private people,our burdens are our burdens and we don't wear them around for people to see.
he most likely feels very naked and exposed right now,and although you cried for him...he wonders if he should have told you and if it affects how you see him.
hell,I sometimes reveal very small inconsequential bits of myself here on dxp,then immediately hide them....
because I'm a private person.
just leave him alone for now about it and act normal.he'll work through it and be back to normal.
also,you should understand if he told you this thing he trusts you and loves you.let that be enough for now. 😉
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Please share your thoughts! THANKS!!