
tresdynamiques
@tresdynamiques
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Posted by DMVplanned parenthood is a great thing this needs to be taught in schools tooo
I think its fabulous that he's discussing the future.
However.
How many single mothers and fathers do we have to see before we all get more serious aboutul commitment and children.
There is no absolute certainty that a man or husband will stay with you after or before a child.
Doesnt mean that you cant increase your odds for a successful outcome.
Stable finances
Stable commitment
Stable living conditions
Marriage





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We saw each other two months ago and had a birth control mishap that resulted in a chemical pregnancy (i.e. early miscarriage). When I told him I was worried about how I was feeling and what I was afraid was happening, he said "well, if it happens, it happens, I guess I'm moving sooner than we thought". He told me whatever happened, we'd get through it.
He also told me that it doesn't matter if I'm on birth control or not; it wouldn't stop him from making love to me exactly the way he wants to.
My bull has never given me a reason to doubt him or not to trust him... is this his way of telling me he WANTS a baby with me? I'm confused because I'm so used to men balking at the idea of pregnancy but he is completely calm about it. I might not be able to get back on my birth control due to insurance issues and I'm worried about the outcome if I can't, because if he's not serious, chances are VERY HIGH that we'll conceive again. I've already had twins!
I want children with him too, but I'm worried about the timing. I don't know if he genuinely will just be fine with it either way (whether I end up pregnant prematurely or not), or if he was trying to make me calmer when I was going through the chemical pregnancy stuff. Thoughts?