Taurus man x Aquarius woman trouble :/

I think you should trust your gut. Bulls tend to lust after the other fixed signs and vice versa, but it doesn't seem to work too well unless there are alot of other areas of compatibility, which you would probably be aware of by now. I think Taurus man/Aqua female would be the worst fixed/fixed pairing imaginable. IMO, we are waaaay too possessive/jealous and have very different views on what life is all about; longterm he'll see you as some sort of strange compulsive partygoing circus hobo and you'll feel suffocated, controlled, and bored to death consigned to the couch every night. Exaggerating, but still...lol.

Posted by aquariver
Which as an aquarius woman never bothered me because the whole titles thing is still a bit scary. I guess it's my less evolved side lol.

Posted by aquariver
He was dating two girls in between that time one from his hometown and another from california. Over the summer he kept trying to contact me. Calling, texting, but I just wasn't interested. I mean, I was, but the distance and lack of communication prior made me feel like "ehh what's the point?"

Posted by aquariver
We decided to pick up where we left off from there.

click to expand

Your words..not his
Aquariver...what is it that you want?
You appear as a walking contradiction.
You don't want a relationship, or care for labels, or a long distance relationship, but you want to see where it goes...with no exclusivity just yet, but he's not allowed to keep his options open.

Is that what you're asserting?

Correct me if I'm wrong.

There are a million hot/cold, disappearing acts on this thread that is introduced with biased undertones.

Especially where the Bull appears to be the alleged culprit.

Start out how you're going to keep out.

It's all or nothing with Bulls.

If you don't want exclusivity or 'labels' from a possessive Bull, my advice, play your position as a potential FWB.

Don't over-analyze his intentions/actions with other women, you will give yourself a mental brain freeze. If the both of you are not exclusive, it's really none of your business.

@Aquariver....

A few questions....

1. How long were the two of you exclusive?
2. Are the two of you still involved in a long distance relationship? If so, how often do either of you commute to see each other?

I can't speak for all Bulls. Personally, I don't require a lot of attention, but I do crave lots of affection and physical intimacy in a relationship. this may be a dilemma for him.

He asked YOU for exclusivity, not the Leo woman in his hometown.

If I had to take an educated guess on this, I would assume that the LDR may be a problem, and this Leo may offer some physical benefits to the situation. Will the physical aspect of the relationship progress to an exclusive relationship with him and this Leo, I highly doubt it.

But you do not want this Bull to have his cake and eat it too.

My advice, Investigate....

If you don't think your relationship is going to work with him and that he's not meeting your needs and he might not be entirely fulfilled or happy with what he has with you then you have your answer: you two would have to both work very hard to make it work and maybe you're not a great match. Never stay in a situation that might end in resentment. Not worth it.

It's so weird I have not experienced Bulls to be the disappear type. They are very solid and very clear. But they hate emotional drama, so if they've explained it to you and you don't get it, only after much time will they THEN cut you out....

AKA
If you act crazy!

lol.

Bulls are Bulls.... just play their BS to their face.

and it's true they are possessive and jealous. I was bored sitting the whole day every week end

in the couch and just eating and watching...lol. Taurus thing.

Posted by M143

and it's true they are possessive and jealous. I was bored sitting the whole day every week end

in the couch and just eating and watching...lol. Taurus thing.

Lol!!
give 'em fiery HOT cheetos. Light a fire under their butt.