I m a Virgo woman in love with a Taurus man since I was 15 going on 16 years old. He was turning 18 at the time. I am now 20 will 21 in a month. I have tried time and time to get over him but he's my first love. I still love him and I'm sure he loves me but it just seems like the timing is always wrong. So much has happened within 8 years of knowing him- He had a child right when we started talking, I ended up going to foster care, we've dates others here and there, I've moved away and come back a few times and now stay in another state again but visit home often. he's working on stability, I'm working on stability but in the midst I want him to realize that we can still do that together! Our communication is weak and we used to be so open. I feel like I'm the midst of life I've lost my best friend and that hurts. Things have always been off and on with us. When I asked why we'd broken up he said he doesn't remember and maybe we were young and weird lol. Now I'm 21, him 23 and I feel things could be a whole lot better this time around. How do I plead my case (that I still have his best interest, I still love him dearly, and that I am still loyal & he has my heart, and that We could really do great things together) all while to trying to force it on him, or strain our already estranged relationship further? He won't go too long without contacting me so I know that he still cares. This is hard :/ I'm not trying to get married tomorrow but I want him to put his trust in me. I hope he's not an out of sight out of mind type of person but I don't believe that. The love is still there and I just want things to be back simple and fulfilling like they were when we were younger...
