Taurus & Virgo - Games?

Hi everyone! Im new posting here but I've stumbled upon this site quite a bit but until now hadn't felt the need to post myself. I need some advice! I'm a Virgo female dating a Tauruss male. We are doing fine, but had a rough week and I really want to understand the dynamic of this relationship better because it really does mean so so much to me. My walls are down (miraculously) and I'm terrified of getting my heart smashed. So, I guess first I'll post our natal info

Him (May 10, 1988 Jacksonville, FL 7:30am)
Sun Taurus
Asc Gemini
Moon Pisces
Mercury Gemini
Venus Gemini
Mars Aquarius

Me (Sept 7, 1988 El Paso, TX 11:45pm)
Sun Virgo
Asc Gemini
Moon Leo
Mercury Libra
Venus Leo
Mars Aries

We fell in love so fast! We have amazing conversations about everything under the sun. We dont really have that typical boring earthy thing due to our gemini ascendants. We have a blast in each other's company. He set the pace for our relationship. We've been seeing each other for about a month. He pursued me, absolutely. He has a 10 month old boy to whom he is a fantastic father. The past week was rough for both of us individually. We have yet to have any sort of arguement. The relationship is so new but we both feel how stable and secure it has the potential to be. The mother of his child has caused an amazing amount of drama. Just a background, she is an uninterested mother, cocaine addict, alcoholic, stripper (shes a pisces). Through all of the drama, he and I look at each other and laugh. We're unshakable, it feels. Anyway, this past weekend I was shaken.
He comes to see me at work multiple times a day just to chit chat. I work 75 hours a week so all of my free time has naturally been going to him. We are neighbors, there are many mornings he couldnt wait to see me so he would come wake me up. calls and texts all day. Great communication. He confessed his love for me first. He always says how he'd like to do things in the future with me, build a life with me, etc. so crazy to me that im not wanting to run the other way! It feels right!geez, I can tell im scattered right now -_- sorry guys! Anywho, his venus is gemini, mars in aquarius has me a little nervous. I KNOW he is sincere when he tells me how he feels. Im worried about his changing his mind. anyway, trying make a long story short, Friday he was a little distant and off. He still came to see me, even picked me up from work (which entails him taking my bicycle apart and put in his car (cont

And brought me home, but something was off. When I asked him about it he reassured me everything was fine with US. He had a lot of baby mama drama (constantly threatening he'll never see his son again), family issues and his business isnt doing well and as a taurus, thas a big big deal. He told me the tension was a speed bump before a highway and the feelings are there, not going anywhere. He told me he would never just up and disappear and just stop talking to me. I had a Horrible feeling.The next day I didnt see or hear from him at all. Sunday I texted him explaining the Complete lack of communication was unfair. He replied and said he'd talk to me the next day, Monday. The following day he came to see me at work. He explained his state of extreme discomfort all around. He apologized for disappearing but he knew if he didnt he would have run me off and been very mean and he knew it would be easier apologizing for what he did. he said he wants a fresh start but all the feelings are still there. I guess im just wondering if hed be inclined to being abusive when things get rough if he felt so sure he'd act inappropriately. everything is the way it was, but feels like we took a step back. Im very excited about the fresh start, being leonian in love, I love falling in love 🙂 hes come to see me four times today already and even took my bike to change the fork and handle bars to something that would be more comfortable 🙂 I love him so much. I guess im just wondering if anyone has any advice or experiences similar to this?
I hope this made sense. Its not easy typing all this on a phone while constantly being interrupted due to obligatory work duties 😉