Taurus woman Aquarius man

Can anybody give me any insight as to the compatibility of the Taurus woman and Aquarius man. I have a very close friendship with a Taurean woman, and I have been pondering over whether I should take things further. I know she likes me, but whenever I read up on the matter I'm left disheartened by the all the negative reports. (as per usual it wouild seem it's the Aquauian who's the problem here) so I just wondered if any of you are in such a relationship and are getting along fine. If not I won't pursue the matter any further for fear of upsetting her. I understand the differences between Aquarius and Taurus, but she is the first Taurean woman I have ever met and I feel quite different about her compared to any of my ex partners.

Check out both your planets to better determine compatibility, but don't worry about astrology so much and just go for it!

I agree with LadyM, give it a go. I have many dear Aquarians in my life. My mother, my daughter and friends that can make me laugh so hard I might wet myself. And one I really should have went out with years ago! A lot of couples the world over that are 'supposedly' incompatible seem to be getting on just fine. 🙂

As a Taurus woman just starting a new relationship with an aquarius man, I'd say take a chance. No promises that it's going to be easy, but then again, no relationships are. Understanding, patience, and communication are the key factors. Just remember, Taurus women need to feel secure. If you aren't willing to give a little of your freedom to give her some security, then it's going to be a much harder walk.

What Lady_M said, check out the other planets for sure. Cafeastrology.com is a great site, just plug in your birth info and your set. Your Taurus lady friend may even have an Aqua moon, who knows 🙂 Sun/moon conjunctions will make two people feel in-sync right away. I personally have Aquarius in the 7th house, Aries moon and Uranus in the 5th house - so I get along with you guys great. It helps when they have some water in their chart. Goodluck with whatever you decide to do! Even if it doesn't work out, you'll have a stable, reliable and supportive friend for life. Just take it slooow! And always be honest and direct. We appreciate that more than people probably realize.

As a taurus woman who loved and dealt with an aquarius man on/off for the past 12 years, I would say NO to this relationship. (Sorry for the negativity)

Typical aquarius nature is aloof, non-conformist, and non-committal. Taurus' love stability, tradition, routine, tried/true experiences, and they also strive for love, security, and happy homelife. Because of this, there is a lot of tension/friction between the two. Taurus gets upset and tries to communicate problems and suggestions for success. Aquarians don't deal well with conflict/too much communication, and it is their tendency to retreat/pull away "until the coast is clear." This doesn't work for the Taurus who will keep going until a resolution is achieved. This becomes a one-sided relationship wherein the Taurus seems to give more, and the Aquarius tends to pull away due to work, new exciting adventures/opportunities, and their normal aloof nature.

On the other hand, these two can have and enjoy exciting adventures together (trips, outings, dinner, etc) and can relate/discuss current event topics.

Sorry to be the negative response, however, as the hurt taurus girl, just wanted to give you insight to how you (smile) Aquarius' generally become after a few months into the taurus/aquarius relationship.

Hope this helps

@ben rio,

she's depressed and/or doesn't want to be with you?

so uhm...like bella said, why is she still in your bed? if she's that worthless, why are you two still together?

oh and i just realized that you're an aqua. hmm...read some of my other posts. i feel like an aqua expert having fallen in love with one and befriending him for 8 years thereafter. he's definitely one of my best friends. he's someone that i know will be around until the day one of us croaks. whenever he achieves a milestone in his life, i'm amongst the first to know...i used to think he was rubbing it in my face but i think he adds me to that circle bcuz he can be ridiculously happy around me without feeling awkward. our friendship and affection for one another is genuine and it took A LOT of battle scars for us to get to this point. with that said...

i dont think i could ever date him again. even the thought of it makes me sad. to know that this person is truly an amazing individual, that you clique on so many levels and yet, you're better off not dating. i'm fire (technically earth), he's ice (technically wind) and knowing he will maintain his cool/aloof/distant exterior no matter what is rather depressing. accepting that you're with someone who will never be able to truly make you feel loved (in the way a taurean with an aries moon would expect), sucks.

the other problem i have with him is knowing that at anytime, when he decides that he needs space, he could leave. and where i've come to realize how important his spacial needs are and how demanding/needy i can be, even if we did curb our natures, we are who we are. in a way, i get the feeling that he will and can leave and that breaks taurus rule #1 - security.

so if she's in bed all day and you're pissed off washing dishes, maybe you should go into the bedroom, put your arms around her and tell her that you care about her. that you want your relationship to work but that it hurts you that she's not helping around the house more. ask her if she's ok. ask her what she's feeling. and here's the tricky part....

if she starts to tell you, don't put up that classic aqua wall. if you have to, just give her a hug. if she cries, don't try to make her stop crying. my ex thought when i cried it meant he had to do everything to stop the tears when in reality, all he had to do was what he'd been doing all along...listen. words and cool, detached rational answers don't always make things better. a hug...a kiss...a "i'm here for you" can go a long way.

if i were in bed for an extended period of time and my SO spent more time concerned about the dishes than me, i'd sleep too.

And erm, excuse me! Being a lazy cow has nothing to DO with the sign, it's all in how they were raised. Or maybe something else is going on like clinical depression.

However! the advice you gave guys should be of some use so I thank you all galdly. Ben

I never thought she was in your bed Ben, I was just wondering what was going on in the womans life that kept her in bed all the time. I can only speak for myself but that would make me CRAZY.

lol @ben rio...you are such an aquarius dude. too cute!

just remember she's as stubborn as you if not more. the difference is, she's aware of it...most aquas seem oblivious to it.

in your bed or not, maybe if you want to get her to wash the dishes you need to remember that taureans love to make love. put down the dish towel, head to the bedroom and try something different. instead of trying to put her in any one of 50 positions (aqua style ), try slow, sensual, passionate love. if you're not sure how to, read up on leo (your opposite), you'll learn a lot...trust me 😉

if you're the strong, silent type...remember, it's ok to be vocal. hold her close, whisper sweet nothings while you remind her how manly you are and that she WANTS to follow you.

when you're done with your slow, sensual love-making, ask her to make you something. be sure it's something that requires her to wash a dish. if the bowls are dirty, ask for some soup. if it's plates, ask for a sandwich...fish n chips, yorkshire pudding...somethin!

she'll happily mosey on to the kitchen to satisfy your tummy (and hers) the way you so wonderfully just satisfied her...stuff.

ok guys many thanks for the advice (sexy when upset lol I like that one) I'll go and see her today.