taurus women

Are taurus women cold? I'm new to the astrology world. Don't know much about it, my taurus friend was the one who introduced me to it. I'm still not sure how I feel about it.
Just curious, why my taurus friend seems so inflexible sometimes, and other times shes so sweet. She changes, I miss the sweet her... when she's mad its like she'll go to extremes and block people or cut them out of her life, is this typical behavior? this seems petty to me and sometime shell just disappear for like a month or two or even more, she does this alot, hot and cold, cold and hot. are tauruses worth the effort to figure out?

does she want me to chase her?

Posted by Heart
Taurus is slow to build trust. Trust is important. If you move too quickly or expect to establish a relationship after the first date she might withdraw- even if she has feelings for you. They also don't show their feelings, and our feelings our extreme.

By my guess you're likely a fire sun, right? This thread might help:

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/taurus/how-are-tauruses-confusing-to-other-signs-5921878/

thanks for your reply, I'm a libra.
Yes, she withdrawals like a drug addict, one minute she loves you, the next, she needs space for like an entire month. So confusing, idk if i should leave her be and come back or leave her alone for good. Does taurus express feeling with actions or words?

Do you know her moon sign? Or her date of birth?

@ Op- How did you guys meet?
How old are you both?
And have you asked if she is seeing anyone? what did she say literally.
I can be hot and cold literally and distance myself if I am not that interested. I can be all up on you or not because I feel what I sense is right or wrong at the time. I sense vibes more so though lately.. You really have to catch a Taurian's eye. . I am Mercury in Taurus too. I do both actions and words. Your actions are higher though but not too overly aggressive or forward. I want to control that..

@OP- I mean not into control but a steady pace on purpose. I do like my independence and space and always looking for that one friend that can deal with me and visa versa. When you put title to everyone or thing it can be nerve wrecking and more expectations.

Even though I may act that I am not interested in someone. Its just I am terrified of opening up once again and it not working out for whatever reason. I can detach like your friend. I have an air moon maybe she does too or Venus in Air/Mutable.

I'm a Taurus woman and don't feel that I run hot & cold at all. But like the Taurus lady you mentioned, I do sometimes need time to distance myself and process things. It's nothing personal against the other person. I wouldn't say all Taurean women are like this either. Most are friendly and many lighthearted and fun especially if the have planets in neighboring Gemini or Aries.

She's cautious. That's all. She may like you but doesn't want her heart broken orrrr she likes you but you have a tendency to put your foot in your mouth or flirt with other girls.

Because you said you're a Libra, do you come on really strong? How do you flirt with her? I suggest you be her friend first.

Posted by Season
I'm a Taurus woman and don't feel that I run hot & cold at all. But like the Taurus lady you mentioned, I do sometimes need time to distance myself and process things. It's nothing personal against the other person. I wouldn't say all Taurean women are like this either. Most are friendly and many lighthearted and fun especially if the have planets in neighboring Gemini or Aries.

+10808

I do run hot and cold.But um,I don't think you should be assuming that she likes you.Our going hot and cold isn't only limited to our love interest.Infact,initially,I won't do hot and cold that often and for that long for a love interest.Maybe she considers you just a friend?
And inflexible,no,I can be but ver rarely.I'm open to suggestions and opinions.
Nor do I block ppl in a fit of rage.Naah.I just don't care about insignificant ppl.But yeah,if you're very close to me and I'm genuinely hurt,I will.That's how I'll cope up with too much hurting.I've conditioned myself to not react impulsively.

@Ilovemyaqua - Yeah I get like that too. But I am inflexible and flexible though pros and cons of the Metal Rooster it's in my personality to whether I should be flexible and not. I actually over think and analysis a lot too metal rooster and Virgo in the 3rd. At everything or being.... I also need not to be impulsive truly...

When I'm sweet, I'm addictive & sweet.
When I need space to re-energize and internally process things, I need room to breathe.
I'm cautious. I need absolute certainty before I move forward. Having strong feelings for you alone, isn't enough.
I need to see my entire future in your eyes.
I'm emotionally unpredictable.
I'm an introvert.

I don't think I run hot or cold, I'm either in and I mean all in or not even a toe in the water, but I can make these decisions pretty quickly. Doesn't mean Ill tell you I made that decision, but Ill know pretty quickly if I'm going to go for it or not - then I start slowly and let me stress slowly, working you into my life. I do need my space though - I have a Scorpio moon.

They are a very confused sign. Very hard to understand. So much to write about them. Every personality is different, however this sign has this trait. I believe they just need to find themselves before they get involved with anyone. As we should all at a time in our life realize who and what we are made of is ready to be shared with like minded.